Thank you for answering.....yeah, I let him be in comtrol....It makes me laugh sometimes to see how much control he needs.....Our poor relationship has dwindled to an email relationship...I really miss him....he writes emails to me every week or so saying that he misses me too......I've started dating and I literally cried on my way to my first date away from the leo guy....I had to fix my eye makeup before I got out of the car.....I really didn't want to make the break from the leo guy.....the leo is extraordinarily apprehensive....we still talk and I still miss him and without my prompting, he says that he still misses me...what a bummer huh?