I'm feeling a bit discouraged...

There are so many beautiful men and women out there, that it's hard to pick just one, and the one you pick may find it hard to be with just you, because there are so many beautiful men and women out there. I feel like the only solution is to find your soulmate, which could be a life long journey that ends in heartarche, because there is no such thing as a soulamte. Do you believe in soulmates? If so, what is your definition of a soulmate? Do you believe it possible to discover that your soulmate isn't the one for you, or is a complete marker? Would that mean, then, that he was never your soulmate to begin with?

Hi there truthseeker...I'm with you and I so understand your thoughts! I am not quite sure what you exactly mean by "beautiful" people. Are you referring to looks, their being or possibly both? I have met some beautiful looking people but there is no way that I would be in a long term relationship with them because to me they were lacking in "beautiful" inner qualities which is very important to me. I think that maybe we have more than one soulmate and I say that because I have had many relationships with many people where we have connected in a special way and are still connected and we each are learning from one another.

I am not sure about a one and only soulmate because I have not experienced that yet...perhaps someone else has and they can share their thoughts with us.

I'll see if I can locate something for you to put out into the universe....😉

Hello Truthseeker:

First, I want to say that I have exactly same thought about people. I don't know yet how to handle this yet, but I try to learn too.

My first glance thought about this way of your (and mine) thinking probably coming from urges to control people. As far as I know this is not possible. People are changing, situations changing. We can't expect same things from everyone all the time. We don't control their wishes, we don't control their lives.

All I can say so far is that we have to live the moment. As long as it good, try to experience it at full. Because when things will go to bad, only by that way there will be something good left to remember.