Social Calendars

I realize we are supposed to be the life of the party and have very full schedules but do you ever just want to get univited or just chill.

I feel obligated to attend evey function I am invited to. I think people will be angry or upset if I don't go and as a Leo I really can't stand for anyone to be mad at me.

But boy am I exhausted.

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Posted by pssymonstaa
Your 37 and feel obliged to attend every single thing your invited too?
Did you come to his planet to live your life or to have other idiots dictate it for you?

Your point is made, but realize that its a Leo trait to feel obligated to do everything in order to maintain friendships and relationships. Even one or two infrequent cancellations are enough for us to feel like we're not being a good friend or loved one, which can also sometimes cause a slightly deflated ego.

Once we make plans or promises, we'll exhaust our resources (and often, ourselves) to fulfill them.

Posted by pssymonstaa
Your 37 and feel obliged to attend every single thing your invited too?
Did you come to his planet to live your life or to have other idiots dictate it for you?
Trust me I tear the roof off any social gathering but if im not feeling it, you can suck it sideways, im staying home!

You are a human being and should do whatever the hell you want to without getting flak from the people around you.

It's a Leo thing. You wouldn't understand.

Posted by Huntress

Posted by pssymonstaa
Your 37 and feel obliged to attend every single thing your invited too?
Did you come to his planet to live your life or to have other idiots dictate it for you?

Your point is made, but realize that its a Leo trait to feel obligated to do everything in order to maintain friendships and relationships. Even one or two infrequent cancellations are enough for us to feel like we're not being a good friend or loved one, which can also sometimes cause a slightly deflated ego.

Once we make plans or promises, we'll exhaust our resources (and often, ourselves) to fulfill them.

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Thanks Astrotwin..I'm maxed out on defending/explaining/justifying myself today.

Posted by Nala13

Posted by Huntress

Posted by pssymonstaa
Your 37 and feel obliged to attend every single thing your invited too?
Did you come to his planet to live your life or to have other idiots dictate it for you?

Your point is made, but realize that its a Leo trait to feel obligated to do everything in order to maintain friendships and relationships. Even one or two infrequent cancellations are enough for us to feel like we're not being a good friend or loved one, which can also sometimes cause a slightly deflated ego.

Once we make plans or promises, we'll exhaust our resources (and often, ourselves) to fulfill them.

Thanks Astrotwin..I'm maxed out on defending/explaining/justifying myself today.

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Sit back and relax, Ms. Astro-hot. 😉

Posted by pssymonstaa
Hey there lions im just adding my 2 cents dont hate.
Didnt mean to soind hostile.

You didn't! I was being lighthearted yet explaining.

And Nala is already stretched thin and plainly stated such.. so you should have expected that 😛