Leo Scorpio ramblings

Hey everyone,
Scorpio sun, cancer moon , vemus libra female here.
I've been involved with a Leo sun, Gemini moon for almost 8 months now.

Here's a little background:

We met in high school, he had a crush on me. I was popular, he was a nerd.

We chatted a couple of times on gtalk when we went off to different colleges, mostly witty banter but that's all.

Now almost ten years after high school, we're back in our small home town,he has a high visibility powerful job and I run cutesy pre school.

He contacted me again and asked for my number. We talked. A lot. He started calling late at night (3 am) after finishing up work.
He even remembered the one time i sat next to him and i had no idea who he was. He seems very introverted and quiet but when it comes to us, he does come on a little strong.

All good right?

Now here are the issues:

He got back in touch saying he's too young too commit and things would be tough.
I was fine since I was getting over a Virgo breakup.

Then a few weeks later he told me he loved me.
I said it was too soon. We kept talking. I said I get attached to people and he already said things would be tough, he replied saying I said things will be tough not impossible.

In fact I even 'missed' his calls a couple of times because I was overwhelmed.
Then a 3 months later I told him I loved him too. I started trusting him.

Things were OK, we kept talking and connecting and being cute.

I asked him how would we make it work and he said we will and kissed my head.

But then that's it.
We resumed talking and connecting for a few more weeks but this voice in the back of my head was telling me I'm headed for trouble.
I asked him where we were headed and he said this is it. I said things would get messier if we kept on going and we should end it. He said things will get messier but didn't want to end things.

I said maybe we need to step back and reasses things.
The problem is now I'm hooked and don't know what to do. We haven't spoken properly in a week. He just sent me a selfie and I said he looked nice.


Boys don't like it when girls make the effort do they? But a Leo might like it?

Was I just a chase? Or was he being sincere?

Boys don't like it when girls make the effort do they?

But a Leo might like it?



What do you mean by 'make the effort'... ?

*perplexed*

I meant, go after them, pursue them.

You're right, I'd feel very uncomfortable chasing or putting myself out there or even expressing feelings that make me feel vulnerable.
I've never done it before but IF that's what he needs to feel loved, I'd do it. A little bit. For him, you know.
Maybe I should ask him straight up and be brave enough to accept the answer?

On a side note: how do you handle all these feelings and emotions? This cancer moon is overwhelming. I feel crazy sometimes.

Posted by Jynja
Why chase him when he seems to be settling down into whatever it is you have?

Here is how a lot of women lose their Leo men. They dont see when the leo is finally settling from the chase.

Besides, could you seriously chase some guy?

I am a Leo, but my cancer moon sits on the sun when it comes to these man woman dynamics. I couldnt ever imagine being in the lead. Gosh, the very idea is scary.

+1

Do NOT chase.

Posted by ninaP...
I've never done it before but IF that's what he needs to feel loved, I'd do it. A little bit. For him, you know.
Maybe I should ask him straight up and be brave enough to accept the answer?
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Again?

Try not to let the need to know eat you alive. 🙂

From what we've read, this man has pursued you

passionately for some time, now-- I think it's a safe

bet he doesn't intend to let you go.

So don't take away from his relentless pursuit of you

by presenting yourself on a silver platter.

That would be so... anticlimactic. :/

🙂