How to behave with this Leo

So,I always found this particular guy quite interesting but didn't know him.Yesterday,I was on a party with a girlfriend and asked her to introduce us because apparently they are friends.But,as a taurus girl who thinks that the guy should make the first move, asking to be introduced isn't bad as long as he doesn't know it.

He left the party at 3 am but at 4.41 am sent a sms to my girlfriend asking her if the girl she introduced to him, asked for it or it was just a random thing.Well,my girlfriend fuck it all up when she said that I asked to meet him and even asked him if he wanted my number.I was surprised to see a text from him and he was being flirtatious but I didn't know that she had revealed all of it,so I acted cool like I didn't know who he was and randomly met him at the party.We still talked but late at night,when I knew that she made this mistake,I felt bit dumb because, now I don't know if he is really interested or if he only sent a sms because my friend basically told him and opened all the doors for him,making me look like I'm easy or super interested in him.

It might sound dumb to some people but I'm a firm believer that a guy that is interested should show you that interest.So,now I'm not going to send him a sms and wait for him to do so.He already knows that I wanted to meet him, saw me in person and has my number,don't see why he wouldn't do it.If he doesn't, it means that he just liked the ideia of knowing that I wanted to meet him and wanted to test the waters.But,I'm still thorn...because my taurus heart wants to be prideful and let him be but on the other side,I feel like i should interact with him to see if he is opened.

Experienced ladies, what do you guys think?

He is a Leo,if that matters to some of you.

If he asked her about you, then he obviously was interested. If he wasn't, he wouldn't have contacted her about you so it's mutual. Leo's don't like getting rejected (pride getting smashed is kind of a big deal) so they need to know you're interested too and rejection risk it low before they make a move. Don't feel weird about it, just be yourself and don't over think it.

Leo's like confidence. We like women who will come up to us. We're not much for subtlety or games, so stop that unless you want this to go downhill. It sounds like your friend did you a favor and covered a LOT of ground for you. You asked her for a favor, she went the extra mile and delivered. That's a great friend in my opinion. If the Leo wasn't interested, he would not have called you. He called BECAUSE he was interested.

I've been dating a leo man for 9 months now. I'm a cancer lady

I always knew he was intrested because he tried to talk to me several times and I caught him staring at me. I knew he was intrested but he wouldn't make a move so I did. I came talk to him and we flirted then he asked for my number and asked me to go on a date with him. I think they like it when women show interest in them. It's okay if you act a bit shy around them at few first dates but DO NOT play hard to get or make them jealous ever.

I think you should make a move and show him that you're intrested. Because once you get to know them, they are amazing lovers cause they know how to pamper us 🙂 my man always buys me everything I want, very affectionate, and very romantic 😉

I completely lost interest in a Taurus because she couldn't show any interest. Stop that. Godforbid you communicate your feelings. I will always be baffled at how Taurus men and women find love and friendship with how lazy, coy, and home-oriented they are. Never ones to put yourself out there are you?

Sorry.. I disagree with what others have said here. And I think you are completely right and have made completely the right moves. I don’t think you should have asked your friend to set up the introduction, friends usually balls it up like she has. I dunno why friends think it’s funny or something, but deep down friends don’t like it when you get attention and they unintentionally make moves to try and get it not to work. But I understand exactly how you feel.

How does he know you want to meet him?

And when did he message you, was it that night, after drinking?

If it is true, that he does know you want to meet them it’s all out on the table now and the next move is his, 100% . If you make further moves to show interest, then it’s too much, you will appear clingy, and you won’t know if he’s interested. Look at it this way, if he is too stupid not to notice you are interested, or he lacks confidence, then he is doing you a favour by not messaging you. But if he does, then you know the balance could be ok in the relationship going forward, this way you win. I agree with you in general, the guy makes the moves, it has to be that way. You need to mess his head up, don’t make things soo obvious for him.

^Booooo

leo like attention dont hold back,

UPDATE:

-Thank you guys for all the advice but it didn't work out...yet...I guess.The thing is, after he messaged me,I did the same thing two days later to show him that I wanted to know him more.After that,he started flirting A LOT with me, saying that he wanted to be near me and visit me in my house, wanted to hug and kiss me, etc.As a taurean,I loved it but was very guarded because we know that a normal human being doesn't get that attached very soon...and I was right!

Long story short...he basically told me that he had a girlfriend, after all the he said and that made my already guarded taurus be more guarded.We kept talking and he kept showing interest but I was not very receptive because I knew that he was already taken...He wanted to see me in person but I noticed that whenever I wanted it,he wouldn't want to come but then appear and want to see me...he never got the chance to do so,because last time that he asked to visit me,he had disappeared for a full week(even tho we are just ''friends'' and don't need to talk all day) and then suddenly texted me and wanted to see me.So,I said no and suggested that he came by on the next day...never did.After that, we spoke but it's been 2 weeks with no communication.

I can't accept less than what I deserve and from the moment that I knew that he had a girlfriend,it was impossible not to be guarded towards him.But,other than that,he is very nice, charming and caring...I wonder if he didn't have a girlfriend,we would have gotten somewhere...But,the bad things that I discovered about Leo men is that, they can be very selfish, egoistic,things need to be the way they are and when they want it, sexist and can hold a lot in and be passive aggressive...but nonetheless very honest, frank and fun.

Also,I've noticed that Leo guys are very intense in the beginning but will start rethinking about the relationship later.That's why I already knew that all that he was saying was nice but vague and maybe shallow.