Aqua leo rollercoaster

I realized something after 3 years... another reason why none of my relationships worked out. I'm still not over my on off leo. Although I know it will never result into a serious relationship, isn't that crazy? The moment we see eachother we just click again like there wasnt anything between us. He always lures me in with how much he has grown ad how I am still the woman of his dreams etc... he recently told me that the only reason he didn't fell in love with me yet is that I'm not romantic enough. He knows that I'm an old school lover at heart but I have a really hard time letting my guards down.one moment he says he loves me and the next moment he is 'just as friends' jesus that cat and mouse games goes on since 3yrs. When I'm seeing someone he is all like "we match even more now/maybe I'll fall in love with u sooner than u think" and when I'm back in the game and tell him that I want to make this work and laying bare my feelings he is more distant and pulls the "I need time, I said just as kiss & sleepover friends"

Its probably wise to just end it forever and stop dating other guys, since I'm not over him anyways. Somehow I still have a hard time letting go... there remains always that spark of passion.. ugh

He is a leo with ac leo, venus, merc and moon leo

Yeh I will although my passion and feelings run for him like crazy

He pulled back again and pulls the "I'm cornered" card - txted him that he can contact me again when he feels like he's ready and that I'll delete his number in the meantime because otherwise I can't stop texting (jeezz I know) and that I do that just because he is very important to me and that I want to give him time to sort things out (whatever they might be). I hope he sees that as a very respectful and kind act. thought that would be the wisest move now

Posted by AquaNextDoor
I realized something after 3 years... another reason why none of my relationships worked out. I'm still not over my on off leo. Although I know it will never result into a serious relationship, isn't that crazy? The moment we see eachother we just click again like there wasnt anything between us. He always lures me in with how much he has grown ad how I am still the woman of his dreams etc... he recently told me that the only reason he didn't fell in love with me yet is that I'm not romantic enough. He knows that I'm an old school lover at heart but I have a really hard time letting my guards down.one moment he says he loves me and the next moment he is 'just as friends' jesus that cat and mouse games goes on since 3yrs. When I'm seeing someone he is all like "we match even more now/maybe I'll fall in love with u sooner than u think" and when I'm back in the game and tell him that I want to make this work and laying bare my feelings he is more distant and pulls the "I need time, I said just as kiss & sleepover friends"

Its probably wise to just end it forever and stop dating other guys, since I'm not over him anyways. Somehow I still have a hard time letting go... there remains always that spark of passion.. ugh

He is a leo with ac leo, venus, merc and moon leo

wow that is a whole lotta leo. he doesn't have leo mars or Jupiter. or saturn, so damn. just short of that.

Omg AquaNextDoor, I'm somewhat here cos had a tiff with a Leo guy (an exclusive rlnship for only 2days and ended out of a sudden). So here doing random reading and guess what, your situation and the phenomenon is EXTACTLY THE SAME!!

The unexplainable strong psyhical unexplainable attraction that even (very careful and analytical who love to tale things slow also swirl).

We know through a social app.
At first everything was intense and he just got physcial and want exclusive soon. There was alot red flags that i brush it off as usual.

(On our meeting 2nd time we ald got initmate, and he is not finding it enough and still complain i could have been sweeter, wow how can i not feel insulted).

Of cos after that i had being so shocked and disheartened, I just kinda rejected him namely he should find someone who he could get touchy and physcial with would be better.

Ding dong back and forth cold and hypocriting texting on both sides lasted about 1week plus i decided i need to tell him i let's not contact for good so we don't need to be fake.

Unexpectedly he pretended nothing was wrong and LIKE Yours, Everytime we see eachother the barrier and all problems you have in mind you should be concerned got melted in an instant and it was all fun and laughing. Seriously this is a serious phenomenon. I guess that's what they say about Leo have a way to melt down and warm our Aquarius.

So after that 2 whole weeks of coldness and 1 night of chat and alot kisses from him, he ask if i wanted him, of cos the flow of it I just leap. I do like him but considering how to pace i already don't know anymore.

So the ending comes when he claimed i keep pointing out all and critisize him when i just merely explain I'm not someone who can do last min midnight booty text from him. I know I've got nothing to hide in my heart I'm ready to meet him in day, or anything elses. But just the 2nd day of he wanted be tgt and him lashing out 'It's over. It's really over.we are not gona work anymore amd i had enough of your nonsense.'

Like wow.now can you see how am I not devastated? I don't even feel i just lost someone who really truly care and wanted to know me and would chat with me (at least the beginning of rlnship that's just would be).

What i could feel is his just trying say he last min could drive over, he put in SO much effort to make this work yet i still critisize him, it's really over. Lol. The moment i heard it, my heart sank as it was too abrupt. But no sadness for a breakup.

Too bad just cos i don't seems to have a chance for a booty sex before you got busy next week and you already question if i love you?

Nothing is ever enough for him. Our 3rd time meeting he ald say he cannot pay for my meals and no time for me for he will focus on studies and work. (Not that i need a partner to pay stuffs for me also). And i wasn't even concern. All the understanding and give and take it's not what a Leo can comprehend and accept. Anw prior to this, he is the 4th Leo consecutively after me. The traits always follows. Intense initially and idle offs..

Teach me how can any relationship press on without sharing feelings and communication without an Egomaniac lashing you down to breakup everytime?



My point of sharing is really to share and show you how similar things can be, but I'm not intending to take him back an

My point of sharing is really to share and show you how similar things can be, but I'm not intending to take him back anymore. Now i will be me, we only date 6mths already then be exclusive. If not there would be many unforseenable problems and agenda you can't even see for now. So what if you're traditional and old fashion!?? I've got no qualms about this anymore.


You have an extremely Aquarius here.

Oh yes, he's a Triple Leo, sun, moon and mercury.
Mars in Gemini.

Posted by busyeyes88

Posted by AquaAngel
My point of sharing is really to share and show you how similar things can be, but I'm not intending to take him back anymore. Now i will be me, we only date 6mths already then be exclusive. If not there would be many unforseenable problems and agenda you can't even see for now. So what if you're traditional and old fashion!?? I've got no qualms about this anymore.


You have an extremely Aquarius here.

I have leo rising and leo moon and from reading your story, it sounds more like a 'booty call' than a proper exclusive relationship.

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ThankU for the feedback i would need more introspective.

Posted by busyeyes88

Posted by AquaAngel
My point of sharing is really to share and show you how similar things can be, but I'm not intending to take him back anymore. Now i will be me, we only date 6mths already then be exclusive. If not there would be many unforseenable problems and agenda you can't even see for now. So what if you're traditional and old fashion!?? I've got no qualms about this anymore.


You have an extremely Aquarius here.

I have leo rising and leo moon and from reading your story, it sounds more like a 'booty call' than a proper exclusive relationship.

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ThankU for the feedback i would need more introspective.

"When I'm seeing someone he is all like "we match even more now/

maybe I'll fall in love with u sooner than u think... "


😱


Don't put up with that.

Nooo... smh

Posted by Montgomery
"When I'm seeing someone he is all like "we match even more now/

maybe I'll fall in love with u sooner than u think... "


😱


Don't put up with that.

Nooo... smh

Maybe we should also advise:

Don't FALL for that

Posted by busyeyes88

Posted by AquaAngel
My point of sharing is really to share and show you how similar things can be, but I'm not intending to take him back anymore. Now i will be me, we only date 6mths already then be exclusive. If not there would be many unforseenable problems and agenda you can't even see for now. So what if you're traditional and old fashion!?? I've got no qualms about this anymore.


You have an extremely Aquarius here.

I have leo rising and leo moon and from reading your story, it sounds more like a 'booty call' than a proper exclusive relationship.

click to expand

ThankU for the feedback i would need more introspective.

Posted by AriesGirl74

Posted by Montgomery
"When I'm seeing someone he is all like "we match even more now/

maybe I'll fall in love with u sooner than u think... "


😱


Don't put up with that.

Nooo... smh

Maybe we should also advise:

Don't FALL for that

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Right? lol

But really... that's just toying with her feelings

which is cruel imo.