you've been his safety net for too long. i think you have to cut the rope and set YOURSELF free and leave him dangling. he's taking you for granted as people do when they know someone loves them. you need to show him what his life would be like without you in it before he can appreciate what he has with you.
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you've been his safety net for too long. i think you have to cut the rope and set YOURSELF free and leave him dangling. he's taking you for granted as people do when they know someone loves them. you need to show him what his life would be like without you in it before he can appreciate what he has with you.