in love with this leo man

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hi,, all !! this is my first post and i hope to get few good responses from you all..
I am an aries woman , and a strong believer of astrology. I am madly in love with my leo man and we have been dating for 8 months. However I have been in a relationship before which is known to him .. But at times he just asks me too many personal questions about my past relationship which makes me very uncomfortable . I am too introvert in this way and can never say that I am getting hurt in this way.. I want to know from al you leo people as to why he does this — is he jealous ?? we both love each other a lot .. Please help !!
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hi,, all !! this is my first post and i hope to get few good responses from you all..
I am an aries woman , and a strong believer of astrology. I am madly in love with my leo man and we have been dating for 8 months. However I have been in a relationship before which is known to him .. But at times he just asks me too many personal questions about my past relationship which makes me very uncomfortable . I am too introvert in this way and can never say that I am getting hurt in this way.. I want to know from al you leo people as to why he does this — is he jealous ?? we both love each other a lot .. Please help !!

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fact is, it's none of his business and if you tell him anything, it'll no doubt be used against you later and not necessarily in a court of law, lol. i don't think this is a leo thing....it's a man thing and no good ever comes of divulging past relationships, particularly not in any detail.

tell him that you prefer to keep the past in the past and look forward to the future. he probs just needs some reassurance.
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thanks wounded.

i just remember going through all of this with my aries ex. we were only 21 when we met and the questions started coming quite early on. i saw it more as territorial and i lied through my teeth anyway and made myself out to be a whole lot purer than i was 😛

anyhow, he wouldn't even let the pure version of my past drop for almost 20 years LOL!!! so please....DON'T GO THERE.

men don't want to hear about how good they are in comparison with another man. they don't like it when you say 'you're the best EVER' for example cos it immediately makes them feel they're competing in a sex league. just say stuff like 'you're the best'...without qualification. that's a top tip btw 😉

it's such a sexist question anyway. the past doesn't matter when you're building a future with someone. if you asked a guy stuff like that they're more likely to exaggerate and brag anyway so why bother going there!!!

mind you....i'm sure it'll be fine for him to drone on for hours about his exes given half the chance. the first mention of the 'ex' word and i always look at my watch cos i'm not gonna waste my time listening to it! works both ways.
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I'll give a take from a male perspective although I'm not a Leo. Funny thing is, I had this conversation with a good Leo friend of mine today. As men and women, we all get a little insecure in our relationships. We question, doubt, and are fearful...especially when we've been with a person for a long time. The truth is, most men always want to feel they ate good enough for the woman they love. Most of us internalize the questions and never ask out of fear. Fear of being seen as weak or nosey. Jynja, Wounded Leo, you're both right. But to Jynja's point, it may be that it's none of his business as a matter of principle and the past is the past, but sometimes you have to even sacrifice your greatest principles for love. For love is give and take. To the OP, this is a test. How you react will determine a lot. If I were you, I'd take the middle ground. Talk to him about it, but let him know that you will not be interrogated and only tell him so much. Reassure him that you love him and are there for him and that no other man matters.