Making it up to the Leo after let-down

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cloudwalkersag
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10 Years

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Hi all So I'm looking for feedback mainly from Leo man but appreciate any and all feedback.
Here's the deal - I've been seeing Leo man for about 6 months now and we have discussed exactly what we want out of the relationship, etc. I got a little too drunk and embarrassed myself while out with him the other weekend and I know that is exactly what he does not want in a partner. He reacted typical Leo - got very angry, felt I disrespected him and broke up with me. I know Leos want their partner to be an extension of themselves and I have done pretty well so far, I explained I would work on my behavior when we're out and we have agreed to giving it another shot. He has been reserved, not loving, and I know this is Leo retreating for safety, scoping out the prey and seeing if it's worth the hunting down. I have patience and will continue showing I care for him even with this withdrawn response and also give him his space to process and do what he needs, but do you guys think I'm being naive? With his attitude toward me right now it's hard to imagine ever getting back to the couple in love we were just so recently...
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UntamedLeo
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12 Years

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At least at this point I don't think you're being na??ve, but possibly impatient 🙂

As a Leo when I play, I play for keeps. If my trust, feelings, respect etc. are shaken, it can take me a long time to let someone back in if I do at all. Also as a fixed sign, consistency in someone's behavior/feelings are really important so what you're doing is great, just keep it up! If he said he wants to try again he does, just continue giving him the time and space he needs.
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Montgomery
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Posted by seraph
Posted by Montgomery
Posted by cloudwalkersag

Will be fun for a true Sag to submit.



For like... a minute.


Don't let GUILT push you to the other side

(extreme) of your goal.

He likes you as you are... not as a subservient,

overly-penitent Centaur.

Ok?

Be SAG!

That is, be yourself... you've apologized, and

the moment has passed.

Carry on.


😄



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fridge magnets exist.
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I'm also a fan of bumper sticker wisdom. :p


(but then, I was raised by a Saaaaaaag!)