In lust with a Leo

Hi guys,

I really need advice especially from Leo guys. I was involved with a Leo man for about 3 mos. it was instant chemistry when I met him. I knew I really really liked him, he said the same thing but after that day he took the back seat w/pursuing me. I'm used to men coming after me & spoiling me so this was the first time I had to pursue a man. As in call/text first, express my feelings all the fucking time. He was everything I would want in a man, funny, down-to-earth, generous, loving & caring, with a big heart. He opened mind to new things & it was always fun when we were together but I wasn't getting what I needed back. He was always hot and cold with me. At one point I wanted to see if he really missed me, so I didn't initiate contact for a week. He never contacted me either. I eventually contacted him and he did not have a plausible reason. That really hurt me. Sometimes he would get into these iffy moods that I didn't know how to handle. I just felt like I was giving more than I was getting & that didn't feel good. Sometimes it would feel like we are making progress then all of a sudden, flatline. The last time I saw him I asked him what he really wants from me & he said he didn't know. I think that really did it for me with his uncaring attitude towards me that day. I told him I didn't want to carry on with the charade anymore. That I was done, That's when He told me he thought we were not compatible enough to have a successful relationship but we could be great affiliates. I have no idea what that means. It's been a week now & I think about him everyday. Should I ever contact him or would he ever contact me? If I contact him, how long should I wait before I do. I think I might not mind just being "great affiliates" after all. *sigh*

Posted by Ssupes
Leave him alone

You're right. But I understand now why he would think we are not compatible. There are certain things Leo guys would love a girl to do for them and the only reason I wasn't doing those things yet was because I knew he wasn't invested in being with me yet. I'm not much a risk taker & I feel like I acted too soon. But yea you're right. Now I gotta figure out how to stop thinking about him.

"There are certain things Leo guys would love a girl to do for them and the only reason I wasn't doing those things yet was because I knew he wasn't invested in being with me yet."


Not certain what you mean by this, but I can guess...

I hope you aren't considering doing them anyway.


And don't EVEN settle for the consolation prize of

Affiliate.

He is not The One that Got Away-- and he's likely

Water void, so consider it a bullet dodged.

Or at least try to.

🙂

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Posted by Montgomery
"There are certain things Leo guys would love a girl to do for them and the only reason I wasn't doing those things yet was because I knew he wasn't invested in being with me yet."


Not certain what you mean by this, but I can guess...

I hope you aren't considering doing them anyway.


And don't EVEN settle for the consolation prize of

Affiliate.

I can confirm that we are proud to have and support all our affiliate partners through a variety of initiatives.

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LOL

Posted by Montgomery
There are certain things Leo guys would love a girl to do for them and the only reason I wasn't doing those things yet was because I knew he wasn't invested in being with me yet.


Not certain what you mean by this, but I can guess...

I hope you aren't considering doing them anyway.


And don't EVEN settle for the consolation prize of

Affiliate.

He is not The One that Got Away?-and he's likely

Water void, so consider it a bullet dodged.

Or at least try to.

🙂

Thank you!

You need to figure out why you would be ok with this though after only knowing him for 3 months. Are there no other men? I can guarantee while you're on here, he's out here with someone else who is not getting that behaviour because she's made it clear that it is not acceptable. That is who he'll end up with. I have a Leo ex, and the women he treats the worst are always the ones who allow him to treat them however and are super available to him no matter what. If you settle for the affiliate title, be prepared to get treated the same. Any expectations of how you think he should treat you need to go completely out the window.


Not trying to be mean. Just maybe help you look at it a different way.

Posted by scorpioinlust
... express my feelings all the fucking time.

He let you down easy. I would have run very fast too.

2 reasons:
- Your intensity is overwhelming. From the single line I quoted, this intensity even comes across as violent. My first thought is, would you like to possess the man by sheer force of will?

scary.

- I don't believe you did anything wrong by chasing the man. Sag women chase after Leos all the time. What you may not have done properly was give him the chance to chase you back.

You remind me of a dominatrix Aries who had a Scorpio bottom. The Scorpio man, despite all his confidence, was always wary of contacting the Aries because she laid the law.

it was probably similar with the Leo when you went incognito for a week.

Never got this cat and mouse thing with Leo Men. Never had to do it.....

But from reading you post, he is not interested. Sorry.

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Posted by dontgetmewrong
Well from her name scorpioinlust, I'll bet my money she's a scorpio 😉

It's this quote from 037:

- I don't believe you did anything wrong by chasing the man. Sag women chase after Leos all the time. What you may not have done properly was give him the chance to chase you back. "

Lol lol lol

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I agree