Confused. I don't get it. Why mixed signals?

I've been seeing this leo woman for about a month now. It's been great! I'm an aries and she's a leo. We are like a match made in heaven. I do my best to give her all the attention and I admire her a lot. I give her so much attention I feel I over do it sometimes because she thanks me so much wondering why she deserves all that goodness. We kiss a lot and I do my best to be passionate. When I hangout with her I try to be close to her. Hold her hands which I don't think she likes. I hug her a lot and try to bench cuddle here and there. We talk about a lot of things constantly and it's great. Here is where it starts to get confusing. She sometimes mentions her ex husband how he'd be good at things in a conversation. Or something good about an ex boyfriend or some radom guys trying to hit on her. Why would she do that? I mean it makes me mad and a bit insecure, I do my here best to be a gentleman only to be compared against other men. To be honest I just go with the flow but I it makes me mad so here I am asking for advice and answers. I hate those negative emotions. I don't show my anger when she talks like that since I just go with a flow. But I never ever mention any other women unless I say my leo better than this or that compared to another woman. Leo's please explain her situation. Does she want more attention? Does she mean I have competition? Or is this to make me jealous. Is this to lure me away? I will go running away into the woods from her if she's trying to send me a bad message. I don't wanna hurt myself.

Hi there!
I would say that if she talks about an ex maybe she is wondering if you would do the same. Maybe she does want to see if you comment and say something. But i do not think http my mentioning that she want to show that you have competition.Do you know her ascendent? Because that could help to give you more insight on the situation.
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Maybe you could be more authentic, instead of this:

"I give her so much attention I feel I over do it sometimes because she thanks me so much wondering why... "

She may be losing respect for you if you're being a suck-up-- just saying.

Sincere compliments are great, but groveling is ... ewww.

You sound like you're way too clingy/needy.

Not clingy at all to be honest. I'll find out her ascent and all.