Dating

I just started to date more seriously at the age of 30, and lost my v at 31. I'm a Leo, with Taurus rising, Gemini Moon, Cancer Venus, and Scorpio Mars. I don't know if that explains anything.

I've noticed a pattern which is that I tend to associate with lots of girls who also have a Scorpio Mars. I've dated two that I know of, and a lot of my friends that are girls also have this placement. Whats up with that?

I also find that I'm attracted to girls who have their Venus in Libra.

Once a girl rejects me in anyway, I find it impossible to be friends with them, even if I want to be. I'll try and it doesn't feel right, and then I get all emotional and scare them away. Do these things make sense with my placements?

I'd like to date a girl with water or earth Venus and Mars signs that are different from mine and see what that is like, but I astro-snooped almost every girl on my facebook friends, and I can't find any.

Which combos generally result in the best sex? Is Scorpio Mars with Scorpio Mars good?

Also I was wondering if there's a site where you can put in your birthday, and then it gives you the birthdates of the best matches for you, and then when you go on OkCupid you can try to narrow your search results to fit that.

Venus in Cancer. You nailed it!