is he hurt or angry?

Im an aquarius woman seeing a leo man. We have been off n on for 5.5 years. About 3 weeks ago we had a big blowout and i broke up with him. Heres why. I had been quite busy for the past month prior to this incident. Not having much tome to spend with him. My sons bday, then my family went on vacation for 8 days then my grandma had a stroke and passed 3 days later. He never called, texted or anything. Not even to see how i was doing. He was only concerned about me seeing him after vacation. Which i was tied up with the death. So we had a huge blowout where i told him he was inconsiderate and only cared about things that concerned him. So he tells me that i have never been there for him and done anything for him etc. But granted a similar situation happened to him not even a year ago. And i was there day and night. So now he doesnt answer my calls or texts. But he asks a very close friend about me. What's his deal? Was i wrong or something?.