When I first met my bf, I thought he was the biggest player ever. Because of this, I kept refusing to date him b/c I thought he was just trying to get another notch on his belt. After really getting to know him, though, it was a bit shocking how different what he appears to be and what he is are.
@tiki33 I've gotten to the same point too. I've started being more understanding about his "quirks" and noticing my part in exacerbating situations, and things are going much better. Neither of us likes to feel vulnerable to the other, but I'm more okay with it than he is. He needs lots of reassurance and attention (just like me), so I'm trying to get into the frame of mind of just giving unconditionally. No one gets me like he does, and as easy as it was to walk away from other guys, it feels damn near impossible with him. That's some potent mojo! *goes to get some*
krobe03, Leos are usually very faithful lovers...sexually if they find someone to be very faithful to. Now emotional whores...I can't speak on that note...They will play emotional minds games with insisting Bugaboos.
LMAO@They will play emotional minds games with insisting Bugaboos...So true!!
Okay so what's worse, physical whoring or emotional whoring? How can a person tell if the leo is one or the other?
emotional whoring is worse can follow you for years, you can get wrapped up with a guy forever if he gets his claws into your heart...IMHO.
I know for a fact my brother was no manwhore, he was very attractive and had the typical leo traits, he fell in love easily and fell out of love but for the most part he was pretty much with one chick at a time so I think what alot of people see is the leo male's ego at play, its more about appearances than REALITY, in reality he's probably not indulging into any lascivious activities until he gets around people and gets an audience to feed his ego off of. My brother is married and has 5 kids, been married over 10 years, he's 36, not saying he was faithful, no one knows but him, but he stands by his family and is a wonderful provider.
Ego versus Reality...determining which one a person see's at any given time will give you the answer.
You just gave me a glimpse into the leos mind, so I take it that its really more of an ego thing with leo's than it is physical, sounds like your saying that the leo species is basically a faithful and loyal creature but may also take joy/entertainment by attracting a woman or women to play his mental games with to get some type of ego stimulation, like a cat and mouse type thing.
Leos will play the game but for the most part have no intentions of ditching that special someone despite the emotional liason between him and the other woman. Its a game of mental/emotional play that keeps him stimulated but not enough to leave his significant other or wife...is that what your saying?
Can you elaborate on: But, you also BETTER be the stronger half, because the right challenge POSSIBLY can make you slip....what do you mean by make you slip? Are you saying that the woman/women that decide to play this game better be prepared to possibly get hurt in some way.
picking your brain a bit but I wanna make sure I'm understanding what your saying.
It almost sounds like leos like to be chased which I have heard this before and it seems that your confirming that.
Out of curiosity, why even play that type of game if the leo knows he/she isn't going to leave their partners...is it a matter of feeling desirable?
What I am saying, BETTER HALF, for instance, not accusing me of cheating ALL the dam time, supporting me with what ever, emotionally supporting ME when I NEED it, not necessarily when U want to give it to me. DON'T DO THAT! Aquaus are opposite from leos. I have an emotional problem , U DON'T need to have on too. In actuality, you are the one giving me a better chance of realizing that I have an emotional problem, letting ME take time to THINK about what to say to you and how to say it, and letting ME come to U when I need that support. I WILL become stronger. It will build my self confidence. IT WILL assure ME that U are the ONE. If you are sitting up accusing me of other males all the time, being possessive ALL the time, not giving me my freedom to just let me be natural. YOU don't trust me, so why should I make myself be faithful and devoted to someone who doesn't even bring out the strength in ME. If a leo complains of something especially emotionally, U BETTER be aware that he is seeking more of it from U or if someone else is out here giving it, IT's Possible that a AFFAIR can start. But leos are also very cautious. THEY just don't jump out here and sleep with someone who has no value of his or herself. That's what the cat and mouse game is about. Per say, the average woman that has ANY self respect for herself, won't just give herself away freely, she has morals about herself, U would THINK the average male will just sleep with alot of women. NO a decent man that values hiself, will NOT just have sex with unfamiliar grounds. HE will chase, let her chase, cool off, round ---.
A matter of feeling desirable, NO, I TOLD you from the get WHAT it is deal with it...SOME people DON'T understand NO or the TRUTH. Believe it or not. Its seems like I attract more men with a man for some reason. MEN want to BE my MAN. I guess they figure what in the HE-- am I doing to make a man want to stay with me for 10.5. I MUST know what to do. ALL MEN want someone whether now or later to spend 10+ years with. If you desire me after I told you the deal. Let's go round for round. In actually all it does is make your relationship at home stronger and make you realize what U really have. U are not getting MY SEX so I still win the game. Who is hurt? Not me my man is at home. The boogaboo's-basically, I didn't give up sex, I was honest, nice to you, I was everything to you that you wanted in a woman. BUT U can't BE my man. Unless he is at home stressing me all the Da-- time
What I am saying, BETTER HALF, for instance, not accusing me of cheating ALL the dam time, supporting me with what ever, emotionally supporting ME when I NEED it, not necessarily when U want to give it to me.
I see what you mean, I totally see a few scenerio's in contrast with what i have dealt with inregards to my leo, I have made the mistake of accusing which I no longer do, I have given emotional support when needed. Wow thanks for that example, it definitely puts some things into perspective & answers ?'s that I had about his behavior towards me.
ROTFL@Aquaus are opposite from leos. I have an emotional problem , U DON'T need to have on too.....this made me bust out laughing, I have found since dealing with my leo that I have had to strengthen my weaknesses on my own, actually him being in my life brought those weaknesses to the surface so I could deal with them, I definitely realize now that him having his emotional issues collided with mine and sorta put a rift between us, things are much much better but I have to say you nailed it on this one.
In actuality, you are the one giving me a better chance of realizing that I have an emotional problem, letting ME take time to THINK about what to say to you and how to say it, and letting ME come to U when I need that support. I WILL become stronger. It will build my self confidence.
hmmmmm I see what your saying!! I haven't heard anyone put it quite this way, correct me if I'm wrong but your saying I must be a mirror effect for him to see himself differently, I can't help him see himself if I have emotional issues and i'm projecting my stuff onto him, I help by being healthy emotionally and by not being needy at the time that he is going thru his situation...I will definitely remember this always.
If you are sitting up accusing me of other males all the time, being possessive ALL the time, not giving me my freedom to just let me be natural. YOU don't trust me, so why should I make myself be faithful and devoted to someone who doesn't even bring out the strength in ME...
aaaaaaaaaaaaah I see, I see and I don't know how to explain to you how I understand but I do get it. Its almost like your saying weakness turns you off, accusations and lack of trust will propel you to find that person that is strong enuff to deal with the leos personality. I can't lie, in the beginning I was full of suspicion but in the past few weeks/months I backed off completely and I do see a significant difference in
If a leo complains of something especially emotionally, U BETTER be aware that he is seeking more of it from U or if someone else is out here giving it, IT's Possible that a AFFAIR can start.
No complaints thus far, I think I'm ahead of the game but I definitely will pay attention to how he is demonstrating his need for attention.
Let's go round for round. In actually all it does is make your relationship at home stronger and make you realize what U really have. U are not getting MY SEX so I still win the game. Who is hurt? Not me my man is at home. The boogaboo's-basically, I didn't give up sex, I was honest, nice to you, I was everything to you that you wanted in a woman. BUT U can't BE my man. Unless he is at home stressing me all the Da-- time
Got it!! I totally understand...thanks!! Your very wise and I can appreciate wisdom...you and chocolate be on it lol!!
BE confident! U should be like I am the ONE, I KNOW I AM, Flirt if U want to, do what ever U want but U R not going to find nothing better out there than me. GO and SEE.
My mom is a leo and I swear you sound just like her, she was just saying that the other day, she told me that NO ONE compares to you, their is NO COMPETITION and I kind of blew it off but then as time went on I totally started to believe it...WOW!! I have said that to him, do what you won't but nothing compares to this, I know if you go, you will be back.
For, instance a weak man who knows you are with a man, will still be with you, still take U out, and have sex with U, elimation process....elimination process?? Not sure I understand what you mean by that.
A REAL MAN will play enough games with U, just to see what is so attractive of U and NO NO, we can't have an affair, be lovers, be friends, I see what your man has got and If I can't have U for completely for myself then I don't want U. But this is the challenge. R U going to give me the strength that I have at HOME. NO, U lose. BE THE ONE. Realize U R strong and nothing else out there can ever take that away from US. IF U think it can, here is your space, go see. He will NEVER leave unless U slip. Emotional MIND GAMES don't MEAN sh--. TRUST ME. WE are talking about someone who will give U everything U want, everything U need.
Okay I think I'm grasping what your saying, its not so much as the emotional mind games per say, its more of him exercising his right to be free and see whats there, to see if the other woman is strong enuff and can measure up or surpass the qualities I possess, it doesn't necessarily mean that he's going to run off in the wind with that person...right? But whomever he leaves me for will out equal me in some way or another, be it less drama, more freedom to express himselt etc.
also if emotional minds games don't mean shit then why does it seem that they play alot of it...okay WAIT!!! I remember you said, leos play mind games to know our weaknesses and if they know our weaknesses that person can use them against us in some way...right!! So it's important to know I AM THE ONE..RIGHT!!
Dayum!! Were was you 6 weeks ago!!! Ugh! No wonder I was going thru so much hell, things are calm now but man this information would have saved me alot of heartache.
For, instance a weak man who knows you are with a man, will still be with you, still take U out, and have sex with U, elimation process....elimination process?? Not sure I understand what you mean by that. That to leo's is a weak soul, and you could NEVER be apart of me, because U R weaker than I AM and I don't need that shi- in my life.
also if emotional minds games don't mean butter then why does it seem that they play alot of it...okay WAIT!!! I remember you said, leos play mind games to know our weaknesses and if they know our weaknesses that person can use them against us in some way...right!! So it's important to know I AM THE ONE..RIGHT!! IF U R the one and U know it don't play emotional mind games with him, let him go freely out in the world and challenge all these other woman that wants what U have and that right there will be enough mind games for him to deal with. DO your part completely and just let him do it NO not to U to other women and let them get there hearts torn apart while U R reaping all the benefits of having a him stable in your life. Let him just attract, be natural, not accusing, do what U need to do and do EVER worry about them. Tell him to step out and see. He ain't going nowhere. IT's just a test.
ROTFL!!@That to leo's is a weak soul, and you could NEVER be apart of me, because U R weaker than I AM and I don't need that shi- in my life.....understood
IF U R the one and U know it don't play emotional mind games with him, let him go freely out in the world and challenge all these other woman that wants what U have and that right there will be enough mind games for him to deal with. DO your part completely and just let him do it NO not to U to other women and let them get there hearts torn apart while U R reaping all the benefits of having a him stable in your life. Let him just attract, be natural, not accusing, do what U need to do and do EVER worry about them. Tell him to step out and see. He ain't going nowhere. IT's just a test.....totally understood
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krobe03, So my whole point is...Ignore the mind games. DON'T get yourself wrapped up in that. IF U ignore him, he will have to pick up that weakness from other sources. DON"T be the other source. Let other women be the other source. DO your part and DON'T worry about nothing else. Don't stress all that drama. GIVE it to someone else. I advise you to do so, that way HE WILL realize the value of U and how much U R to him.
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