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My Bestfriend of 10 years is a Sag. Her love is unconditional for her Leo best friend of six years. He claims to always have loved her for a long time being even when they were highschool sweethearts.

He is recently divorced as of a year now, his marriage just was terrible, my sag friend has just been a friend to him through the ordeal.

He claims to have gotten passed his ex wife, but is is still dealing with the emotional turmoil somewhat

She's a good hearted person, and she sees purpose in him, and is willing to wait for him, and he's also willing to begin something new with her. BUT im starting to wonder if he's playing games??

He will not talk to her for days, even a week or so, but will flirt with other women during the time away. If he's serious about her be serious, if not then don't string her along.

Im not sure.. Its not my situation, Im typing what I can see from the source and what I've been told from both sources

If this Leo guy and your friend have been that close for all these years, then it is VERY unlikely that he's playing games with her.

If he's flirting with others but not with her, it's likely that he's "just having fun" with the other girls and waiting to feel more emotionally ready to move on to something more serious.

However, I think 2 really important questions are:

Has he actually shown "relationship" interest in your friend in the past?

Or is she just waiting and hoping that he'll automatically take her out of the friend zone and place her on the "potential" list?

Thanks guys, I was just worried

And yes he has back in highschool, sometimes he does now as well.

She's just worried he will continue shutting her out

Posted by BeaCancer91
Thanks guys, I was just worried

And yes he has back in highschool, sometimes he does now as well.

She's just worried he will continue shutting her out

If he's expressed interest in her yet is currently shutting her out, I think he's trying to protect her from hurt.

Even though he claims to be over his ex, he's still "on the rebound" if you see what I mean.

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Posted by BeaCancer91
Thanks guys, I was just worried

And yes he has back in highschool, sometimes he does now as well.

She's just worried he will continue shutting her out

Truth be told.


It is probably HER that is commitment scared and acts aloof which throws his pride out the window. Sags are lika flakey, and leos need security. Plus, with his situation being as it is, I can only imagine he needs time to rearrange his life.

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Some pretty good points being made here.

Not sure. Yesterday she sent me screenshots of their conversation, and he said he wouldn't care if she left, he'd get over it, but he wanted to try to fix their whatever it is

Lot of confusion.