
LoudLeo
@LoudLeo
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Posted by LoudLeoYep, I remember it. I believe I commented on it.
@Chuckcem, I'm sure you remember the post in question.


Posted by ChuckcemYou did, indeed.Posted by LoudLeoYep, I remember it. I believe I commented on it.
@Chuckcem, I'm sure you remember the post in question.click to expand

Posted by MoonshineLeoIt was LITERALLY night and day between those two. Problem was I should've taken some healing time before I tried to pursue Miss Cancer.
leos and Capricorns nottttttttt a good match at all! i was on and off with one for a few month too and it got no where. Dont know who they end up with?!
as far as cancers, they are sweet and a cancer woman would be very good to a Leo man, total opposite of capricorn literally.

Posted by LoudLeoOh yea they are opposite on the zodiac wheel so yea day and night.Posted by MoonshineLeoIt was LITERALLY night and day between those two. Problem was I should've taken some healing time before I tried to pursue Miss Cancer.
leos and Capricorns nottttttttt a good match at all! i was on and off with one for a few month too and it got no where. Dont know who they end up with?!
as far as cancers, they are sweet and a cancer woman would be very good to a Leo man, total opposite of capricorn literally.click to expand

Posted by MoonshineLeoPosted by LoudLeoOh yea they are opposite on the zodiac wheel so yea day and night.Posted by MoonshineLeoIt was LITERALLY night and day between those two. Problem was I should've taken some healing time before I tried to pursue Miss Cancer.
leos and Capricorns nottttttttt a good match at all! i was on and off with one for a few month too and it got no where. Dont know who they end up with?!
as far as cancers, they are sweet and a cancer woman would be very good to a Leo man, total opposite of capricorn literally.
Be honest with the cancer and tell her how you feel. If she doesn't understand then thats ok lesson learned but maybe she needs to hear what you have to say in order for her to give you another chance.click to expand

Posted by LoudLeoWell reach out againnnnn lolPosted by MoonshineLeoPosted by LoudLeoOh yea they are opposite on the zodiac wheel so yea day and night.Posted by MoonshineLeoIt was LITERALLY night and day between those two. Problem was I should've taken some healing time before I tried to pursue Miss Cancer.
leos and Capricorns nottttttttt a good match at all! i was on and off with one for a few month too and it got no where. Dont know who they end up with?!
as far as cancers, they are sweet and a cancer woman would be very good to a Leo man, total opposite of capricorn literally.
Be honest with the cancer and tell her how you feel. If she doesn't understand then thats ok lesson learned but maybe she needs to hear what you have to say in order for her to give you another chance.
Tried doing that. The ball is in her court, and from the little I know about Cancers, IF they give you a second chance, it won't be right away. It'll be after a long, long while. So, I'm just waiting.
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Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeHold up here. Tricks? I don't go out and haul ass driving Uber for 10 hours after I just got done working an 8 hour shift at the regular job making money for "tricks." And if you have to ask who does that, I'm gonna ask you if you ever loved someone. Because yeah, you do extraordinary ish when you love somebody.
3 years? Why would you waste that kind of time chasing someone?
That's kind of weird
Gifts everyday..lol caps don't fall for those tricks dude
Lol. She didn't reject you. You rejected yourself

Posted by nightowlJust so we're clear, is your question what was I doing in the relationship, or what did I do wrong in the relationship?
I read here somewhere that you chased your cancer woman away by getting mad that she cleaned your place
have you ever thought about what you're doing in the relationship

Posted by nightowlReally? That's about some of the most defeatist ish I've ever heard. If you want something or someone in this life, then you go out and get them, and you don't let anything stand in your way.
The thing with leos too stubborn. Too stubborn to let a relationship go, dont want to admit to failure chump.
If you really loved her, then you would have let her go

Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeManipulation huh? LOL that's literally laughable. I had been on dates with this woman off and on throughout those three years, and the "tricks" as you call them are called being romantic. That's in my nature. That's what I do. I do gestures for you if I care about you. Manipulation..........wow.Posted by LoudLeoLove or manipulation ...trying to buy someone's affection?Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeHold up here. Tricks? I don't go out and haul ass driving Uber for 10 hours after I just got done working an 8 hour shift at the regular job making money for "tricks." And if you have to ask who does that, I'm gonna ask you if you ever loved someone. Because yeah, you do extraordinary ish when you love somebody.
3 years? Why would you waste that kind of time chasing someone?
That's kind of weird
Gifts everyday..lol caps don't fall for those tricks dude
Lol. She didn't reject you. You rejected yourself
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Posted by LadyNeptuneIf it was just one Capricorn, you'd have a great point. I've had experience with four Capricorns. Three ended in similar fashion, and the fourth actually drug out the longest. So this wasn't a "one-and-done" experiment.
Just because one Capricorn rejected you for three years and you were too stubborn to see the writing on the wall doesn't mean that caps and Leo's aren't a good match.
That's like saying chipotle gave me food poisoning, I'm never eating any burrito ever again cause they all make you sick. See??

Posted by LadyNeptuneHave you seen a cap and Leo that was good?
Just because one Capricorn rejected you for three years and you were too stubborn to see the writing on the wall doesn't mean that caps and Leo's aren't a good match.
That's like saying chipotle gave me food poisoning, I'm never eating any burrito ever again cause they all make you sick. See??

Posted by MoonshineLeoI only know of one couple -- the Obamas. When you see those two, you can tell they genuinely love each other.Posted by LadyNeptuneHave you seen a cap and Leo that was good?
Just because one Capricorn rejected you for three years and you were too stubborn to see the writing on the wall doesn't mean that caps and Leo's aren't a good match.
That's like saying chipotle gave me food poisoning, I'm never eating any burrito ever again cause they all make you sick. See??click to expand

Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeEach person knows their limits on whatever causes them stress in life, so each knows how much they're willing to put up with. You put two people in the same stress-causing situation and they'll have different results. One might give up before they really had the chance to see it through, and the other person might persevere and be rewarded for their persistence in the face of BS.Posted by LoudLeoThat's great in theory but time is finitePosted by nightowlReally? That's about some of the most defeatist ish I've ever heard. If you want something or someone in this life, then you go out and get them, and you don't let anything stand in your way.
The thing with leos too stubborn. Too stubborn to let a relationship go, dont want to admit to failure chump.
If you really loved her, then you would have let her go
Ppl don't just wake up and love you back. Sometimes you need the strength to move on
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Posted by MoonshineLeoMy silverlake clients. Two gays that have been together 20 years. Gay years are like dog years so thats actually 140 years.Posted by LadyNeptuneHave you seen a cap and Leo that was good?
Just because one Capricorn rejected you for three years and you were too stubborn to see the writing on the wall doesn't mean that caps and Leo's aren't a good match.
That's like saying chipotle gave me food poisoning, I'm never eating any burrito ever again cause they all make you sick. See??click to expand

Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeYou do whatever it takes, within reason, to keep it. Pointblank. Period. Otherwise, what was the point in putting in all that effort?Posted by LoudLeoWhat happens after you win the prize?Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeEach person knows their limits on whatever causes them stress in life, so each knows how much they're willing to put up with. You put two people in the same stress-causing situation and they'll have different results. One might give up before they really had the chance to see it through, and the other person might persevere and be rewarded for their persistence in the face of BS.Posted by LoudLeoThat's great in theory but time is finitePosted by nightowlReally? That's about some of the most defeatist ish I've ever heard. If you want something or someone in this life, then you go out and get them, and you don't let anything stand in your way.
The thing with leos too stubborn. Too stubborn to let a relationship go, dont want to admit to failure chump.
If you really loved her, then you would have let her go
Ppl don't just wake up and love you back. Sometimes you need the strength to move on
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Posted by nightowlLOL. Why do you go to work? Yeah, you might go to work because you absolutely love your job, but that love for your job ain't gonna pay the mortgage, the rent, or whatever the case may be. At the end of the day, you go to work for your reward in the form of a paycheck. People do what they do in life to see some sort of reward, whatever form that comes in.Posted by LoudLeoYou're looking for a reward, there you go. Its the thrill of chase. Do you really love this girl or do you just want to win? if this is what you decidedPosted by CaramelizedCoffeeEach person knows their limits on whatever causes them stress in life, so each knows how much they're willing to put up with. You put two people in the same stress-causing situation and they'll have different results. One might give up before they really had the chance to see it through, and the other person might persevere and be rewarded for their persistence in the face of BS.Posted by LoudLeoThat's great in theory but time is finitePosted by nightowlReally? That's about some of the most defeatist ish I've ever heard. If you want something or someone in this life, then you go out and get them, and you don't let anything stand in your way.
The thing with leos too stubborn. Too stubborn to let a relationship go, dont want to admit to failure chump.
If you really loved her, then you would have let her go
Ppl don't just wake up and love you back. Sometimes you need the strength to move on
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Posted by nightowlAnd I can dig all of that. I'm just wondering how the Capricorn got to be the focus of this thread when she wasn't even the most recent love situation. Most recent was the Cancer, but at any rate, you put yourself out there and do things you normally wouldn't do for the person you love. If they love you back, that's ideal. If they don't, then that's a lesson learned for you.Posted by LoudLeoJust fyi im also a leo. So i know after being in love. love is not something you can work hard to get..lovePosted by nightowlLOL. Why do you go to work? Yeah, you might go to work because you absolutely love your job, but that love for your job ain't gonna pay the mortgage, the rent, or whatever the case may be. At the end of the day, you go to work for your reward in the form of a paycheck. People do what they do in life to see some sort of reward, whatever form that comes in.Posted by LoudLeoYou're looking for a reward, there you go. Its the thrill of chase. Do you really love this girl or do you just want to win? if this is what you decidedPosted by CaramelizedCoffeeEach person knows their limits on whatever causes them stress in life, so each knows how much they're willing to put up with. You put two people in the same stress-causing situation and they'll have different results. One might give up before they really had the chance to see it through, and the other person might persevere and be rewarded for their persistence in the face of BS.Posted by LoudLeoThat's great in theory but time is finitePosted by nightowlReally? That's about some of the most defeatist ish I've ever heard. If you want something or someone in this life, then you go out and get them, and you don't let anything stand in your way.
The thing with leos too stubborn. Too stubborn to let a relationship go, dont want to admit to failure chump.
If you really loved her, then you would have let her go
Ppl don't just wake up and love you back. Sometimes you need the strength to move on
You can try your hardest and never get it..if your heart is not in the right place
enough with the american dream speech. theres a reason...theres people out there who will suit you much better than someone who doesnt want you. Its being realistic.
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Posted by LadyNeptuneHaha oh okay. Leo's and caps go through a lot together. I wonder what's their secret to forever.Posted by MoonshineLeoMy silverlake clients. Two gays that have been together 20 years. Gay years are like dog years so thats actually 140 years.Posted by LadyNeptuneHave you seen a cap and Leo that was good?
Just because one Capricorn rejected you for three years and you were too stubborn to see the writing on the wall doesn't mean that caps and Leo's aren't a good match.
That's like saying chipotle gave me food poisoning, I'm never eating any burrito ever again cause they all make you sick. See??click to expand

Posted by MoonshineLeoSeconded.
leos and Capricorns nottttttttt a good match at all! i was on and off with one for a few month too and it got no where. Dont know who they end up with?!
as far as cancers, they are sweet and a cancer woman would be very good to a Leo man, total opposite of capricorn literally.

Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeWrong again ma'am. At my core I'm a lazy, LAZY mofo, and if I don't have to work, or chase in this case, then I'd rather not. Again, you go for what and who you want in life.Posted by LoudLeoBexcuse it shows that you love the chase more than anythingPosted by nightowlAnd I can dig all of that. I'm just wondering how the Capricorn got to be the focus of this thread when she wasn't even the most recent love situation. Most recent was the Cancer, but at any rate, you put yourself out there and do things you normally wouldn't do for the person you love. If they love you back, that's ideal. If they don't, then that's a lesson learned for you.Posted by LoudLeoJust fyi im also a leo. So i know after being in love. love is not something you can work hard to get..lovePosted by nightowlLOL. Why do you go to work? Yeah, you might go to work because you absolutely love your job, but that love for your job ain't gonna pay the mortgage, the rent, or whatever the case may be. At the end of the day, you go to work for your reward in the form of a paycheck. People do what they do in life to see some sort of reward, whatever form that comes in.Posted by LoudLeoYou're looking for a reward, there you go. Its the thrill of chase. Do you really love this girl or do you just want to win? if this is what you decidedPosted by CaramelizedCoffeeEach person knows their limits on whatever causes them stress in life, so each knows how much they're willing to put up with. You put two people in the same stress-causing situation and they'll have different results. One might give up before they really had the chance to see it through, and the other person might persevere and be rewarded for their persistence in the face of BS.Posted by LoudLeoThat's great in theory but time is finitePosted by nightowlReally? That's about some of the most defeatist ish I've ever heard. If you want something or someone in this life, then you go out and get them, and you don't let anything stand in your way.
The thing with leos too stubborn. Too stubborn to let a relationship go, dont want to admit to failure chump.
If you really loved her, then you would have let her go
Ppl don't just wake up and love you back. Sometimes you need the strength to move on
You can try your hardest and never get it..if your heart is not in the right place
enough with the american dream speech. theres a reason...theres people out there who will suit you much better than someone who doesnt want you. Its being realistic.
A person gave you their time and affection yet you threw it away Bexcuse it wasn't hard enough
I guess you need the challenge and the only reason you want the crab now is Bexcuse she curbed you. Not cause you actually liked her
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Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeI actually don't have any issues with Cap placements. I myself have a Cap Mars.Posted by ChuckcemI'm sure Taurus moons love cap placementsPosted by MoonshineLeoSeconded.
leos and Capricorns nottttttttt a good match at all! i was on and off with one for a few month too and it got no where. Dont know who they end up with?!
as far as cancers, they are sweet and a cancer woman would be very good to a Leo man, total opposite of capricorn literally.click to expand

Posted by bittercupcakeHow so? Aside from the logistics of sex obviously.Posted by LadyNeptuneGay couples aren’t the same as heterosexual couples.Posted by MoonshineLeoMy silverlake clients. Two gays that have been together 20 years. Gay years are like dog years so thats actually 140 years.Posted by LadyNeptuneHave you seen a cap and Leo that was good?
Just because one Capricorn rejected you for three years and you were too stubborn to see the writing on the wall doesn't mean that caps and Leo's aren't a good match.
That's like saying chipotle gave me food poisoning, I'm never eating any burrito ever again cause they all make you sick. See??click to expand

Posted by RindarooYEs i know our stories have so many similarities because you're a fire sign too and im SO happy for you and im glad things are working out with you two 😄Posted by MoonshineLeoLol. Sag? Idk I dated a Leo and am Cap dominant. Of course, we clicked on my Sag & hesitation of my Cap bits were tough for him. But the Leo just keeps chasing anyway lol.
leos and Capricorns nottttttttt a good match at all! i was on and off with one for a few month too and it got no where. Dont know who they end up with?!
as far as cancers, they are sweet and a cancer woman would be very good to a Leo man, total opposite of capricorn literally.
Anyway - my Cap & I seem to complement each other - optimism vs pessimism but he's my rock & balances me out - now that he's not being hesitant!!!! Lol.click to expand

Posted by bittercupcakeThat's funny, because a I tried dating someone years and years ago. She and I mutually decided we'd be better off as friends. She's another Leo, and the things that irk people about me irked me about her. Funny how that works out..........Posted by LadyNeptuneI read in an astrology book that it differs from heterosexual and homosexual couples. Like for example Leo and Aqua... it says it can work once you push through the hurdles but with F Leo and F Aqua it says it’s not a good match at all. I agree. I love Leo women but if I was gay i wouldn’t date one...we’d probably end up killing each other.Posted by bittercupcakeHow so? Aside from the logistics of sex obviously.Posted by LadyNeptuneGay couples aren’t the same as heterosexual couples.Posted by MoonshineLeoMy silverlake clients. Two gays that have been together 20 years. Gay years are like dog years so thats actually 140 years.Posted by LadyNeptuneHave you seen a cap and Leo that was good?
Just because one Capricorn rejected you for three years and you were too stubborn to see the writing on the wall doesn't mean that caps and Leo's aren't a good match.
That's like saying chipotle gave me food poisoning, I'm never eating any burrito ever again cause they all make you sick. See??click to expand

Posted by LoudLeoPosted by nightowlReally? That's about some of the most defeatist ish I've ever heard. If you want something or someone in this life, then you go out and get them, and you don't let anything stand in your way.
The thing with leos too stubborn. Too stubborn to let a relationship go, dont want to admit to failure chump.
If you really loved her, then you would have let her goclick to expand
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Well, what was missing from that story is that prior to her coming into my life, I had spent the last three years trying to win over a Capricorn woman who I swore up and down that I was going to marry. Most Leos know we don't give up on anything we truly want without a fight, so yeah, almost three years of getting rejected by this Cap, but I was determined to win her over. Fast forward to the week before Valentine's Day 2017. I had this Cap sent five gifts over five days -- one per day. This was my last ditch effort to get her. For the final time, she rejected me, and solidified for me that Capricorns and Leos generally speaking ARE NOT a good match.
So literally a few weeks later, sweet little Miss Cancer comes into my life, while I'm still reeling from that Capricorn heartbreak. I'm not going to dig up the entire post for those that didn't get a chance to check it out, but the Reader's Digest version is Miss Cancer spent a weekend at my place some months back, and while I was at work, she cleaned my house. A few days after that, I checked out on her. No phone calls, no texts, nothing. All while I was trying to figure out how I was going to respond to her cleaning my house. But another reason for this was I could really feel myself getting comfortable with her, and it wasn't all that long ago that I felt that same level of comfort with the Cap, and was made to feel and look like a fool. Tried to get the Cancer back, and she basically wasn't having it. Cancers HATE abandonment, and that was proven.
Moral of all this? Regardless of sign compatibility, always take time for yourself to mend before you try love again with someone else. You're still hurting, and when someone who just might be the right one for you comes along a little too soon, you'll end up hurting them too.