Gem help...

me:
sun-leo
moon- leo
rising-aries

him:
sun-gem
moon-aquarius
rising-cancer

love
venus: virgo (me) cancer (him)

mars: aries(me) virgo(him)

We've known eachother for a year, I love this man with all my heart. Distance separates us, a great distance. I tried three times to see him, the first, I couldnt go, family issues, second, was religious time for him and third, he is planning to go to another country to work, and told me to wait until he is more settled. He hasn't tried to see me.

Last week, we had an awful, fight, he said I am not there for him, when I am willing to fly to see him anytime. We see each other on camera constantly... He said he is 'done'. He is also under a lot of pressure with his Dad, who basically treats him like crap. He feels like a failure at life. I am always there to help him. I have told him I will support him in any way I can.

I have made him my life for the last year...he has come back in the past, after a few blowups. I am going through a divorce, and have 2 kids, he is single and 7 years my junior. I am getting my life in order, as is he...will he come back this time? I have been crying for days...he is amazing.

The last thing he said to me was, message me again and I will block you...

Yes, being a leo, I do tend to get dramatic. He saw me crying via cam and said, he can't deal with my drama. I understand this totally, but I couldn't help myself...dammit...I guess I am just looking for some reassurance..if at all possible....

hmmm, no replies...that hopeless eh? 😉

he sounds pretty serious to me. but he may change his mind. he IS a gemini after all

Give him room to breathe please. If you are getting your house in order, get it ALL in order. Wrap up your divorce ( not quite free yet really in all honesty ) be there for your children. Tie off all loose ends and get your mind right.

As a Gemini I can tell you right now you are being terribly dramatic. If there is one thing I cannot stand its drama. Especially crying, pleading, begging, etc. You are going through a divorce you need to deal with that first. I have a Leo chasing me right now and he is being dramatic and it turns me off so much. He comes around and sighs and pushes me for answers and bugs me to the point of irritation so I dodge him left and right. Not that I'm trying to be mean but you need to get your life straight before you try to start a new relationship with someone.

ok, i am working on the drama thing 🙂 and getting things in order....good advice, thanks guys...

Well, he did contact me, he sent me a youtube video of this sarah mclauchlan song...

just the link, nothing else, no words, nothing..
I haven't responded because, to be honest, i cant stop crying, i want him back...

I know I am dramatic, I pushed him too far, stupidly.....how should i respond if at all...should i wait?

ok Maddy

Also, think about what you are doing. If the divorce gets nasty do you really want to hand the STBX ammunition on a platter?

Posted by slickcat

We've known eachother for a year, I love this man with all my heart. Distance separates us, a great distance. I tried three times to see him, the first, I couldnt go, family issues, second, was religious time for him and third, he is planning to go to another country to work, and told me to wait until he is more settled. He hasn't tried to see me.

Last week, we had an awful, fight, he said I am not there for him, when I am willing to fly to see him anytime. We see each other on camera constantly... He said he is 'done'. He is also under a lot of pressure with his Dad, who basically treats him like crap. He feels like a failure at life. I am always there to help him. I have told him I will support him in any way I can.

I have made him my life for the last year...he has come back in the past, after a few blowups. I am going through a divorce, and have 2 kids, he is single and 7 years my junior. I am getting my life in order, as is he...will he come back this time? I have been crying for days...he is amazing.

The last thing he said to me was, message me again and I will block you...

Yes, being a leo, I do tend to get dramatic. He saw me crying via cam and said, he can't deal with my drama. I understand this totally, but I couldn't help myself...dammit...I guess I am just looking for some reassurance..if at all possible....

The GEMINI ~ LEO match is one of the best matches in the zodiac. But these 2 signs are SLEPT ON and what i mean by that is they're overlooked and not paid attention 2 i know a GEMINI ~ LEO couple and let me tell U they are a very strong couple...All U need 2 do is give him some space and don't B suspicious and trust him. On the flip side, he needs 2 make sure he gives U attention and let U know he's loyal 2 U no matter what.

I see he has some FIRE and WATER in his chart which really helps the
compatibility between U 2!

But U really need 2 take care of that divorce though once U do that
it will B a load off of you're shoulder's.

🙂

Yes, I want this done faster than you can say, twins 🙂 Gemini78, that is good info, thanks for that, you have given me some really good insight...we have gone through so much and I know him inside out. We are drawn to eachother. I really trust him, and feel he is loyal.

You are right Venusianbull, I have kept him out of it, as much as i could, unless he asks of course.

and what is STBX? I live in Canada, here its all a numbers game...

Posted by slickcat
Yes, I want this done faster than you can say, twins 🙂

ha ha

Posted by slickcat
Gemini78, that is good info, thanks for that, you have given me some really good insight.

You're welcome 🙂

well, it looks like its done folks...nothing since the vid he sent me, last Friday...unless by space, you guys mean months...I can wait 🙂

You have kids and he doesn't have kids so wouldn't it make sense that he come and see you. He's quite young too and that may be part of the problem, you have a lot on your plate and he's not being very supportive of you. Raising kids, going through the emotional perils of divorce, no one to lean on and then holding him up too by emotionally supporting him and his man tantrums, that's a lot of over functioning on your part. I'd cry too if I didn't have any kind of support, I don't actually feel you are being dramatic, you are just wore out, spent emotionally. Let him stay gone, you need a break.

I say if someone doesn't except you for who you are and all that you come with.....move the fuck on, that person is not meant for you. If part of you is that you are dramatic and they can't except that, then they need to kick rocks....
I'm all for changing for the better.....dont get me wrong.....but some things are harder to change then others....especially if you want that change for yourself....

you will find someone who will except you for you and all your drama. It's like everyone else is saying. Work on you and do you, everything else will fall into place.....

I'm sure you are more then capable of loving again....

Posted by Xin
As a Gemini I can tell you right now you are being terribly dramatic. If there is one thing I cannot stand its drama. Especially crying, pleading, begging, etc. You are going through a divorce you need to deal with that first. I have a Leo chasing me right now and he is being dramatic and it turns me off so much. He comes around and sighs and pushes me for answers and bugs me to the point of irritation so I dodge him left and right. Not that I'm trying to be mean but you need to get your life straight before you try to start a new relationship with someone.

LOL about Geminis hating drama. Of course it is ok if they cause drama to other people. Not their problem. They are off and gone and onto their next victim.

STBX = your soon to be ex

Tiki33, you are EXACTLY right, I was ALWAYS there for him, no matter what, and would have loved him forever, he is a fucking coward and a sissy....moving the fuck on...

Thanks everyone... 🙂

ok, I lied.....i will wait...lol...

lol Waiting for exactly?

for him to respond

I know, I know, i am still so in love with him....

You can't just turn it off like that, you love him and that's beautiful...I hope you 2 can work things out, keep us updated.

Thanks and I will 🙂

so...i did get a message after a month....just this...going to china tomorrow...
I knew he was thinking of going...I messaged him back saying, have a safe trip, blah blah...then he says, try to come if you can, I will be there for a couple of weeks..
first off, no sorry for the arguement, no, how have you been, nothing...I have been crying over this guy all damn month...
I cant just pick up and go to damn china whenever he is ready for me....I am beyond angry...