once you ravage an aquas heart

even tho she had absolutely no right to be mad at ME-

is it possible for them to forgive and forget(severe understatement)?

forgive? yes. forget? NEVER! 🙂

Posted by aquarius21
forgive? yes. forget? NEVER! 🙂

This.

Unfortunately.

she ... has a reason why she is mad... most of the times aquas are hardly ever wrong ... so she will forgive but NEVER forget

i've never seen anything like an aqua grudge. o_O

I'm an Aquarius also with Venus in Aquarius...

Forgive...of course. But I will always remember. And things will not be the same afterward.

As an aqua myself, I never deal again with who have slighted me in any kind of way bcoz when the trust is gone it's gone(or maybe that's my scorpio moon talking).I don't hold grudges, I don't see the point in doing so, I just go on as if nothing happened, but WITHOUT the offender.It's easier that way, ya know?...for me atleast

I'm a prolific serial killer that way, I 'kill' them. They are dead & they don't even know, when they realise their demise, I'm looong gone.Hehe

I'm a knife collecter with a HUUUGE collection...all stuck to my back, courtesy of 'loved ones' ofcoz. When I 'move on or kill', the ppl are not forgotten, I just lift my shirt & look at their 'gift' covered with my blood & I always congratulate myself for killing them. I'm proud killer, it hurts to try to sleep with knives on your back. SHEEESH!

I've got a gemini sister, haven't seen or spoken to her in 7yrs. I gave her many chances to get over her 'stabbing addiction', but that woman is really addicted to my blood so she had to die. I have 5 swords from her alone. All I have to say about her is-"DIE BITCH DIE!!" I'm still mourning though, may she rest in peace.

Heart? What's that?Just joking. Ppl are not all the same so it would be unfair to mistreat the next person based on bad past experience.Give ppl atleast a chance to screw you over or to show worth.My belief is that u can't heal another person until u learn to heal yourself. I'm inlove with your new avatar by the way, it's so..HOT

HI,

Im aqua woman and feels like the other aquas were pretty truthful with U but feel sorry in a way! 😄 we are monsters when disappointed and trust me u can do that by many ways. As the others said before, ur aqua will forgive you and we are pretty good at that but will she remember? is it sth she will find difficult to live with? or is it unwashed plate that is ur turn to wash but u r not bothered? She can be anything for you you wish, im sure she will cuddle u the very next time u r both talked it through. What u need to do though is talk to her, be rational when giving facts but be extremely irrational when talking about feelings u have for her. Make sure u treat her FAIR and take every word with respect. Also make sure she knows u love her no matter what. She will win the battle no matter what and she will decide whether she will stay with you. For ur own good be there for her and make her feel special while she is doubting your faithfulness, honesty, even intelligence! Good luck dear friend! 😉

I agree with what some of you are saying (they forgive but do not forget) but Aquas do come back. Mine has, but as soon as he is back, feeling for me, he is gone again.
What do you do about that? (It's been 3 years now of the same merry go round ride)

Time will let me forgive and forget. Usually the other parties...expect the same relationship as if nothing happened. But what's done is done..I would still treat them kindly and with respect..but my heart changes I change...also doesn't mean I hold a grudge because of it.

im an aqua with a scorpio moon and Im 95% sure that im a raging vindictive bitch, truth be told.....I hate injustice and i dont rest until its served well done

That's interesting 11, do u mean u take revenge?After u got them served, do u feel it worth it? I'm saying this bcoz I have the same combo as u, with a lot of other scorpio placements, all in the scorpio ruled 8th house, but no vengeance here. I have meanness in me i'd admit to that, but i'd rather walk than waste my time plotting. I guess astrology doesn't work the same with everybody.