Will geminis still be your friend........?

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scorpio272
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I have a big crush on this Gemini that I am seeing. I love her and tell her everything that I have never told anybody else before. The problem is that she is in a relationship already. We are good friends and she is worried that we would not be good friends afterwards if things turn sour. I can assure her that they won't. I will always like her for who she is. Also she had told me that she fears that if I love her and she does not love me back then I will hate her. I feel that is not so. What is going on here? Is she just giving me the run around? I asked her if she would give me a chance to love her? I got no response. Should I give up? Or does she like me but is afraid to end her relationship? I can't figure it out. If you know scorpios then you know how hard it is for us to give up especially when we want something.

Just one more thing. She tells me that she doesn't want to spend the rest of her life with her boyfriend. I asked her why does she bother and the only reply was. I don't want to talk about this now. I am 100% clueless as to what is going on here.

Please help. This is driving me insane. (just a little)
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JuiCy*
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Any gem's weak spot is making a decision or choice and this for her is a big one. Like everyone else said here, stay in the friendship zone...Gems want to fall inlove with there bestfriends first before anything else. Just be there for her but dont tell her you love her anymore bc your making it harder for her. Shes trying to deal with another relationship ended in the process of you throwing your feelings at her, Your gonna confuse her more. If anything give her space and let her come find you, when she needs you be there for her but don't smother her. That'll make her only wanna be friends with you and nothing more.. You've done enough here and go on with your business dont sit around and wait for her. Like m&m said she's not playing games, she doesn't want to talk about it bc maybe she cant and she made up her mind already, she just needs a mega push bc she's worrying about his feelings and feeling guilty for talking to you and lots of other stuff, thats what i think anyway. Wish you the best, just give her space..WELCOME =)!
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JuiCy*, m&mgem and, emeraldgem -

Thanks for all the great advice I really needed it. I will give her space. After all I wouldn't like it if someone hounded me all day. Just so you all know I was never going to leave the "friend zone" I love being there for her. I have sent out the message loud and clear now it is up to her to decide. I don't know why I couldn't figure that out before? Maybe I was just concentrating on it too much.