Asking my Lioness' how to get a Gem back...

me: sun and moon leo, aries rising,
him: sun-Gem moon-aquarius rising-cancer...

love
venus: virgo (me) cancer (him)

mars: aries(me) virgo(him)

without getting in to too much detail, I pushed him too far, became overly dramatic (ha!)...I am laying low, giving him space, not a peep for 2 weeks...😢

Posted by slickcat
me: sun and moon leo, aries rising,
him: sun-Gem moon-aquarius rising-cancer...

love
venus: virgo (me) cancer (him)

mars: aries(me) virgo(him)

without getting in to too much detail, I pushed him too far, became overly dramatic (ha!)...I am laying low, giving him space, not a peep for 2 weeks...😢

My ex gem and I split because of religious differences. I'll tell ya what, we got into a pretty big argument about it. We went away for winter vacation and came back and saw each other. We ended up getting back together. I was just nice to him and treated him like I did while we were in the relationship.

That time apart was probably a good thing tho. I never contacted him and I acted like the argument never happened, as did he. We still talk to each other to this day as good friends.

I'm not sure how to handle it from a leo's perspective. I'm a sag so we naturally match up well with gems and they are attracted to us. Just keep doing what you're doing tho and he should come around if he really cares about you.

alrightie...thanks 🙂...I am just so impatient lol...but am learning fast...

Posted by slickcat
alrightie...thanks 🙂...I am just so impatient lol...but am learning fast...

I hear ya. I've learned that silence is your best friend tho. Especially when you don't have a move you know for sure will work.

Good luck

wow well i was messing with a gem myself and i too became overly dramatic. he didnt contact me for a week and i was impatient so i sent him a msg with an apology and he striked back furious with me lol. i pretty much but a dimple in our friendship but im slowly trying to get it back. we are texting now which is a step. not sure how ur gem is but the 1 had loved to be pursued if u hurt him. if u show that u are sincere and own up to ur mistake he will forgive u. i never wait more than a week with him cuz he wasnt the waiting around type of guy. the longer u wait to make an apology the more he will see as u really didnt care.

good luck!

I did apologize to him, profusely, during the row, asked for another chance, even though I didn't deserve it, but I am sure he didn't even see it, and if he did see it, at the time he was angry so it most likely meant nothing...he said, he can't turn back time...wow, it was really hurtful and bad, but he tends to get that way when angry...I am just having a horrible time, he is the best thing to happen to me...I am just freaking out ova hea...I'm not looking for sympathy either...thanks for the advice peeps..

Happykitsune...how long was winter vacation? 😉

Posted by slickcat
I did apologize to him, profusely, during the row, asked for another chance, even though I didn't deserve it, but I am sure he didn't even see it, and if he did see it, at the time he was angry so it most likely meant nothing...he said, he can't turn back time...wow, it was really hurtful and bad, but he tends to get that way when angry...I am just having a horrible time, he is the best thing to happen to me...I am just freaking out ova hea...I'm not looking for sympathy either...thanks for the advice peeps..

wow that does sound painful. well since u have apologized then i guess u will have to wait for him to come around. u may have really hit him in the heart and at this point he probably sees u in a different light only because he his angry. give space and time.

goddammit...this doesnt sound good at all...😢 but I will take your guys' advice..thanks