Leos & Secrets

Hi King & Queens. Good morning.
Brief history - leo & I (Virgo) met on dating/social app. Instant written chemistry. Text everyday (since last weekend) usually all day. Plans to meet up this week coming, Wednesday.

Last night via text he exposes a huge secret about his past sexual exploits (he's never been shy about his numerous conquests) but let's just say this one encounter was not his usual taste. So he believes I'm weirded out, which Im not, life your life honey, it's yours, but now I feel a slight disconnect b/c I was curious about it so I asked some more questions & told him that if he was interested in experiencing that encounter again, I knew a good set of people who I could introduce him too.

He declined the offer & I text him wondering what his type was and then silence.

I'm not sure if he just got agitated or perhaps felt over exposed? If you lions and lioness share a big secret do you sometimes cower away?

Perhaps I came on too strong with the support and he felt I lost interest which isn't the case...

Any advice is appreciated!

The secret which to be honest was never really a secret if he shared it so soon has nothing to do with his ignoring you.

You offering to introduce him to other people is a rejection is it not?

There is not one single Leo on the face of the Earth that handles rejection well. After only a week it is simply easier to move on.

He might come back. Keep hope alive.

Nala makes some good points.. although yes, introducing him to other people is pretty much a rejection, It sure wouldn't stop someone like me though.

I would take your friends into consideration and still go after you, being honest here(sag moon)

I personally take rejection well, I joke with it, but I think water and earth influenced leos will take it teriibly.

But honestly though, I do sense he is a bit hurt, seems like he wanted to carry out that dirty fantasy with you but you shot him down quicker than an Iraqi helicopter.

He'll be back though, just give him sometime.... oh he'll be back.

Thanks guys lol not reasonable responses. When I reread the textsi was like "ugh...." That seemed like I was putting him off which wasn't my intention at all...

Let's see what Sunday holds. @Nala And I honestly do think it was a secret of his. I've shared secrets before with internet strangers. There's an anonymity to it because technically that person doesn't know you so the likelihood of it spreading is nil to anyone or thing that you care about anyway. Btw love the screenname.

I'll keep a spark of Hope alive & live my life. Thanks for the insight! 🙂

Maybe it was a drunk night when he did it... but now he thinks your into it and....

What a dilemma. :/

@Montgomery - no it wasn't a drink night and he definitely doesn't think I'm into it. He thinks I'm weirded out by it. He told me so. So to counteract I tried to be open like I truly am regarding others sexuality and sex but I think he was anticipating a different reaction and then thought I was trying to pawn him off... I'm very convinced that's what it is. I think I'm gonna reach out today some time. See the vibe & if it's off I'm not gonna push it.

Posted by trashedbliss
@Montgomery - no it wasn't a drink night and he definitely doesn't think I'm into it. He thinks I'm weirded out by it. He told me so. So to counteract I tried to be open like I truly am regarding others sexuality and sex but I think he was anticipating a different reaction and then thought I was trying to pawn him off... I'm very convinced that's what it is. I think I'm gonna reach out today some time. See the vibe & if it's off I'm not gonna push it.

Ahh... pawn him to them, without YOU involved.

I see.

Yeah, you may want to clarify.

*pawn him off to them...