prank on leo s b day yay or nay

he is my ex .. so i was thinking since he loves his car i was going to put his car add on craigs list and have bunch of ppl call him for it ..

yeah it could well my actual prank was to stay the night friday and take the car keys move the car to a diff parkign lot and tell him it was stolen or i was going to buy a bunch of sticky notes .. or toilet paper also if i dont go see him which i am trying to avoid him now.. since our issue was him giving alot of girls his number i was going to post an add on craigs list saying hey its my ex boyfriends 30 bday its a prank can yall just call him and wish him a happy bday

it wouldnt be no one that knows me .. so i guess best prank would be sticky notes or the toilet paper or moving the car

i dont know ....like i have been writing on here .. i have giving him space like yall told me .. he wants to be friends but them he treats me like we are together but tells me go out have funn .. so when i do he act immature and i know he is mad .. so then i call him after i come home and he is being ashole idont know what to do dont talk to him ..or do talk to him i am a confused soul

so you think its more both of us confused .. i was thinking bout if he invites me to come over ... i wanted to talk to him face to face and honestly tell him if we cant work on us .. i cant see my self being friends with him because it hurts to much and being friends is not helping to move on

its just annoying wanting him and seem like he wants me to but hates what we went thru when we was together ..idk what to do .. i dont want to hurt him but him being a leo today when we was on fb he dont post much so tonight every few minutes he will post .. hello someone talk to me .. or im so drunk right now and thats not like him .. idk if he was tryign to get my attention since i always text him and didnt do it alllllll day today and neither has he idk if he is being hard headed

im not drunk

i guess your right ...

guess wait till he is sober

Posted by GAGA
yeah it could well my actual prank was to stay the night friday and take the car keys move the car to a diff parkign lot and tell him it was stolen or i was going to buy a bunch of sticky notes .. or toilet paper also if i dont go see him which i am trying to avoid him now.. since our issue was him giving alot of girls his number i was going to post an add on craigs list saying hey its my ex boyfriends 30 bday its a prank can yall just call him and wish him a happy bday

GAGA, you must STOP this SELF-DESTRUCTIVE behaviour NOW!!!!! You are beginning to look like an obsessed stalker.

If someone played a prank on me with something that was important to me, I would be PISSED! If you must do something, get him a card. THAT'S ALL!

He is your ex, but you are still having sex with him. This puts your association in the FWB category. It sounds to me like you gave this guy a chance to prove himself to you. He has told you he does not want a relationship with you. He is giving his number out to other girls. You are watching his every move on facebook. You are doing everything in your power to gain his attention and win his approval. You don't need his approval!

You do not trust him or believe in yourself and are not willing to accept that your expectations are different. I think a huge component of trust is having enough confidence in yourself to BELIEVE that you deserve to be treated well and to be loved. This confidence can only come from within you, and it's not something that necessarily comes easily. It takes work. Go out and do something just for you. Stay busy -work on your inner self. Find your inner joy. He cannot give you this.

All you can do is work at repairing your own mind and heart and those steps don't always come easily when you're feeling hurt and disappointed. While it's tempting to think that if you just try a little harder you will wear him down and he will come to you, the truth is that you can only control your own actions and emotions. In fact, the more you hound him, the more likely he is to push you away.

Once you truly embrace the fact that you are a beautiful person who deserves a man in her life who will recognize all your amazing qualities and will do everything in his power to keep you in his life, you will be ready for the loving and committed relationship you want.

Best of luck to you.

Thank you very much for telling me this .. i went to his house and stayed on night we talked for whole night he told me .. that he cares about me all the good stuff .. then when i walked in the house. his roomate gf was like wow you are here and i didnt understand what she meant... then shes like he just calls you when he is bored or wants some sex... then the next day which is today i told him to take me home .. he said ok .. then i noticed he had this girl number that he deleted and i said why i thought you deleted it he said she texted me back .. so i saved it .. right there i told him i cant fight this battle anymore he needs to make a decision to be with me .or be with all these woman... but i cant do it anymore.. till then he dont need to contact me at all.. i told him dont call me text me nothing till you figure out what you want... and i walked out idk if i should go delete him of fb idk anything

yes... i have realized that his personality and how sweet he was how nice he was to me ... yes we didnt have sex this time but that's because i was on my period .and im sure ... that because he was being nice thats why he said no .. i have grab respect my self... and i told him do not contact me at all... any more.. ..its just hard i am thinking bOUT HIM ALOT.. and when i try to go ou tand have fun i think of him.. what is wrong with me.. i dont understand .

yeah i know its just .. idont know what to do no .. since i told him not to contact me at all till he knows what he wants .. his b day is comming up should i text him saying that or no

sorry bout posting samething .. but yeah i figured what i said the fact that i did not contact him in 2 day... he will wonder... but he once told me that would be wrong if i didnt wish him a happy bday ..he would wish me .. but at the same time if i dont he will know that i dont want to have anything to do with him because he can NOT have me and flirt with these woman .. since my phone is off he has nothingto worry about but if my phone was on and it went off like that at 3 am he would wonder 2 so i guess dont say nothing ...

Just leave the guy alone because it already seems like ur puddy in his hands.

I think as long as u keep the no contact thing going you'll be fine. I'd like to tell you to move on, that I've done the same and you can too. Takes times...took me over three years. But even after you've moved on you still could find that if he were to ever come back into your life you may even take him back.

After I moved on from my leo ex, we keep in contact every so often, but he suddenly comes back into my life needing me as a friend. And in the process he realizes he's made a mistake. Now this is tough. Do I let emotions get in the way or let logic settle this.

Hmm... It's not logical to move backward, but curiosity out rules all so I stick around, remaining the friend I've always been with the added bonus of free drinks, dates and sex. Seems nice huh...no drama of a relationship and both people get the benefits.

So maybe you should let him go...but perhaps once you do he will come back to you. Leos love attention, but they really favor loyalty. I was with my leo for all those years and he's recognized this and slowly I have become his single greatest friend and major confidant.

Your decision. I say keep doing what you're doing tho and don't talk to him or he wont respect you.

HAVING no contact has helped some what .. but its hard we are to good of friends to stop so.. he told me that he has more fun and done more things with me in 6 months than he has with anyone ever..he told me he loves me more then life its self..

now that i have or am trying to move on his bday came and since i told him not to reach me at all till he knows what he wants .. but i didnt want to be rude so i said happy bday and thats all no reply from him....so i just told my self well i did my part and starting from today i will not contact him at all..

he always gave me anything i needed ... yes drinks dates sex.. but our sex was so great that its hard not to have it whne around eachother...

but idk if i do let him go will he come back but i do know every move i do make that has nothing to do with him he throws it in my face ... yes as far as them liking attention i feel like if i dont give it to him since we are not together how will that make him realize what he has lost


but i want to know me not talking to him how iwll he start having respect...

also just now to long ago .. he calls so i said what he said are you home i said why he said was going to stop by so i said if you gotta talk .. talk now .. so he said no imma come by so .. whne he did he brought my 2 shirts and my glasses so i said why did you come he said to just bring that but then he stays and talks for 3 hours... now i dont know if that was his excuse just to talk to me .. or what .. but i don't know wha tmy next more should be

this happend hr ago yes he did but to me its like if he gave me my stuff back why did he stay to talk about us for 3 hours i think his ego wont let him come and ask to talk so he needed an excuse

hehe no .. we talked about us.. he told me he loves me so much but he needs time to think about weather he wants to get back together and we end up breaking up after few months or leave it alone... he said he was so wrong for all that he did .. i m right and he was wrong

yeah i figure that ..he is spending his bday and i thought he would at least say hey would you like to come but then again i wasnt going to throw my self at him ... yeah i think i wont talk to him i will let him do all the texting and calling