Taurus GF Getting Selfish

This topic was created in the Astrology forum by piscesman707 on Tuesday, May 8, 2018 and has 6 replies.

Understanding Taurus Behavior Changes in Relationships

Taurus partners may become more self-focused or distant when feeling uncertain or stressed. They value stability and may withdraw temporarily if they sense imbalance. Open communication and patience are key to understanding their needs and encouraging openness. Building trust can help Taurus feel more secure and willing to share their feelings.

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@piscesman707
9 Years

Lately she has been acting strange, more rude, etc.

Last night was highly unusual. We normally add profile photos of us together and she said she preferred the photo of her with the horse that I took of her over of photo of us together.

I have read other Pisces' posts on here saying a relationship with a Taurus starts off amazing well and then the Taurus starts to not respond to texts or questions, or responds much later, or even stops putting in effort. Sadly, I have seen this dynamic be written on here and elsewhere multiple times and feel I have been living it in the last few weeks.

As a Pisces, I feel like my generousity is being taken advantage of. Any good advice on how to get my Taurus to be more open with me or is it a lost cause?

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@boxcarmirnta
11 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Piscoj
It’s any earth sign. You just have to get used to it. And believe me, once you start being just as unresponsive, they get better with responding. They don’t like when it’s done to them, but they kind of need that reality check sometimes.

good to know!

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@Moonbutter
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A relationship needs some push and pull sometimes... some good tension to keep the attraction and mystery. Don’t always do what she wants.. make her come after you. You need to balance this out because she’s pocketed both ya balls. Give her some resistance, keep her ass in check.

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@Mhmmm
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I do think you’re being needy in regards to the photo thing.. Also in what ways has she become lazy?

I do think us Pisceans can have a tendency to make ourselves overly available to our love interests, especially in the early stages, whilst earth signs generally tend to take it slow in the beginning. So I’d say chill out for a minute, and give her the chance to miss you and come to you.

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Posted by The_Mad_Hater
You sound pretty damn needy. I'm gonna go out on a limb and say she likes horses, what's wrong with using a pic with a horse. Seems simple. If people have forgot you 2 are together between FB profile pics, and didn't even check the relationship status, you don't need those kind of fake friends in your life, anyway.

he micromanages her....err, sorry "leads" her.

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Posted by piscesman707
Lately she has been acting strange, more rude, etc.

Last night was highly unusual. We normally add profile photos of us together and she said she preferred the photo of her with the horse that I took of her over of photo of us together.

I have read other Pisces' posts on here saying a relationship with a Taurus starts off amazing well and then the Taurus starts to not respond to texts or questions, or responds much later, or even stops putting in effort. Sadly, I have seen this dynamic be written on here and elsewhere multiple times and feel I have been living it in the last few weeks.

As a Pisces, I feel like my generousity is being taken advantage of. Any good advice on how to get my Taurus to be more open with me or is it a lost cause?

Hmm why does every photo have to be of you together? Maybe add a photo of you alone on your profile and see if it bothers her, but otherwise I guess should be ok to add what you like as your profile. Are you two married or in a committed relationship?