Leo Ladies

Why do so many of you seem so impressionable and so concerned of others' perceptions of you? Is the ego really that bad?

The Leo neuroses stumps me a majority of the time because... fire sign. Wtf gives? You're a damned fire sign. What's with this pussy attitude of letting others' bs cloud your logic/view on what's really happening?

This is about the same time I see Leo women self destruct their relationships- they start making up insane scenarios, assuming things are going wrong, etc. It seems stemmed in insecurity, but again, wtf, fire sign.

Curse of the fixed placement? The penchant for the dramas?

*follows topic*

I will ponder and get back to contribute.

Posted by wagtail
*follows topic*

I will ponder and get back to contribute.

Thanks. I'm legitimately asking to get better insight.

Fixed sign, over sensitive, loyal until death, insecure, deep need to make others happy...

It's the Leo curse

I'm with Elly, lets have a cuddle party.

Posted by wagtail
Hmmmmwell I can give this a go I guess. I do wana start by saying I don't think I could generalise about ALL Leow Ladies on this. It's purely gonna be my take - hope that's okay Rocky 😎

Some points I can relate to, some not so much.

Gotta remember I don't exactly have an objective viewpoint here. Stuck in my own head I might very well say this is all a load of hog wash - but as an outside observer maybe this is very much what seems to happen.

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I tried my best. It was a hard topic to answer, but very thought provoking!

Your explanation doesn't surprise me all that much though. From what I've observed, that sounds about right. I guess the fixed placement is more to blame in this aspect because like I said- fire sign. Where are the no fucks to give? But then again, insecurities do dangerous things to situations and relationships.

I threw this out there to just maybe better understand what causes this self destructive behavior. My poor brother was a little upset last night because his girlfriend's insecurities have flared up out of the blue. She's usually pretty good with bs, but lately, a couple of situations have made them rear their ugly head and we're both wtf.

I guess what baffles me the most, is that she's been with my brother for 5 years at this point and suddenly she's worried about all this speculation that he'll leave her? Her dad has said some fucked up shit about her weight and that my brother would leave her if she didn't lose it. There was an incident with some silly bitch when they had a group outing and now she thinks this chick is going to steal my brother away. My brother loled because this chick is just a social retard and likely has zero idea what her comments and behavior is doing.

Either way, he's pretty insulted she's taking all this bs and speculation as gospel truth when she knows him/their relationship better than some outsiders, you know? So in the meantime, she's been assuming dumb shit and getting weird ideas that he'll leave her and so on.

I told him they both gotta get that shit in check because that's just the beginning of the end if they don't nip that shit in the bud. Raging insecurity like that is what destroys relationships. I don't know what else to tell him. He's had way more patience with her than I would have. I was already over her drama and bs when he was barely dating her. She has a LOT of issues and now they're rearing their ugly head.

But like I said, the wtfery stems in the fact that they've been together this long and now all of the sudden her insecurities are on the rise? Why the hell give a shit what these douchelords think? Think it has something to do with the relationship being this far along and marriage not being on the table? I can't help but wonder if it is because she's from Mexican culture. :/

Posted by SpiceNSugar
Fixed sign, over sensitive, loyal until death, insecure, deep need to make others happy...

It's the Leo curse

So it's safe to say that insecurity is a major root cause? All of those are related to it.

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Posted by SpiceNSugar
Fixed sign, over sensitive, loyal until death, insecure, deep need to make others happy...

It's the Leo curse

So it's safe to say that insecurity is a major root cause? All of those are related to it.

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Insecurity would probably be one root cause. However, I fail to see how loyalty and insecurity are related.

Posted by SpiceNSugar

Posted by rockyroadicecream

Posted by SpiceNSugar
Fixed sign, over sensitive, loyal until death, insecure, deep need to make others happy...

It's the Leo curse

So it's safe to say that insecurity is a major root cause? All of those are related to it.

Insecurity would probably be one root cause. However, I fail to see how loyalty and insecurity are related.

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....That's obviously not related. The rest are though.

Whoa... when the people in your life that are supposed

to be ON YOUR SIDE, begin to tell you horrible things

about yourself... that can be more than a little unsettling.

And its usually when these same people are overly flip

about something that may have only been mildly

bothering me-- but add to that calling me unreasonable?

I'll flip the fck out.

This is why I can't do fire moons if they are not attached

to a water sun-- but its so saaad when the problem is

theirs.

Wtf?

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Posted by Gennie
I'm with Elly, lets have a cuddle party.

YEESSS.

I'll bring the pillows. And the tunes. And the snacks. And the wine Popsicles.

I want to snuggle with de lionesses.

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I can dig that, don't forget @TrueFantasy too