Leos love

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Stars
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10 Years

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I know that leos love hard but it's so hard that they confuse people into thinking thar they romantically love them not a friendship kind of love . With my Leo friend it's gotten to that point and my question is why ?. He literally cares so much that I swear he acts like a boyfriend but I know he doesn't like me . He says I'm the most important person to him and when I'm insecure he yells at me saying your beautiful I hate your mind why can't you just realize it your perfect in my eyes I love you so much your my little babyGirl and princess and this and that and saying he wishes he can hug me and kiss my cheek rn and tell me just how beautiful I am and how it kills him that I don't believe it and he gets jealous when I'm hanging out with anyone but him because he says I'm his and he's protective does that not sound like a boyfriend ? But he says I'm his Bestfriend do leos really love that hard that they even convince people that it's a romantic kind of love but really to them it's just a friendship I don't understand ,explain
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I love people so deeply! I want that person to feel so loved and warm inside. I tell my best woman friend I love her all the time. I tell her she is beautiful and I'm always up for a good hug!

It is a bit different with my best guy friend...I tread the waters carefully. In no way do I have romantic attachments to him. All in the same, I very much want him to know how beautiful of a person he is, and how many people around him love him! I love him! But I sure as hell wouldn't say that to his face. He would interpret it the wrong way. It kinda hurts that I have to back off from loving someone in that open warm way, because they don't understand in what way I love them.
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Stars
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Posted by Snar
I love people so deeply! I want that person to feel so loved and warm inside. I tell my best woman friend I love her all the time. I tell her she is beautiful and I'm always up for a good hug!

It is a bit different with my best guy friend...I tread the waters carefully. In no way do I have romantic attachments to him. All in the same, I very much want him to know how beautiful of a person he is, and how many people around him love him! I love him! But I sure as hell wouldn't say that to his face. He would interpret it the wrong way. It kinda hurts that I have to back off from loving someone in that open warm way, because they don't understand in what way I love them.

b and so it's nothing romantic ?
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LeoGurlz
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11 Years

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You say you know he doesn't like you... what are you basing that on?

For me, the way I love is so hard that it scares me. Its a gift and a curse lol... Romantically the man I love never has to question my love for him or my loyalty. Its clear as the day! I have male associates and coworkers that I will show appropriate compassion towards when necessary such as a death in the family, ill get a card or if we work together ill show equal interaction with all male coworkers that doesn't cross the line. I have one true male friend that Ive been friends with for over 20 years. We have never blurred the lines. My love for him is equivalent as the love I have for my 3 bio brothers totally different from how I love romantically but just as hard. We may meet, not go, to dinner once in a blue moon, we don't have complete transparency with each other, we don't sit on the phone and talk for hours, we don't do the movies, we don't kiss, we don't text each other I miss you/I luv you, we don't stare into each others eyes or any of that lol. Our bond is simply understood, our place in each other lives is understood. If I'm dating someone he then becomes our friend and vice versa.

Your situation reads to me like its more of a romantic love. Maybe he feels someway rejected by you, it could be the smallest thing that you said or did, and not in a malicious way. Because of that fear of rejection he decided to not profess his love full fledge instead be subtle(leo pride). If you like him romantically then have that discussion with him and see where it goes. If you don't like him romantically and you're put off by his way of being just friends, then set the boundary.
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When we love, WE LOVE.

Our family will always come first. We love them unconditionally even when they drive us batty.

Our friends are an important support network. We love them and tell them so without reservation. I think all my friends are gorgeous because I see them through the most loving of eyes.

Significant others get to be the center of our little world, are showered with love, affection, and attention. The down side is...we're very hurt if that kind of love is not reciprocated.