@Smc15
7 Years
Capricorn men ghosting
Why Capricorn Men Ghost and What It Means
Capricorn men may ghost due to fear of emotional vulnerability or feeling overwhelmed. They often need time to process emotions and may withdraw if they feel uncertain. This behavior is common but can be hurtful. Understanding their need for space can help navigate these situations and determine if they are committed to the relationship.
I suggest you not to come any closer to Capricorn.
They chain you forever using any ridic efforts possible.
Find your own society.
Wtf? Guys are so weird!! People are in general, but especially guys.
Omg who knows— My experience is a Cap just shuts things off.. but then it comes back to haunt him later 🙄🙄 yep ghosting until he wants to talk.
How long does he takes to come back?
Omg who knows— My experience is a Cap just shuts things off.. but then it comes back to haunt him later 🙄🙄 yep ghosting until he wants to talk.
How long does he takes to come back?
Months. My example is my ex-bf. Unfortunately that’s his pattern. I think that if they didn’t care you would never hear from them again, but if they do this is a protection against their deep feelings when perhaps there is something they can’t work through. Mine is currently trying to get me to talk to him.. and has been since August. He can’t figure out why he keeps thinking of me... 🙄 What I do know is this is when he talks & I get info. Honestly, I’d move on. If this is communication pattern it just doesn’t work.
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Are both of you on each other's social media?
Omg who knows— My experience is a Cap just shuts things off.. but then it comes back to haunt him later 🙄🙄 yep ghosting until he wants to talk.
How long does he takes to come back?
Months. My example is my ex-bf. Unfortunately that’s his pattern. I think that if they didn’t care you would never hear from them again, but if they do this is a protection against their deep feelings when perhaps there is something they can’t work through. Mine is currently trying to get me to talk to him.. and has been since August. He can’t figure out why he keeps thinking of me... 🙄 What I do know is this is when he talks & I get info. Honestly, I’d move on. If this is communication pattern it just doesn’t work.
Are both of you on each other's social media?
No. I unfriended him on FB 8 months ago. After putting the pieces together & sent him a fuck you message ( which he of course didn’t respond to). We weren’t connected on any other social media.
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Nice! Mine just disappeared 1 month ago and I shall see what happened for another 1 month. Half of me has already moved on...
Omg who knows— My experience is a Cap just shuts things off.. but then it comes back to haunt him later 🙄🙄 yep ghosting until he wants to talk.
How long does he takes to come back?
Months. My example is my ex-bf. Unfortunately that’s his pattern. I think that if they didn’t care you would never hear from them again, but if they do this is a protection against their deep feelings when perhaps there is something they can’t work through. Mine is currently trying to get me to talk to him.. and has been since August. He can’t figure out why he keeps thinking of me... 🙄 What I do know is this is when he talks & I get info. Honestly, I’d move on. If this is communication pattern it just doesn’t work.
Are both of you on each other's social media?
No. I unfriended him on FB 8 months ago. After putting the pieces together & sent him a fuck you message ( which he of course didn’t respond to). We weren’t connected on any other social media.
Nice! Mine just disappeared 1 month ago and I shall see what happened for another 1 month. Half of me has already moved on...
Well we were gf/bf for about a year, going on trips planning a life. He disappeared twice on me. I guess it was a year and a half if you include the first 3 month break. I wouldn’t wait around for him. I didn’t. Well emotionally I wasn’t over him, guess I’m still not for some unknown reason. Pretty much you have to figure they are gone if there is no contact for a couple of weeks. It’s up to him to come back & win you back if he cares. Otherwise assume he doesn’t. You can’t condone the behavior
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That's not a good behavior, disappearing for 3 months when you are in a relationship already.
Mine, we are not in a relationship but has been contacting for 10 months and metup 3 times only. He is really my type except for the disappearance. And yes, totally agree that if he cares, he will come back. Well, I just try to move on. No point waiting for something that is uncertain.
You might be the back up.
Did you ever bang him? If not... Dun dun duuunn...
Yes
Maybe your reaction was didn’t show you reciprocated his enthusiasm
So after six months why waste any more time
I’m pretty sure that’s what happened, I’ve been told by past relationships that I’m hard to read
I’m a Taurus female and have been casually seeing a Capricorn man for about 6 months. We met online and had been seeing each other once or twice a month, but over the last month he started contacting me more often, talking to me through the day/week, and we saw each other a bit more frequently.
The last time we saw each other he seemed very enthusiastic and happy, to the point I was convinced that he has developed feelings for me. He usually shows little emotion, but he was smiling a lot and mentioned that he wanted to spend more time with me during the winter. I was feeling good about things and went to message him a few days later but noticed that he had deleted me off of social media and my message to him sat pending.
As things had been casual I wouldn’t have been bothered if this was a couple months ago, but since things seemed to be going somewhere I was pretty blindsided.
Is this normal for a Capricorn man? (I have dated one other cap who ghosted, and is my only other experience with someone just cutting things off with no warning) Why would he disappear after seeming so interested?
Maybe it was probably still casual for him until his ghosting.
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That’s what I would guess but he’s the one started initiating more and mentioned hanging out more. And earlier when it was super casual he would just not reply to a message for a while rather than fully delete me
You might be the back up.
True but if I was wouldn’t he have deleted me months ago rather than contacting more and more often?
Omg who knows— My experience is a Cap just shuts things off.. but then it comes back to haunt him later 🙄🙄 yep ghosting until he wants to talk.
Early on he’s not message/reply for a while but always came back on his own. But he’s never just deleted me before, and he’s also never been so enthusiastic so I’m afraid he thought I didn’t reciprocate the enthusiasm and shut if off to spare his feelings
Omg who knows— My experience is a Cap just shuts things off.. but then it comes back to haunt him later 🙄🙄 yep ghosting until he wants to talk.
Early on he’s not message/reply for a while but always came back on his own. But he’s never just deleted me before, and he’s also never been so enthusiastic so I’m afraid he thought I didn’t reciprocate the enthusiasm and shut if off to spare his feelings
Is that a normal thing for him to delete people or be that sensitive?
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I have no idea tbh
Maybe your reaction was didn’t show you reciprocated his enthusiasm
So after six months why waste any more time
I’m pretty sure that’s what happened, I’ve been told by past relationships that I’m hard to read
Even still, the very least he could have done is said “this isn’t working”. What a little bitch. Are you sure he deleted you or did he deactivate/close his account—
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Hahah exactly, just communicate! I’m pretty sure he deleted me
Omg who knows— My experience is a Cap just shuts things off.. but then it comes back to haunt him later 🙄🙄 yep ghosting until he wants to talk.
Early on he’s not message/reply for a while but always came back on his own. But he’s never just deleted me before, and he’s also never been so enthusiastic so I’m afraid he thought I didn’t reciprocate the enthusiasm and shut if off to spare his feelings
Is that a normal thing for him to delete people or be that sensitive?
I have no idea tbh
Well what I know about my ex is that him coming toward me is always about how he is feeling about me, not that I didn’t do enough. He might get sensitive but that doesn’t stop him coming back.
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That’s true. I don’t think I did anything wrong, I just thought he precieved it wrong. And I do think he’s a bit insecure and immature.
I have dated another Capricorn who would disappear and come back randomly. This was years ago and he was the one who taught me what “ghosting” was, after the first long disappearance and return I asked what happened and he replied “I just wanted to go ghost on life for a while”
You might be the back up.
True but if I was wouldn’t he have deleted me months ago rather than contacting more and more often?
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As posted in a similar thread today:
Players like to keep pussy on chill, back-up pussy, rainy day pussy, emergency pussy, spare tire pussy, jumper cables pussy, pussy in a storage unit, pussy on pause.
Also... you catch more flys with honey than you do with do-do.
He just messaged me claiming his “account got hacked” 🙄
Dating for 6 months and you don’t have his phone number?!
How does that even happen tho.
6 months in imma have the background check, vial of blood, hair etc on file 😂
He just messaged me claiming his “account got hacked” 🙄
So you back together?
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He just messaged me claiming his “account got hacked” 🙄
So you back together?
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No
He just messaged me claiming his “account got hacked” 🙄
So you back together?
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Huh?
No
He just messaged me claiming his “account got hacked” 🙄
So you back together?
Huh?
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No
Dating for 6 months and you don’t have his phone number?!
How does that even happen tho.
6 months in imma have the background check, vial of blood, hair etc on file 😂
I have his number
Dating for 6 months and you don’t have his phone number?!
How does that even happen tho.
6 months in imma have the background check, vial of blood, hair etc on file 😂
I have his number
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Have you tried using it?
Doesn’t explain why he hasn’t called
How many days silent?
It's funny you used that word. All my boys call me Silent. Lol
I suggest you not to come any closer to Capricorn.
They chain you forever using any ridic efforts possible.
Find your own society.
Why tho?
I suggest you not to come any closer to Capricorn.
They chain you forever using any ridic efforts possible.
Find your own society.
Why tho?
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Just be narcisstic and cut your hair short.. It looks good on you.
I suggest you not to come any closer to Capricorn.
They chain you forever using any ridic efforts possible.
Find your own society.
Why tho?
Just be narcisstic and cut your hair short.. It looks good on you.
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Lol I’m wondering why they chain you forever? Feel like I’m experiencing that
I suggest you not to come any closer to Capricorn.
They chain you forever using any ridic efforts possible.
Find your own society.
Why tho?
Just be narcisstic and cut your hair short.. It looks good on you.
Lol I’m wondering why they chain you forever? Feel like I’m experiencing that
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No, it is the sniper beside me. She's killing me!! I don't like this.
I suggest you not to come any closer to Capricorn.
They chain you forever using any ridic efforts possible.
Find your own society.
Why tho?
Just be narcisstic and cut your hair short.. It looks good on you.
Lol I’m wondering why they chain you forever? Feel like I’m experiencing that
No, it is the sniper beside me. She's killing me!! I don't like this.
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Lol no understand
I suggest you not to come any closer to Capricorn.
They chain you forever using any ridic efforts possible.
Find your own society.
Why tho?
Just be narcisstic and cut your hair short.. It looks good on you.
Lol I’m wondering why they chain you forever? Feel like I’m experiencing that
No, it is the sniper beside me. She's killing me!! I don't like this.
Lol no understand
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Acronym please..
Is a tactic.
Don’t be lured into the game.
These people are tacticians and any kind of ploy to create attraction they will employ with stealth.
So petty and lame. I’m immediately turned off and so the panic pursue cycle proceeds which is even more disturbing.
Stay away if you want to safe guard your peace.
What you mean by safeguard? Hmm.. That's mah job.
Is a tactic.
Don’t be lured into the game.
These people are tacticians and any kind of ploy to create attraction they will employ with stealth.
So petty and lame. I’m immediately turned off and so the panic pursue cycle proceeds which is even more disturbing.
Stay away if you want to safe guard your peace.
What you mean by safeguard? Hmm.. That's mah job.
I’m telling OP if she’s wanting to keep her peace safe then she would need to consider staying away.
How is it a mans job to protect a women’s peace esp one he barely knows. What a redic assertion.
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Blocking again? Capricorn here..
@DeadInside knows you.
Is a tactic.
Don’t be lured into the game.
These people are tacticians and any kind of ploy to create attraction they will employ with stealth.
So petty and lame. I’m immediately turned off and so the panic pursue cycle proceeds which is even more disturbing.
Stay away if you want to safe guard your peace.
What you mean by safeguard? Hmm.. That's mah job.
I’m telling OP if she’s wanting to keep her peace safe then she would need to consider staying away.
How is it a mans job to protect a women’s peace esp one he barely knows. What a redic assertion.
Blocking again? Capricorn here..
@DeadInside knows you.
dumbass
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Did you see how my fire affect scorpio men to save all your women?
Is a tactic.
Don’t be lured into the game.
These people are tacticians and any kind of ploy to create attraction they will employ with stealth.
So petty and lame. I’m immediately turned off and so the panic pursue cycle proceeds which is even more disturbing.
Stay away if you want to safe guard your peace.
What you mean by safeguard? Hmm.. That's mah job.
I’m telling OP if she’s wanting to keep her peace safe then she would need to consider staying away.
How is it a mans job to protect a women’s peace esp one he barely knows. What a redic assertion.
Blocking again? Capricorn here..
@DeadInside knows you.
dumbass
Did you see how my fire affect scorpio men to save all your women?
i see a desesperate dumbass
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Who?
Is a tactic.
Don’t be lured into the game.
These people are tacticians and any kind of ploy to create attraction they will employ with stealth.
So petty and lame. I’m immediately turned off and so the panic pursue cycle proceeds which is even more disturbing.
Stay away if you want to safe guard your peace.
What you mean by safeguard? Hmm.. That's mah job.
I’m telling OP if she’s wanting to keep her peace safe then she would need to consider staying away.
How is it a mans job to protect a women’s peace esp one he barely knows. What a redic assertion.
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WHO ARE YOU?
You have deep insight on Aries and now Cap...what else? Any deep knowledge of Scorpios?
Come out and tell me. I promise not to tell anybody unless you want me to. Btw I’ve grilles Aries with your wisdom. Will post now. ❤️
Is a tactic.
Don’t be lured into the game.
These people are tacticians and any kind of ploy to create attraction they will employ with stealth.
So petty and lame. I’m immediately turned off and so the panic pursue cycle proceeds which is even more disturbing.
Stay away if you want to safe guard your peace.
What you mean by safeguard? Hmm.. That's mah job.
I’m telling OP if she’s wanting to keep her peace safe then she would need to consider staying away.
How is it a mans job to protect a women’s peace esp one he barely knows. What a redic assertion.
Blocking again? Capricorn here..
@DeadInside knows you.
What are you on about? I don’t give a shit who knows/doesn’t know me.
Step off
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Lol, k..
Is a tactic.
Don’t be lured into the game.
These people are tacticians and any kind of ploy to create attraction they will employ with stealth.
So petty and lame. I’m immediately turned off and so the panic pursue cycle proceeds which is even more disturbing.
Stay away if you want to safe guard your peace.
What you mean by safeguard? Hmm.. That's mah job.
I’m telling OP if she’s wanting to keep her peace safe then she would need to consider staying away.
How is it a mans job to protect a women’s peace esp one he barely knows. What a redic assertion.
Blocking again? Capricorn here..
@DeadInside knows you.
dumbass
Did you see how my fire affect scorpio men to save all your women?
i see a desesperate dumbass
Who?
you
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huh?
Is a tactic.
Don’t be lured into the game.
These people are tacticians and any kind of ploy to create attraction they will employ with stealth.
So petty and lame. I’m immediately turned off and so the panic pursue cycle proceeds which is even more disturbing.
Stay away if you want to safe guard your peace.
What you mean by safeguard? Hmm.. That's mah job.
I’m telling OP if she’s wanting to keep her peace safe then she would need to consider staying away.
How is it a mans job to protect a women’s peace esp one he barely knows. What a redic assertion.
Blocking again? Capricorn here..
@DeadInside knows you.
dumbass
Did you see how my fire affect scorpio men to save all your women?
i see a desesperate dumbass
Who?
you
huh?
fuckoff
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2nd house in Capricorn
Waaaaauw love is happening!!! Go guys, ebeeybodu wishes you the Best of luck!
DeadInside
Is a tactic.
Don’t be lured into the game.
These people are tacticians and any kind of ploy to create attraction they will employ with stealth.
So petty and lame. I’m immediately turned off and so the panic pursue cycle proceeds which is even more disturbing.
Stay away if you want to safe guard your peace.
What you mean by safeguard? Hmm.. That's mah job.
I’m telling OP if she’s wanting to keep her peace safe then she would need to consider staying away.
How is it a mans job to protect a women’s peace esp one he barely knows. What a redic assertion.
Blocking again? Capricorn here..
@DeadInside knows you.
dumbass
Did you see how my fire affect scorpio men to save all your women?
i see a desesperate dumbass
Who?
you
huh?
fuckoff
2nd house in Capricorn
you are disgusting me.
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@GOATAction restore order
Is a tactic.
Don’t be lured into the game.
These people are tacticians and any kind of ploy to create attraction they will employ with stealth.
So petty and lame. I’m immediately turned off and so the panic pursue cycle proceeds which is even more disturbing.
Stay away if you want to safe guard your peace.
What you mean by safeguard? Hmm.. That's mah job.
I’m telling OP if she’s wanting to keep her peace safe then she would need to consider staying away.
How is it a mans job to protect a women’s peace esp one he barely knows. What a redic assertion.
Blocking again? Capricorn here..
@DeadInside knows you.
dumbass
Did you see how my fire affect scorpio men to save all your women?
i see a desesperate dumbass
Who?
you
huh?
fuckoff
2nd house in Capricorn
you are disgusting me.
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Just gimme back my money
DeadInside
Is a tactic.
Don’t be lured into the game.
These people are tacticians and any kind of ploy to create attraction they will employ with stealth.
So petty and lame. I’m immediately turned off and so the panic pursue cycle proceeds which is even more disturbing.
Stay away if you want to safe guard your peace.
What you mean by safeguard? Hmm.. That's mah job.
I’m telling OP if she’s wanting to keep her peace safe then she would need to consider staying away.
How is it a mans job to protect a women’s peace esp one he barely knows. What a redic assertion.
Blocking again? Capricorn here..
@DeadInside knows you.
dumbass
Did you see how my fire affect scorpio men to save all your women?
i see a desesperate dumbass
Who?
you
huh?
fuckoff
2nd house in Capricorn
you are disgusting me.
@GOATAction restore order
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Can't speak for all Caps but if I'm not feeling a girl or am too busy with my aspirations, I'll just tell her and go from there. Keep it professional and keep it moving.
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I’m a Taurus female and have been casually seeing a Capricorn man for about 6 months. We met online and had been seeing each other once or twice a month, but over the last month he started contacting me more often, talking to me through the day/week, and we saw each other a bit more frequently.
The last time we saw each other he seemed very enthusiastic and happy, to the point I was convinced that he has developed feelings for me. He usually shows little emotion, but he was smiling a lot and mentioned that he wanted to spend more time with me during the winter. I was feeling good about things and went to message him a few days later but noticed that he had deleted me off of social media and my message to him sat pending.
As things had been casual I wouldn’t have been bothered if this was a couple months ago, but since things seemed to be going somewhere I was pretty blindsided.
Is this normal for a Capricorn man? (I have dated one other cap who ghosted, and is my only other experience with someone just cutting things off with no warning) Why would he disappear after seeming so interested?