LEO WONT TAKE ME BACK

I HAVE ASKED MY LEO DOES HE SEE HIM SELF GETTING BACK WITH ME HE SAYS I DONT KNOW WHAT THE FUTURE HOLDS IS YOU LIKE SOMEONE OR IF SOMEOEN LIKES YOU DONT WAIT ON ME SO I SAID THAT DIDINT ANSWER MY QUESTION ... SO I ASKED AGAIN HE SAID NO NOT RIGHT NOW.... I DONT LOST HIM .. SHOULD I JUST REALLY GET OUT HIS LIFE OR WHAT TO DO NEXT

I WENT OUT GOT WASTED CALLED HIM .. HE TOLD ME HE THINKS ABOUTME WHOLE LOT

Posted by wineaux
NOT smart cookie. he already told you he misses you and thinks about you, this isn't a news flash. that doesn't mean he wants to get back together, at least not right now which he has stated blatantly. you're letting your insecurity run rampant and it seems as if your letting him determine your self-worth.

yeah i know... but its so hard when he is on my facebook .. i did go out last night with a guy ... ended up geting so drunk and called my ex..WRONG idea ... so i guess not talking to him for a while then he might miss me ...

We love hard and we take a lot from the person we love. However, once you've pushed us to the point where the love we had for you is hanging on my a thread, there's really no chance to make us have those feelings again. We'll be your friend and be cordial to you, but that's it. We've already moved on in our heart and if we tell you to find someone else, it's because we probably have a better candidate in mind and want to give them a try.

I meant "by a thread."

I dont mean to take over this thread so please excuse me but i have a burning question, if you say goodbye to a leo via text , will they then move on and accept that as gospel?

Ah thats where you are wrong I do, but he has forced my hand by not allowing me in. Trouble with two fixed signs stubborn till the bitter end ugh....

Essentially,he has cut me off, dismissing me and not including me, he is going through a rough time and I am always willing to support and listen to him. So I said, in order for me to help him he needs to communicate with me, but I feel his pride wont allow him to for some reason this time, hence me saying good bye to him. We are now in a stalemate, five days and neither of us is budging, my will an stubourness is just as strong as his if not stronger. Stupid yes?

Posted by wineaux
@gaga - if you keep pushing this lion he's going to ROAR and it's not going to be pretty. he's telling you to go out there and live your life...and if you meet someone, great...but DON'T wait around for him. he's been quite direct with you and you keep pushing him. eventually he's going to break and i don't think you're going to want to hear that ROAR. i hate this cliche but it's true: if it's meant to be, it will be.

lol?

metaphoric i think... i hope.

Posted by kitty69
I dont mean to take over this thread so please excuse me but i have a burning question, if you say goodbye to a leo via text , will they then move on and accept that as gospel?

Yes

Posted by kitty69
Essentially,he has cut me off, dismissing me and not including me, he is going through a rough time and I am always willing to support and listen to him. So I said, in order for me to help him he needs to communicate with me, but I feel his pride wont allow him to for some reason this time, hence me saying good bye to him. We are now in a stalemate, five days and neither of us is budging, my will an stubourness is just as strong as his if not stronger. Stupid yes?

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Yes

Have you talked about the issues? What was his reply to your concern about communication?
Maybe he needs some space to figure things out on his own without power struggle games. Don't try and fix his problems unless he asks you to, otherwise you forcing an issue and dumping him to get the result you want, will only serve to solidify the idea that you're manipulating to gain control in your relationship. I'm not saying this is your situation, just a possibility your leo is interpreting it this way.

Yes we did touch on his problems but didnt want to talk about it, I did indeed say that we needed to communicate better which made him re act and become quite angry, We have never had a bad word between us but yes he was upset. He didnt want to continue speaking and said he was going to bed , thats when I said good bye. This has really upset me but my pride wont let me contact him, prob for the best. I appreciate what your saying that my actions could be miscontrued as a power play, I really dont believe this was my intent. I was just really upset that he has chosen to not talk about his issues with me which seems unusual.for him, any hoo Thanx...

Posted by kitty69
Yes we did touch on his problems but didnt want to talk about it, I did indeed say that we needed to communicate better which made him re act and become quite angry, We have never had a bad word between us but yes he was upset. He didnt want to continue speaking and said he was going to bed , thats when I said good bye. This has really upset me but my pride wont let me contact him, prob for the best. I appreciate what your saying that my actions could be miscontrued as a power play, I really dont believe this was my intent. I was just really upset that he has chosen to not talk about his issues with me which seems unusual.for him, any hoo Thanx...

I don't believe a power play was your intent either. You let him know you are available for him and he didn't act on it. His angry reaction seems over-the-top as well. Let it go for now and do stuff you enjoy doing. Focus on you. It'll give him a chance to miss you and to figure out his shit on his own terms.

How long have you been together?

well first of.. this friday he invited me to come to the beach we walked for 3 hour talked about everything .... then i stayed the night .. sat he was invited to his friends house party i wasnt going to invite my self so i said will you take me home he said wait you dont want to coem with me/?? so i said i dont got clean clothes he said i washed the one you left here .. long story short he told me he is having mixed emotions .. he was fine when we was apart for a week but now that i have been with him for 2 days he sees how happy he is ...

Hiya Tamara, good friends for year and a half, girlfriend two months,

Posted by kitty69
Hiya Tamara, good friends for year and a half, girlfriend two months,

kitty, I hope it works out for you. Do you think there is more to it than what he's saying?