Oh dear, venus retrograde, fuck off (Page 2)

Whatever is the easiest to take off BGP, there is no way he is coming here and I'm not getting mine 🙂 That's the strategy so far, beyone that I can't even think 😉

LOL LOVE THAT STRATEGY.

Thanks 😛 I'm trying to keep it secret from my Capricorn mother - but I need to pay it off now within 6 days or I need to go to court. 😭 No clue what to do.

Posted by celticlioness
Whatever is the easiest to take off BGP, there is no way he is coming here and I'm not getting mine 🙂 That's the strategy so far, beyone that I can't even think 😉

naturally, we shall be expecting a full blow-by-blow account (pardon the pun)

hope it goes well CL!! bet you're not thinking about a certain ram right now!! 🙂

Im thinking a mini skirt, thong, no bra and a tank top. Should do the trick! Let us know all deets as they happen!!

and if you could take a pic of him naked, that'd be helpful 😛

just sayin'

He can't make it, the ex left the children with him 😢 Fuck, i was getting ready all day - I shouldn't go back down this road.

Posted by WoundedLeo

Posted by BigGirlPanties
and if you could take a pic of him naked, that'd be helpful 😛

just sayin'

True! This would be helpful 😉

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Lol, can't do that now - just look at the pic of near naked 25th Decan, he's a paler version of him 🙂

CL: do you think his ex sabotaged things?

BGP: your choice of outfit sucks gf!! personally, the more i fancy someone, the more i cover up cos i don't like feeling i'm displaying my wares. i like to have a slutty item though...usually shoes...so i'm demure but with hint of hooker, lol.

i just think it's nice to leave the impact of a super sexy outfit for a few dates...when they're a little more hooked...then it's a case of reeling them in.

unless they're GODDAMN LEOS!!! 😢

Posted by R1g0rM0rT1s
CL: do you think his ex sabotaged things?

Don't know Rig, he wouldn't have said anything to her so probably not, she had a communion party today so she prob just planned on going out after it and assumed he would be around to have the kids, which it turned out he was - as usual. Was so looking forward to seeing him again 😢

I know I can see him on Wednesday night and there will be no problem with that - just don't know if I should.

Posted by R1g0rM0rT1s
BGP: your choice of outfit sucks gf!! personally, the more i fancy someone, the more i cover up cos i don't like feeling i'm displaying my wares. i like to have a slutty item though...usually shoes...so i'm demure but with hint of hooker, lol.

i just think it's nice to leave the impact of a super sexy outfit for a few dates...when they're a little more hooked...then it's a case of reeling them in.

unless they're GODDAMN LEOS!!! 😢

Lol, I agree - he does like a more sexy demure look - but has said I could be wearing a paper bag and he'd still think I was the sexiest thing he'd ever seen 🙂 He likes to do the undressing though (and I like it too), so I give him just enough to take off - fuck!!! I want to see him!


What's going on with the Leo?

well this sucks balls and all...damn, I was hoping for a good, juicy report. 😢

Posted by BigGirlPanties
well this sucks balls and all...damn, I was hoping for a good, juicy report. 😢

If there was any of that going on then we'd definitely be getting that report! 😉

-stifled giggle- sucks balls..

Oh dear, I'm so outright nasty sometimes 😛

CL: Under what guise did he come back to you. I mean, what did he say when he first called you last week? How long had it been since you broke up? Has he been purusing you a long time?

I guess I want the back story....if you dont mind?

Posted by WoundedLeo
Awwww bummer! We were all looking forward to some hot and juicy news. Well give him another chance. I'm sure the ex sensed something amiss. Controlling women like her have a sixth sense. I swear. It's nuts.

I think so too myself 😢 she will always know and thwart.

Posted by BigGirlPanties
CL: Under what guise did he come back to you. I mean, what did he say when he first called you last week? How long had it been since you broke up? Has he been purusing you a long time?

I guess I want the back story....if you dont mind?

Lol, ok you shall have it.

We met a few years ago and it was instant chemistry, never ever had it with anyone before - we were just going to be together and that was it. he was just separated (so not good start really).

We were together exactly a year - it was very easy at first and we were both in it for fun really, but I fell hard for him pretty soon after - they say when a virgo falls for you there is no need for words as you will just know it - and believe me it's true, when I knew he loved me I felt it in that moment and can't describe it at all - but I also knew that that would be the last time together because of this, even though he said nothing, and I was right, he disappeared for 2 weeks, but I didn't let him away with it and sent him a stern message, which he responded to immediately - we talked, he was confused and said he had to leave things for a while (the ex had been giving him a hard time the whole time, and stalking me 😢) So it took me a year to get over him, it was very very hard, no-one could get in at all, those walls were huge - until I met the Aries that is, he broke them down in one fell swoop the fecker.

So a few months ago I bumped into the Virgo, he told me he loved me and we kissed, it was like we had never been apart, the heat was amazing, but I was ok to leave it at that, with the confirmation in words that he had loved me - I was happy, happy to go on with life without him and know that we loved each other iykwim. He would always be mine and I his, in our hearts, and the ex wouldn't be able to change that - its also the way I wanted to leave it. Then a few weeks ago he saw me pass him and texted me, we started telephone calls since then and he made it clear he wanted to get back together, my strength deserted me - and i do think this is a lot to do with the Aries who has also been in touch over the last few weeks and has weakend me, i'm confused about everything now. Anywho, my love for the Virgo will never die and I gave in and agreed to meet him - you know the rest. He will call tomorrow or the next day and I know he wants to re-arrange for wednesday night so I will

have to think about things in the meantime. My aries sister in law is just loving the whole thing, she has always been sure that we were meant to be together and it a true love story - its the challenging aspect that is intriguing her I think 🙂

Posted by Huntress
Oh dear, I'm so outright nasty sometimes 😛

Lol, but wouldn't it have been nice 😛

Posted by celticlioness

Posted by R1g0rM0rT1s
BGP: your choice of outfit sucks gf!! personally, the more i fancy someone, the more i cover up cos i don't like feeling i'm displaying my wares. i like to have a slutty item though...usually shoes...so i'm demure but with hint of hooker, lol.

i just think it's nice to leave the impact of a super sexy outfit for a few dates...when they're a little more hooked...then it's a case of reeling them in.

unless they're GODDAMN LEOS!!! 😢

Lol, I agree - he does like a more sexy demure look - but has said I could be wearing a paper bag and he'd still think I was the sexiest thing he'd ever seen 🙂 He likes to do the undressing though (and I like it too), so I give him just enough to take off - fuck!!! I want to see him!


What's going on with the Leo?

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why are you wondering about wednesday? what's to wonder about CL?? i have a feeling you can't help yourself 🙂

all quiet on the leo front...well, the leo formerly known as knobhead anyway. my last messages didn't ask any questions and didn't encourage further contact so no doubt he's a bit stumped as to what his next move, if any, should be.

meanwhile, the work leo i accidentally contacted on a dating site has been in contact alot since he left the company. he's starting a new business with my boss and i have to liaise with him to build the website. he asked if i wanted to hook up this weekend to 'storm ideas, etc' but i declined and moved ti to some time during the week. he's a sexy guy but i still think i'm too hung up on the knobhead to even think about anyone else just yet.

i tell you no man rattles me more than a leo....and they're EVERYWHERE!!! bosses, friends, love interests.....MAKE IT STOP!!! 😢

you didn't mention the ram had been in touch? was it the worky related text or something? DID I MISS SOMETHING MISSUS—

lol....sounds like a true love story. i just don't get why you would want to walk away from that when there is no real reason to? what are you scared of CL?

LOL@ MAKE IT STOP! Haaa,,..no no no dear Riggie, we leo's have you where we want you. Just surrender to our power...muhahhha!

CL..my gosh, what a love story. I could hear the music to "The way we were" playing in the back ground. My goodness...this is so sweet...I do so hope it works out for you. 🙂 🙂 🙂

Posted by celticlioness
have to think about things in the meantime. My aries sister in law is just loving the whole thing, she has always been sure that we were meant to be together and it a true love story - its the challenging aspect that is intriguing her I think 🙂

Aww.. it seems like every Aries female that I know always has a bit of that 'hopeless romantic' trait within them 🙂 Very 'Disney' 😛

Posted by R1g0rM0rT1s
you didn't mention the ram had been in touch? was it the worky related text or something? DID I MISS SOMETHING MISSUS—

lol....sounds like a true love story. i just don't get why you would want to walk away from that when there is no real reason to? what are you scared of CL?

Yeah, he's been in touch on and off since then, was a lot of help when my son was in hospital and afterwards, then made suggestions about going out last week, but then he did his usual "i can't tell time" trick and suddenly is gone for a week 🙂 I'm used to it and over it now.

I'm not walking away from the Virgo Rig, he walked away - there's nothing that woman could have done that would have made me leave him, i'm much stronger than her and i would have stuck by him through anything, bring it on.... he'd be my man and there would have been nothing she could have done to change that (leo loyalty at its finest 🙂) BUT He walked away - and my fear is that he will do it again. When somebody can walk away from you, should you let them walk? If he was joined to me he would not have left me 😢

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Posted by celticlioness

Posted by R1g0rM0rT1s
BGP: your choice of outfit sucks gf!! personally, the more i fancy someone, the more i cover up cos i don't like feeling i'm displaying my wares. i like to have a slutty item though...usually shoes...so i'm demure but with hint of hooker, lol.

i just think it's nice to leave the impact of a super sexy outfit for a few dates...when they're a little more hooked...then it's a case of reeling them in.

unless they're GODDAMN LEOS!!! 😢

Lol, I agree - he does like a more sexy demure look - but has said I could be wearing a paper bag and he'd still think I was the sexiest thing he'd ever seen 🙂 He likes to do the undressing though (and I like it too), so I give him just enough to take off - fuck!!! I want to see him!


What's going on with the Leo?

why are you wondering about wednesday? what's to wonder about CL?? i have a feeling you can't help yourself 🙂

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Yeah you're right, I probably won't be able to help myself? To be very honest, I feel this will be our last time together, like a goodbye, wednesday will mean a couple of hours, for various reasons, if I can hold out and get a saturday out of it I will get the whole night long 🙂

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Posted by celticlioness

Posted by R1g0rM0rT1s
BGP: your choice of outfit sucks gf!! personally, the more i fancy someone, the more i cover up cos i don't like feeling i'm displaying my wares. i like to have a slutty item though...usually shoes...so i'm demure but with hint of hooker, lol.

i just think it's nice to leave the impact of a super sexy outfit for a few dates...when they're a little more hooked...then it's a case of reeling them in.

unless they're GODDAMN LEOS!!! 😢

Lol, I agree - he does like a more sexy demure look - but has said I could be wearing a paper bag and he'd still think I was the sexiest thing he'd ever seen 🙂 He likes to do the undressing though (and I like it too), so I give him just enough to take off - fuck!!! I want to see him!


What's going on with the Leo?

all quiet on the leo front...well, the leo formerly known as knobhead anyway. my last messages didn't ask any questions and didn't encourage further contact so no doubt he's a bit stumped as to what his next move, if any, should be.

meanwhile, the work leo i accidentally contacted on a dating site has been in contact alot since he left the company. he's starting a new business with my boss and i have to liaise with him to build the website. he asked if i wanted to hook up this weekend to 'storm ideas, etc' but i declined and moved ti to some time during the week. he's a sexy guy but i still think i'm too hung up on the knobhead to even think about anyone else just yet.

i tell you no man rattles me more than a leo....and they're EVERYWHERE!!! bosses, friends, love interests.....MAKE IT STOP!!! 😢

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Rig, Leo's not only like but NEED directness (i do anyway). If it isn't forthcoming after a certain length of time, I'd get bored and move on to another thing - you need to be more direct with leo that was knobhead. Having said that, new leo sounds NICE.... Scorpio/Leo, you all know my thoughts, full on passion, respect and love - how long for though? till the passion turns - eeek. We can't make it stop for you though, you need to have a full blown passionate affair with a Leo, I can only imagine how mind-blowing it would be 🙂

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Posted by celticlioness
have to think about things in the meantime. My aries sister in law is just loving the whole thing, she has always been sure that we were meant to be together and it a true love story - its the challenging aspect that is intriguing her I think 🙂

Aww.. it seems like every Aries female that I know always has a bit of that 'hopeless romantic' trait within them 🙂 Very 'Disney' 😛

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Aren't they just the cutest!

Posted by WoundedLeo
Try again for Wednesday CL. You know we're all rooting for you here. We'll be here to virtually hold your hand no matter what happens.

Thanks WL, i'm thinking and pondering on it a lot - won't lie - I want that man - but do I want the aftermath. I think this venus retrograde has sent me this time as a time to learn, heal and close on this one.

oh i see...he walked away back then 😢 bastard. gone of him now.

on the directness front. I need directness and haven't had any at all from the knobhead since the last time i saw him. just months and months of random texting and avoiding MY directness to find out what the fuck he was doing. when i met him, we got on so damn well, unbelievable life coincidences, it was such a strong connection led by him mainly...that i dropped my guard - one that had been up for four years at that stage. i'm not stupid.

so on that basis, i'm still reeling from the way i was dropped like a hot potato when his ex clicked her fingers and the reason i'm still reeling from it is because HE WASN'T DIRECT WITH ME! grrrrrrrrr.

so he doesn't deserve mine right now. if i were to behave like nothing happened, that gives him the cue to NEVER be direct with me and i wann know what kind of man he is before i take anything further - so if he wants me, he's got to prove it.

so ner.

he's got moon in libra too remember? we have difficulties being direct with people, especially if that directness is gonna hurt them cos we just don't want to witness that and know we caused it....so take the coward's way out and say nothing, which hurts the other person even more.

CL: remember the retrograde will be affecting him as well. perhaps his closure is to be with you? you should still leave your heart open to possibilities at this stage i feel. 🙂

Posted by R1g0rM0rT1s
oh i see...he walked away back then 😢 bastard. gone of him now.

on the directness front. I need directness and haven't had any at all from the knobhead since the last time i saw him. just months and months of random texting and avoiding MY directness to find out what the fuck he was doing. when i met him, we got on so damn well, unbelievable life coincidences, it was such a strong connection led by him mainly...that i dropped my guard - one that had been up for four years at that stage. i'm not stupid.

so on that basis, i'm still reeling from the way i was dropped like a hot potato when his ex clicked her fingers and the reason i'm still reeling from it is because HE WASN'T DIRECT WITH ME! grrrrrrrrr.

so he doesn't deserve mine right now. if i were to behave like nothing happened, that gives him the cue to NEVER be direct with me and i wann know what kind of man he is before i take anything further - so if he wants me, he's got to prove it.

so ner.

he's got moon in libra too remember? we have difficulties being direct with people, especially if that directness is gonna hurt them cos we just don't want to witness that and know we caused it....so take the coward's way out and say nothing, which hurts the other person even more.

awww, don't go off him, he did what he thought was for the best for both me and his children - and perhaps it was. The freaky (pisces) ex had begun harrasing and stalking me and taking it out on the kids. I completely understand why he did what he did and even admire him for it, not that I wasn't hurt by it all.

Rig do you still want the Leo man, even after he ran to his ex the moment she summoned him? Is this the type of man you want to be with? To be honest I think you need to put some closure on this and that's what I mean when I say be direct (forget your moons 🙂) Just ask him straight out, don't pretend like nothing happened, in fact put it in his face exactly what happened, you should get a straight answer, then you will know were things stand and you can make decisions (again forget that moon) for your own life going forward.

Posted by R1g0rM0rT1s
CL: remember the retrograde will be affecting him as well. perhaps his closure is to be with you? you should still leave your heart open to possibilities at this stage i feel. 🙂

I have thought of that, I'm staying open at this point but with a few bricks back up on that wall 🙂

Posted by 25thDecan
Children involved...heart strings get tugged into excuses... 😢

yeah, sigh 😢

before my marriage, there were a couple serious ones.

During venus retrograde, one of them, i learned via internet, died. He was still quite young, but the news was shocking to me. I had no words at first, just shock. He had died many years ago and I never knew. Only during this retrograde that I did find out. He was married and left his beautiful children behind.

Posted by lisabethur8
before my marriage, there were a couple serious ones.

During venus retrograde, one of them, i learned via internet, died. He was still quite young, but the news was shocking to me. I had no words at first, just shock. He had died many years ago and I never knew. Only during this retrograde that I did find out. He was married and left his beautiful children behind.

Wow. Wow wow.

That's some heavy stuff, there.

Posted by Huntress

Posted by lisabethur8
before my marriage, there were a couple serious ones.During venus retrograde, one of them, i learned via internet, died. He was still quite young, but the news was shocking to me. I had no words at first, just shock. He had died many years ago and I never knew. Only during this retrograde that I did find out. He was married and left his beautiful children behind.

Wow. Wow wow.

That's some heavy stuff, there.

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yeah i'm still in a bit of shock. Maybe if retrograde venus hadn't come, i wouldnt have known for many more years that he had passed away.

it won't show online what caused his death (he was still young,not yet reached middle age and he was very sportive and fit/healthy) and most people who are very old, usually die from natural causes (usually but not always). We believe that this information is private and in respect to family and I noticed that with my aunts who had passed away (their obituaries were online but not the cause). medical /practicioner privacy as well.
I hope he rests in peace.

Aw lisabethur,

Im sorry for your loss. No matter how long ago, its a loss. My condoldences to you.

Posted by BigGirlPanties
Aw lisabethur,

Im sorry for your loss. No matter how long ago, its a loss. My condoldences to you.

thank you Bgp, youre very kind 🙂

I do want to remember only the good things; he was once a significant figure in my life.

Venus retrograde has been very weird. Loads of dreams as well. (of past ex's - more like a hello/goodbye thing and revisitation from those who were once 'in love' with me at one time; but at least i know they're doing allright)