Do leos play favorites

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Do leos play favorites ? Like can one person be more important to them than the other , friend wise ? Family is a big yes but friend wise can one friend be more important than the other ? Cause I've been feeling kind of replaced and I shouldn't be because he still gives me lots of attention and is sweet and stuff and he's said before that im his bestest friend and important to him but then I see him be sweet and cool to other people too and I like him so it's not that I'm a crazy friend
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Oh yes.

We are indescribably hierarchical.

Each person is based on personal bias.

Idk if you've been replaced. It doesn't really matter anyhow considering that's what you feel. Strangers on the internet won't make you feel better about it.

You will have to ride it out.

If your considering asking him about it again- i'd wait- if this is the same guy, from all those others times...This type of reassurance can only be done so often before we get annoyed and dip.
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Posted by MiZLeo
If you're not a crazy friend then why are you getting jealous when he talks to other people? I've always ditched the crazy jealous ones when they start getting mad that I'm spending time with another friend. I had a scorpio friend in college get so jealous cause I hung out with an old friend of mine twice(I knew this girl since we were in 4th grade) that she left a voice mail on my phone saying "I don't like you hanging out with this new friend of yours, she's taking up all my time"......yeah.....didn't talk to her again after that.....then she started stalking me.... why do Scorpios stalk? Ok...that's a whole other topic. Are you a scorpio op?

I'm not a crazy friend because I like him I get jealous because I like him and no I'm an Aquarius
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Isn't that kind of the point of having a Besty tho?
Everybody ranks their social circle to some degree... If you're feeling neglected because you have feelings for this guy maybe you aren't on the same page about this.
Humans change and grow out of each other... There are people who were my right hand men 10years ago, but if I'd stuck around I'd be lying in a drug den with a needle in my arm- can't account for different interests righ?
Or I'm currently single so I'm barely seeing my married best friend... She has a fucking family and although it would be nice- me rocking up with a keg and two barrels f wine for a candle lit girls night in wouldn't fly.

OR It might be a Lion growing phase.
We expand our circle for a short amount of time to stretch our boundaries, include others and accept any advances from people who have made it clear they want to be a part of our Lives.
Then we simmer for a bit, see if it works with our schedule LOL then we cull.
We spend a little time on the cutting floor, but even if our nearest and dearest don't see us for a while they can be assured they are number 1 in our hearts at the end of the day.

Leo is actually incredibly anti-social as a rule. The pressure to maintain a large group of friends and acquaintances often means we get exhausted.

All signs are different- I can't generalize- I speak for myself here only.
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Do leos play favorites ? Like can one person be more important to them than the other , friend wise ? Family is a big yes but friend wise can one friend be more important than the other ? Cause I've been feeling kind of replaced and I shouldn't be because he still gives me lots of attention and is sweet and stuff and he's said before that im his bestest friend and important to him but then I see him be sweet and cool to other people too and I like him so it's not that I'm a crazy friend
It could be two things, here, imo... because YES, I absolutely play favorites.

There's no playing about it, really.

But to me... it sounds like he may not be playing favorites, at all, and that

maybe you're just a little territorial and don't want to share your LEO.

Which is totally understandable.

I'm the same way-- hate sharing friends.

(I know it's rotten, but it's the truth.)


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Do leos play favorites ? Like can one person be more important to them than the other , friend wise ? Family is a big yes but friend wise can one friend be more important than the other ? Cause I've been feeling kind of replaced and I shouldn't be because he still gives me lots of attention and is sweet and stuff and he's said before that im his bestest friend and important to him but then I see him be sweet and cool to other people too and I like him so it's not that I'm a crazy friend
It could be two things, here, imo... because YES, I absolutely play favorites.

There's no playing about it, really.

But to me... it sounds like he may not be playing favorites, at all, and that

maybe you're just a little territorial and don't want to share your LEO.

Which is totally understandable.

I'm the same way-- hate sharing friends.

(I know it's rotten, but it's the truth.)


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Thankyou someone understands !!! I just get jealous cause they talk and she's exetremly pretty and stuff he once talked about her before like months ago he said so my friend Kayla she said she wanted to kill herself then he added she's not as much a friend as you and me are tho but that was months ago things could've changed plus he still talks to her today and she's so pretty and he always comments are her pic saying beautiful and stuff he does that with me but I get jealous
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Do leos play favorites ? Like can one person be more important to them than the other , friend wise ? Family is a big yes but friend wise can one friend be more important than the other ? Cause I've been feeling kind of replaced and I shouldn't be because he still gives me lots of attention and is sweet and stuff and he's said before that im his bestest friend and important to him but then I see him be sweet and cool to other people too and I like him so it's not that I'm a crazy friend
It could be two things, here, imo... because YES, I absolutely play favorites.

There's no playing about it, really.

But to me... it sounds like he may not be playing favorites, at all, and that

maybe you're just a little territorial and don't want to share your LEO.

Which is totally understandable.

I'm the same way-- hate sharing friends.

(I know it's rotten, but it's the truth.)


Thankyou someone understands !!! I just get jealous cause they talk and she's exetremly pretty and stuff he once talked about her before like months ago he said so my friend Kayla she said she wanted to kill herself then he added she's not as much a friend as you and me are tho but that was months ago things could've changed plus he still talks to her today and she's so pretty and he always comments are her pic saying beautiful and stuff he does that with me but I get jealous
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Ohh.. this is a guy you like, though.

More than just a friend, right?

Or you would like him to be?

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Do leos play favorites ? Like can one person be more important to them than the other , friend wise ? Family is a big yes but friend wise can one friend be more important than the other ? Cause I've been feeling kind of replaced and I shouldn't be because he still gives me lots of attention and is sweet and stuff and he's said before that im his bestest friend and important to him but then I see him be sweet and cool to other people too and I like him so it's not that I'm a crazy friend
It could be two things, here, imo... because YES, I absolutely play favorites.

There's no playing about it, really.

But to me... it sounds like he may not be playing favorites, at all, and that

maybe you're just a little territorial and don't want to share your LEO.

Which is totally understandable.

I'm the same way-- hate sharing friends.

(I know it's rotten, but it's the truth.)


Thankyou someone understands !!! I just get jealous cause they talk and she's exetremly pretty and stuff he once talked about her before like months ago he said so my friend Kayla she said she wanted to kill herself then he added she's not as much a friend as you and me are tho but that was months ago things could've changed plus he still talks to her today and she's so pretty and he always comments are her pic saying beautiful and stuff he does that with me but I get jealous
Ohh.. this is a guy you like, though.

More than just a friend, right?

Or you would like him to be?

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yea I like him but he says he sees me as a Bestfriend and loves me so much and that I'm way higher up than a main . Last night we were on the phone , voice call from 11:00 at night to 2:00 in the morning I don't know that call just made me feel a bit better
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He sees you as a Bestfriend.

What are you going to when he gets a girlfriend?

I guess I have to ride it out 😢
Well... if it's any consolation, I bet he would be

quite jealous if you got a bf, and didn't have all

that time for him, anymore.

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Thankyou so much for your time and input you are a great help 🙂 I appreciate it a lot someone that understands xx