Leo Man - The 1st true love of my life (part 2)

He now lives in Singapore and is planning on moving to Europe for his job. He has 2 other sons, 16 yrs & 17 yrs old. He is working on his 3rd wife. I moved on with my life as well, married and had other children. I have been divorced for 8 yrs and I have a strong relationship with a most wonderful and caring Pisces man, who will run around in circles like a crazy man to make sure that I am happy. I can't help but feel extremely disappointed with my 1st Leo love because of how he handled the situation with our son. His explanation to me was that he moved on because he didn't want to feel like he was 'standing in line' with any other love interests in my life? I am a little baffled by that statement because I feel like the only one standing in line was me, as I could not compete with his wife. So now onto the present. I stumbled across him on the internet, found him on Linkedin and then found his Facebook page which indicated that he had a Facebook page since 2009. I have a Facebook pace & so does our son. Our pages are public, my Leo love has his page private but he does has pics of himself & his significant other visible. We have exchanged emails since 4/30 & have spoken 1 time on the phone. What I noticed was that it was very easy for both of us to get emotionally involved again through emails and the one call that we had. I need answers, I loved him 24 yrs ago & I still love him, but its more of the fond memories I had of the 2 of us 2 decades ago. I so have a great disappointment because of my son & how my Leo love just walked away from him, but had 2 sons after the fact that he invested his time & wisdom in? Why was my son unimportant & insignificant? Being the Aries woman that I am, I don't deal with small talk well, I am candid, blunt, frank, out-spoken and I want answers. I feel he owes me and my son an explanation. He has once again pulled the disappearing act and I don't understand why? Can someone give me some insight on this man and his behavior because I dont know what to do?

Yes he did appear to want a commitment with me. We had discussed once he was done with his training in Oklahoma that I would move to California with him and get a civilian job on the base. He knew I was pregnant from the very beginning, as a matter of fact, he used to keep track of my periods, which I used to find extremely amusing, he would keep track to the day. (lol) So it was after I got pregnant that he decided that he was going to try to make his marriage work. Basically, the issue turned out to be that since he was an Officer in the Air Force and in the military they go by a different code than civilians, his wife at that time went to his Commanding Officer & told him that my Leo lover was having an affair. Consequences to that were the possibility of going to jail & obviously ruining his career. So he had to choose. She gave him an ultimatum that she wouldn't pursue this with his command but he needed to not have any contact with me anymore. So he made his choice, which left me heart broken and carrying his child. He did not stay married to this woman, so what I struggle with is why then did he stay away, when he had the option to return because she could not use this situation to threaten him anymore? He married again & that is where the other 2 children came from. Second marriage ended in divorce, I don't know why & now at 47 yrs old he is working on his 3rd marriage. My struggle has been & still is, why did you never look back for your 1st son? I don't hate him, I actually feel sorry for him because my son has grown into a very handsome, intelligent, driven, gentlemen. Again, my Leo love & I have gone back & forth in emails & I did find his Facebook page which he has had since 2009, I asked him why hasn't he looked for our son? My son has a Facebook page which is set to public viewing, my Leo love knows my sons name. It baffles me that he just moved on without looking back. Everything that I have read about Leo men say that they are loving parents, that they love children—? So I am confused with this behavior. My Leo love has not asked for any contact info for our son, such as a ph# or an email address & he has blocked me from viewing his PRIVATE Facebook page. Which I find hilarious. I'm really trying to understand.

Well, my son, who is a Scorpio, isn't closed minded to meeting his biological father. When my son was younger he expressed the desire to know his father. Of course, much time has passed and my son has now transitioned from childhood into adulthood. What my son has said is that he will not be the one to initiate contact with my Leo. My son has stated that since his father now knows how to make contact with him, then it is his responsibility to initiate communication. My son has said that the longer he doesn't make contact, the less open he will be to speaking with him. My son stated that my Leo has had 23 yrs to think about this and doesn't need anymore time. If my Leo wants to know him then there is no excuse and no more time to waste. So that being said, what am I missing about this Leo man? Anyones insight would be greatly appreciated.

No I don't feel that I am bitter. I have always admired Leo men. I have dated others and as an Aries woman have always had an easy connection with them. I realize every man is different and have different quirks and behaviors. And I have seen how Leo men interact with their children, what I want to understand is how this Leo, walked away and didn't look back? That just doesn't seem like a behavior for this sign. I am not currently chasing him, I have clearly communicated with him that I am not trying to re-kindle a love interest in him. I would just like some answers. I feel that he has had 23 yrs and the possibility of this day presenting itself had to have crossed his mind over the past 2 decades, I would like to understand why he has nothing to say?