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MizAqua37
@MizAqua37
12 Years

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Need some adult advise about a Leo Man...
I am an Aqua Woman who met a Leo male 7 months ago. He lives in a different town and has a very interesting career. (he backs $ $ racing teams) He has always been someone who I can see myself with in the future, but a few months into us seeing, dating, talking or what ever you want to call it, he told me he was with a girl which happened to also be staying at his home. I found this out in a text after I asked him when I could see him again? Confusion!? We hadn't seen each other in a while since he is gone at various times of the year with his job. I did not take what he said well and called him a liar and a douche. He told me no one had ever spoken to him like that in his life! Oh well maybe don't do stupid things then! I do want to add that we did not have sex during this time. So I blew it off no big deal. He wasn't talking to me and I was not going to speak to him either.. oh well right? I deleted everything pics, texts, and phone # I moved on. I don't see the logic in wasting my time or anyone else's. I circular date which is, at any given time I have 5/6 guys I date or hang out with. Out of those guys I pick one to actually have sex with, I am human after all. haha.. anyway I have a pretty good non dramatic life. I just want the right guy to spend my time with. I am not going to settle for some douche.
He sent me a text 3 months later wanting to explain what happened. In grand Leo fashion expensive dinner with his closest friends and hang out on a yacht of course! We talked and hung out and then at this point we had sex so that is not what he was looking for from me.. who waits 7 months for sex? We have been talking again and I have asked him what he wants. I am not going down the same road as I did before. I explained what I want from a man laughter, understands me, I feel safe. and he just simply said he digs me. Simple I like it simple. He sends me the most beautiful songs via text which I find very romantic other people in my life do not see it. I also like that I have my time and he has his. Mine is spent bettering myself (volunteering, exercising, time w/ friends & family) His is spent with race car groupies and drivers the party life.
Does he want to settle down maybe?
He told me he likes me and I like him but should I, being exact opposites?
Is he wasting my time? Does anyone think he really like me?
How should I handle this Leo if we do really like each other?
What do you all think?