Scorpio woman Leo guy

Scorpio woman Leo guy really hard to figure out
So he is extremely jealous and possessive from what I can tell. I'm really big on communication so when he gets this way I try to ask him what makes him feel this way. Is say thing like are you concerned about me seeing other people ? are you concerned about me talking to other people? are you concerned about me having sexy with other people? but he usually blows up and say he doesnt care so I never seem to get to the root of the problem. Obviously he does care because if he didn’t he wouldn’t blow up like he does; but because he blows up. I noticed that if I don’t react much he will calm down and reach out to me within 15 mins. the more I react and try to figure out what's wrong the longer he stays mad. The last fight we had was about me being on my phone. the fight before that was because we had a date he said he had to cancel because something came up. I was very understanding I told him it was fine and we would see each other another time. he said that he just wanted to see how bad I wanted to see him and I guess because I wasn’t upset means that I didn’t want to see him bad enough. the date ended up being a disaster because I shut down emotionally. He took me from complete bliss to sadness to disappointment and then to confusion in just 10 hours. I also noticed that the more attention I give him the more he picks fights. Don’t get me wrong he is a pleasure to be around when we are together and I really like him and we have potential if I can only get to the root of what makes him this way . If I don't take his calls or respond to messages he gets really upset with me. The things that he get mad about are out of my control. I also notice that he says things like I'm "HIS" He says thing like "MY BABY" he has a nick name and in front of it he put a "MY". So I was thinking he acts this way because he really likes me but then at times he is really short with me so I'm not sure. He never ignores me but it's been times

He never ignores me but its been times that we haven't been in contact because he put me in a bad head space