@luckiedollsmith
11 YearsLibra
Libras may end relationships swiftly to maintain peace and avoid conflict. They value harmony and may cut ties when they feel overwhelmed or misunderstood, prioritizing their emotional well-being and balance in relationships.
Leo or Libra?
OH yesh.
I feel that... @_@
It's generally to avoid getting burnt more than once. Once bitten, twice shy- that kind of thang.
(I assume you mean Leo's in the extended OP)
Its bcuz leo use heart more than mind. From what myself had experienced☺
I could see a Libra cutting someone off quicker than a Leo...
Not sure which one the OP is referencing though
Just read that you're 17...a lot of people cut a lot of people fast off at that age.
Stay true to yourself and your beliefs.
This is the age where you start to really learn about yourself.
Literally start.
Pay attention to you at this moment.
Leos don't cut people off in general.
Posted by SpiceNSugar
Leos don't cut people off in general.
Yesh, it would probably depend on other aspects or placements in chart too, I have no problem cutting people off- after decades of trying first tho.
But once I'm done, it's done and dusted custard.
Once I put you in the fridge, you stay in the fridge 😆
Posted by SpiceNSugar
Leos don't cut people off in general.Yesh, it would probably depend on other aspects or placements in chart too, I have no problem cutting people off- after decades of trying first tho.
But once I'm done, it's done and dusted custard.
Once I put you in the fridge, you stay in the fridge 😆click to expand
Ha. Defrost it. You know it's possible.
Leos are kind and giving..give a little here.
Posted by SpiceNSugar
Leos don't cut people off in general.Yesh, it would probably depend on other aspects or placements in chart too, I have no problem cutting people off- after decades of trying first tho.
But once I'm done, it's done and dusted custard.
Once I put you in the fridge, you stay in the fridge 😆Ha. Defrost it. You know it's possible.
Leos are kind and giving..give a little here.
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but...but...but but wut if we've given and given and given and given...
At what point do we say- 'Enough is enough'
I make a fantastic doormat, I'm the kind of rug that really ties a room together.
Until one day I get tired of people wiping their boots all over my asssth... NO MORE DEFROSTING 😆
Posted by SpiceNSugar
Leos don't cut people off in general.Yesh, it would probably depend on other aspects or placements in chart too, I have no problem cutting people off- after decades of trying first tho.
But once I'm done, it's done and dusted custard.
Once I put you in the fridge, you stay in the fridge 😆Ha. Defrost it. You know it's possible.
Leos are kind and giving..give a little here.
but...but...but but wut if we've given and given and given and given...
At what point do we say- 'Enough is enough'
I make a fantastic doormat, I'm the kind of rug that really ties a room together.
Until one day I get tired of people wiping their boots all over my asssth... NO MORE DEFROSTING 😆click to expand
I guess if you know they are the one, you could spread you rug out for a stampede
It's.not about how you feel. It's about what you're given
@mohini I'm not sure if I understand you're last point...?
Pleash elaborate for meh.
Posted by wagtail
@mohini I'm not sure if I understand you're last point...?
Pleash elaborate for meh.
When they are yours. Your one and only.
Would you not let everything fall apart to let that stay together?.
I think leos are misunderstood.
Selective. Yet highly accountable.
They will do their part, if you are theirs. But that takes work.
Feeling betrayed, disrespected, or just reached their limit with you. It happens.
Posted by wagtail
@mohini I'm not sure if I understand you're last point...?
Pleash elaborate for meh.When they are yours. Your one and only.
Would you not let everything fall apart to let that stay together?.
I think leos are misunderstood.
Selective. Yet highly accountable.
They will do their part, if you are theirs. But that takes work.
oooh righ righ righ...
Well, that's really an individual dealio I think and specifc to a Significant Other relationship maybeh.
I was devastatingly and completely smitten. I don't personally believe in 'the One' - at least not for meh.
But this guy was the real deal.
Anyways. It was fabulously complex. The whole relationship was incredible- incredibly hard, incredibly soul destroying and incedibly fortifying.
I damn near killed myself working on that fucking relationship.
It taught me about myself, about others, about boundaries, about self Love, about Sacrifice, about men, about my Heart, about my limits, about family, about values and about Love and Life.But no. It wasn't worth being SHAT on by somebody (who had the best of intentions and truly loved me btw).
He thought that yesh, we should disappear into a black hole together- no matter what, no matter what it took.
Some kind of starry eyed idealism that was supposed to demonstrate that I would go though anything for us to stay together- that any and all pain was worth the Love we had.
Unfortunately for me, it wasn't some romantic Romeo and Juliettesq situation- it was going to involve me: letting his 3-4day benders of visitng brothels and shooting up drugs and doing lines and lines of coke at late night 'work meetings' let all that slide. Treat it like another project we had to work thru together? Some kind of team building exercise? Fuck that.
I walked away with no regretz y'all.I'd rather be alone forever then be somebody elses emotional punching bag- thank ye kindly 😎
Leo's are SO capable of burning thru Hell and back for loved ones. Until NOPEclick to expand
Well. Use your good judgment. And shit. Why did you stay?
@mohini well, I didn't stay. That's my point.
This rug grew legs, and walked out the door - eventually enough was enough.
Hence my original 'in the fridge' comment.
There is no defrosting.
Posted by wagtail
@mohini well, I didn't stay. That's my point.
This rug grew legs, and walked out the door - eventually enough was enough.Hence my original 'in the fridge' comment.
There is no defrosting.
But people are worth it. I think you reaching your point is really a cheap way of saying you're too uppity...
Could you not be too self absorbed?
Posted by SpiceNSugar
Leos don't cut people off in general.Yesh, it would probably depend on other aspects or placements in chart too, I have no problem cutting people off- after decades of trying first tho.
But once I'm done, it's done and dusted custard.
Once I put you in the fridge, you stay in the fridge 😆Ha. Defrost it. You know it's possible.
Leos are kind and giving..give a little here.
but...but...but but wut if we've given and given and given and given...
At what point do we say- 'Enough is enough'
I make a fantastic doormat, I'm the kind of rug that really ties a room together.
Until one day I get tired of people wiping their boots all over my asssth... NO MORE DEFROSTING 😆click to expand
This...yes, me exactly. I give and I give, but when I'm done, watch out.
Posted by wagtail
@mohini well, I didn't stay. That's my point.
This rug grew legs, and walked out the door - eventually enough was enough.Hence my original 'in the fridge' comment.
There is no defrosting.But people are worth it. I think you reaching your point is really a cheap way of saying you're too uppity...
Could you not be too self absorbed?
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Yesh. you are right.
Everything I sacrificed for that relationship was purely imaginary. It was all in my head and I should have done moah.
In fact, it was never enough and my self absorption was in fact the reason why it all fell apart.
Posted by wagtail
@mohini well, I didn't stay. That's my point.
This rug grew legs, and walked out the door - eventually enough was enough.Hence my original 'in the fridge' comment.
There is no defrosting.But people are worth it. I think you reaching your point is really a cheap way of saying you're too uppity...
Could you not be too self absorbed?
Yesh. you are right.
Everything I sacrificed for that relationship was purely imaginary. It was all in my head and I should have done moah.
In fact, it was never enough and my self absorption was in fact the reason why it all fell apart.click to expand
Could it still be real? ‰
Posted by wagtail
@mohini well, I didn't stay. That's my point.
This rug grew legs, and walked out the door - eventually enough was enough.Hence my original 'in the fridge' comment.
There is no defrosting.But people are worth it. I think you reaching your point is really a cheap way of saying you're too uppity...
Could you not be too self absorbed?
Yesh. you are right.
Everything I sacrificed for that relationship was purely imaginary. It was all in my head and I should have done moah.
In fact, it was never enough and my self absorption was in fact the reason why it all fell apart.Could it still be real? ‰
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I feel like we communicating on two different planes here lol
Lost in translation doesn't even cover it.
Posted by wagtail
@mohini well, I didn't stay. That's my point.
This rug grew legs, and walked out the door - eventually enough was enough.Hence my original 'in the fridge' comment.
There is no defrosting.But people are worth it. I think you reaching your point is really a cheap way of saying you're too uppity...
Could you not be too self absorbed?
Yesh. you are right.
Everything I sacrificed for that relationship was purely imaginary. It was all in my head and I should have done moah.
In fact, it was never enough and my self absorption was in fact the reason why it all fell apart.Could it still be real? ‰
I feel like we communicating on two different planes here lol
Lost in translation doesn't even cover it.click to expand
You had some bad shit. But your hope is not lost. Im an optimist.
I'm here to tell you to keep on.
I'm here to be your faith.
But be smart. You can give up and let go and still be hopeful.
: )
I am never not hopeful, I am the Eternal Optimist.
@lovinglioness1115 Thank you for the Love my friend. That's all I wanted actually 😛 a little tendernesshh for tha puddytat
~hug~ 😘
@Roarr that cracked me up - the whole forgetting we aren't shpeaking thang, I do that!
Oops I'm supposed to be hatin' on that peep righ' now CRAP we're friends again. (Thank Gawd)
Oh welp *hop-skip-jump*
SORRY I MEANT TO SAY "LEOS"
Leos hate being offended, liars and just bullshit lol
They know they can find someone else (if they're in love, it's not so easy)
But yea, if they don't know that well and don't have much feelings for you, they will deuces so fast if they sense any bullshit going on
Posted by AriesLove
They don't cut people off unless you offend them in front of others, bruise their ego or keep a lot of drama. Otherwise they are pretty loyal and persistent.
Or double-cross and/or break our hearts.
Yes.
You're good, AriesLove.
I'm glad this thread is here for me to read - very interesting points (downloading in server) 🙂
Lying to them, taking them for granted, talking behind their back, embarrassing them
lies and disloyalty
Posted by happyface1
I could see a Libra cutting someone off quicker than a Leo...Not sure which one the OP is referencing though
Oh please, a libra will chase chase you right into the Devils lair if they see even a shred of hope.
Posted by happyface1
I could see a Libra cutting someone off quicker than a Leo...Not sure which one the OP is referencing though
Oh please, a libra will chase chase you right into the Devils lair if they see even a shred of hope.
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LOL
Leos and Libras don't waste time on senseless people, places, or things
We know and acknowledge how valuable we are. REGAL!
Leos have huge egos and are not afraid to put it first.
I do forgive but never forget.. ‰
The thing that pisses me off about leos, and I know that I'm one, is how they test people for attention. For example, I dated a Leo a few months ago. Things didn't go too well, she asked if I wanted to go back to being friends and try again, I told her to Fuck off and never contact me again. The other day I made a FB post about how I quit smoking, she liked the post. I sent her a message saying sorry about our falling out, and I had lots of fun together when we dated. I asked if she maybe wanted to hang out some time, not in a romantic way but as friends. She read, but never replied back. Fucking bitch. How you gonna like my post and feel proud for me, But then not want to chat?
I just unfollowed, removed her from my friends, and blocked her. Problem solved.
Posted by Soul
The thing that pisses me off about leos, and I know that I'm one, is how they test people for attention. For example, I dated a Leo a few months ago. Things didn't go too well, she asked if I wanted to go back to being friends and try again, I told her to Fuck off and never contact me again. The other day I made a FB post about how I quit smoking, she liked the post. I sent her a message saying sorry about our falling out, and I had lots of fun together when we dated. I asked if she maybe wanted to hang out some time, not in a romantic way but as friends. She read, but never replied back. Fucking bitch. How you gonna like my post and feel proud for me, But then not want to chat?I just unfollowed, removed her from my friends, and blocked her. Problem solved.
See, I relate to this.
I would never reach out in the first place after going through something like that unless I had the full intention of following through.
Whether it was rebuilding a romantic rapport or reestablishing a friendship.
If I don't see anything concrete it's just bridge closed. No hard feelings, but bye lol
Posted by Soul
The thing that pisses me off about leos, and I know that I'm one, is how they test people for attention. For example, I dated a Leo a few months ago. Things didn't go too well, she asked if I wanted to go back to being friends and try again, I told her to Fuck off and never contact me again. The other day I made a FB post about how I quit smoking, she liked the post. I sent her a message saying sorry about our falling out, and I had lots of fun together when we dated. I asked if she maybe wanted to hang out some time, not in a romantic way but as friends. She read, but never replied back. Fucking bitch. How you gonna like my post and feel proud for me, But then not want to chat?I just unfollowed, removed her from my friends, and blocked her. Problem solved.
What's your moon sign? I feel like this doesn't really sound like Leo behavior... but I could be wrong.
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It isn't, really. :/
But we can be awfully mean* if you hurt our big, fat feelings.
*deny your existence
Maybe it's soul and I water moons.
"Water under the bridge" comes to mind...
Posted by Soul
The thing that pisses me off about leos, and I know that I'm one, is how they test people for attention. For example, I dated a Leo a few months ago. Things didn't go too well, she asked if I wanted to go back to being friends and try again, I told her to Fuck off and never contact me again. The other day I made a FB post about how I quit smoking, she liked the post. I sent her a message saying sorry about our falling out, and I had lots of fun together when we dated. I asked if she maybe wanted to hang out some time, not in a romantic way but as friends. She read, but never replied back. Fucking bitch. How you gonna like my post and feel proud for me, But then not want to chat?I just unfollowed, removed her from my friends, and blocked her. Problem solved.
I do the same thing. When I so painstakingly put myself out in the open for someone (doesn't happen often), and they dare disgrace that in any way, that link is severed. To the point where I do what you did. BLOCKED. DONE. Never to be seen again.
Posted by AL4813
lies and disloyalty
Yes! Don't tell me you're gonna do something and then not do it. That's the same as saying a big fuck you right to my face
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