Libra is lying to me. Leo friend hates him

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gem88girl
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I was seeing a Libra male and it was all going well until he lied to me twice about his ex girlfriend so now I have ended it. he says he is sorry about that he is going to fight to win me back but I've told him there will never be an us but we could still be friends.
my Leo friend sent him an email telling him to stay away from me and that if he ever comes near me to she will hurt him. I didn't really want her to said it but she has and she has now told me I cant see him because if I do it will make her look like an idiot.
I want to see him because I still care about him as a friend but I don't know what to do about my friend?
please help do I call him or do what she said?
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Montgomery
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No, she shouldn't have sent the email.

No, she shouldn't try to control your love life.


If you want to date people that lie to you and treat you like garbage, that is your business.

Maybe the idea of him "fighting for you" (against what, I'm not sure) has a certain appeal?


Anyway-- her heart is in the right place; at least tell her you're getting back together with him, so she doesn't find out on her own.

I don't mean to sound harsh, but my Gem friends do the same thing-- and it's hard to watch them get hurt repeatedly, without trying to stop it.

Good luck.


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kashieka
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Your Leo friend is being protective about you and does not want to see you hurt time and again, but it is your life maybe try to control your emotions when you have a love problem because you might be dumping all your problems with your Leo friend. And she may get offended if you don't clear it out with her.

I had a falling out with a Libra friend because of a Libra guy. In the end I ditched them both. :/
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I'm in the exact same position as your Leo friend! I want to protect my friend from a married scumbag. She won't listen to me though...

If your Leo friend is anything like me, more than antyhing she'd get hurt if you see him. Because she has done everything in her power to prevent YOU from getting hurt. Her message is clear. She's more devoted to you than he ever could be. Yeah, she's "only" a friend, but that doesn't change that he doesn't deserve you. She'll probably never change her mind about that. And you do deserve better.

If you want his friendship, let your friend know but let her "down" easy. Make it clear to her how much you appreciate her genuine care. She doesn't see herself as controling or obsessed. She wants the very best for you, beacuse you mean a lot to her.