Male/Female friendships

This topic was created in the Leo forum by truecap on Tuesday, February 14, 2012 and has 4 replies.

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@Peanutbutter
14 Years1,000+ Posts

Amy time I mention men around or to my Leo bud he gets all crazy. He talks shit about the guys, gets angry and becomes a drama queen. like I get it, no one will ever be good enough, and you wanna be protective.but you can't expect me to stay in a damn box labelled "fragile" my.whole life!

He calls the guys scumbags, predators, players, says they only wanna get laid, and things.of that sort to discourage me from dating..

Its seriously annoying especially when I need their perspective & honest opinion about a guy. Ugh.

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@Peanutbutter
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Moreso when they're single, cynical, and jaded! If they're not happy why should you be? Right?

Gawd. Theyre such annoying cry babies.

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@Peanutbutter
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They'll do and say anything for your attention to not dwindle or be ripped from them, they always gotta be the one in the spotlight, Lord forbid you find a man and cut into his time w/ you, even if he doesn't like you in that way! Or at all! Any attention does it for them, whether bad or good so long as they feel they're putting on a one man show.

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@truecap
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Yes. He seems to think they are all just trying to get laid and I should dump them because they are not worthy.

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@Peanutbutter
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Yep. And I try to make sense of his "advice" but its becoming impossible.

I get it, men like sex.. women do too! Lol, its a concept thats been going on since the beginning of time so why feel the need to talk shit about the guy were.interested in instead of being encouraging?