Sometimes I hate being a Leo

Any of you others feel like this? Lol. I am a Leo/leo and I can't handle rejection or heart break like a 'normal' person. It takes all I have in me to not snap on the person and retaliate in the most vindictive ways possible. This for me is a huge problem :/

The only thing I hate about being a leo is that sometimes I act waay too emotional and theatrical for my own good, mostly in relationships. I tend to see mostly the best in people.
Other than that, I'm pretty good with myself 😄

Posted by bloobaz
The only thing I hate about being a leo is that sometimes I act waay too emotional and theatrical for my own good, mostly in relationships. I tend to see mostly the best in people.
Other than that, I'm pretty good with myself 😄

Ahh that too. "Seeing the best in people". That's my biggest weakness. I think that's why I feel so jaded when someone betrays me. Especially when everyone warns you about someone and stupid me sees all holy in the person...then they turn out to be exactly like everyone said.

I agree, kitty. I Feel like that all the time with people. I have been told that as well-that I am gullible. I take my time with new people, so when I finally feel like I can truly trust them fully, it is devistating to be let down. I just retaliate in ways that sometimes aren't human and this bothers me. I try so hard to take the high road but i eventually blow up. So many people have said about me, that I am such a fun and caring person but DONT make Her mad. I have been called bipolar at times too. I was Jw if you other Leo's have this vindictive behavioral issues too, or if I really am I just crazy lol.

Wtf whyy—?? Omg

What's the rest of your chart look like?

Bitch you is normal, it's normal to have insecurities, it's humility and at its core pure and innocent.....you can't ever stop being insecure, pretending it don't exist makes it worse but you can learn to tolerate your insecurities.


you need to learn how to cry when a situation upsets you cry don't snap and retaliate.

He's Aquarian.

Cancer is my rising...yes I am feeling emo today. Just venting. No need for the rude comments.

I feel those as well...but I remind myself that I believe in karma. I being good, trusting, generous to people but not that intense (to avoid any heartbreaks)...unless toward my family and my partner. Even my partner have shown that she hate some of my leo traits eg: trying to win in an argument (not trying to compete with each other but I just roar out what I do is right), brought back the past (good & bad), too honest that according to her, I cant keep secret like she does. Of course I feel useless...but then I cant change my nature drastically, so I slowly trying to control my sensitivity; my 'too intense' accepting my partner too seriously that would die for her, and sulk easily by my family offence. Just believe karma‰

Posted by zoe gonzales
I feel those as well...but I remind myself that I believe in karma. I being good, trusting, generous to people but not that intense (to avoid any heartbreaks)...unless toward my family and my partner. Even my partner have shown that she hate some of my leo traits eg: trying to win in an argument (not trying to compete with each other but I just roar out what I do is right), brought back the past (good & bad), too honest that according to her, I cant keep secret like she does. Of course I feel useless...but then I cant change my nature drastically, so I slowly trying to control my sensitivity; my 'too intense' accepting my partner too seriously that would die for her, and sulk easily by my family offence. Just believe karma‰

Ha Ya I know everything you are saying. Lately I have been real good with allowing karma...but then I just impatient at times. I guess my problem today is just pure anger from a current love situation.

6 mos...said he loved me first (of coarse I was skeptical)...ignored it...and when I FINALLY start to believe him...he busts through the door of the club we hang out at with the "ex" and is sitting across from me laughing. I was crushed. Rather than cry-I instantly begin to almost plot this mans death (ok totally kidding lol) but yeah....

Sooo. Today I am torn between wanting to lay in bed and sulk with sad songs or plotting some serious revenge. BUT I do keep it in the back of my mind that karma can be fun too-if you have patience-which I DONT lol.

Someone said earlier that I need to just cry. That's kinda what I meant with my OP. I feel like I'm not normal I can not cry like that. I always sulk with anger. I wish I could just lay down, cry it out, and quietly heal and move on.

Posted by lioness1288
6 mos...said he loved me first (of coarse I was skeptical)...ignored it...and when I FINALLY start to believe him...he busts through the door of the club we hang out at with the "ex" and is sitting across from me laughing. I was crushed. Rather than cry-I instantly begin to almost plot this mans death (ok totally kidding lol) but yeah..

I think you're way better than doing that 🙂

Posted by bloobaz

Posted by lioness1288
6 mos...said he loved me first (of coarse I was skeptical)...ignored it...and when I FINALLY start to believe him...he busts through the door of the club we hang out at with the "ex" and is sitting across from me laughing. I was crushed. Rather than cry-I instantly begin to almost plot this mans death (ok totally kidding lol) but yeah..

I think you're way better than doing that 🙂

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I am. I will get over it eventually like it never happened. It's just so fresh right now. I'll never forget that though. How people can treat another person that way is beyond me.

Posted by silverparakeet
Well I don't hate being a leo ever... but that ego of mine takes a heck of a lot of effort to control. I can feel it bloat up and me starting to think I am all superior. Then there is the fact that I trust! The number of times I've fallen flat on my face by trusting the that one person I shouldn't. The the excessive jealously! All these emotions come with great force within me and it takes time, effort and lots of mental energy to consciously pull myself back. I spend a lot of time working on just calming down haha.. Really nice funny topic 😄

+1000 I feel ya. I feel like I have grown alot and have become more self aware, but that I have a long way to go still.

I have been told I am intense and try not to be.

Posted by christinelovessnickers

+1000 I feel ya. I feel like I have grown alot and have become more self aware, but that I have a long way to go still.

I have been told I am intense and try not to be.

What's wrong with being intense? 😄 You leave a print into someone's life (this is such a leo thing to say)

Posted by bloobaz

Posted by christinelovessnickers

+1000 I feel ya. I feel like I have grown alot and have become more self aware, but that I have a long way to go still.

I have been told I am intense and try not to be.

What's wrong with being intense? 😄 You leave a print into someone's life (this is such a leo thing to say)

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I feel like maybe it's too much for people. People keep telling me it like it is a bad thing. I like intensity as long as it isn't draining.

those who matter don't mind and those who mind don't matter

Posted by bloobaz
those who matter don't mind and those who mind don't matter

Sucks when you know they mind but it still doesn't matter to you. I hate chasing this grand dream and then it falls short. Very soul crushing.

Ole Casanova saw me at the club tonight and sends me a beer chip from across the room-as his aplogy. How classy. Ummm no. I can sit all night and get
Those for free (no feelings hurting). Douche. This guy is cancer btw. You would think I would have Atleast gotten flowers or a home cooked meal-but that's how you know this bitch is just playing. How insanely disgusting that this peasant thinks a 2 $ drink is his ticket back to paradise. im so offended that this dude things I'm this naive. Sigh. Let
The plotting begin lol

Posted by munchykin
I think Leos (and Libras) are anomalies of the other Fire and Air signs. Both are much more cuddly and sensitive, which is awesome. Makes them both well-rounded.

Libras hug, spontaneously, too.

This is good.


:-)

Both of my Leo sons snap on me when they feel like I'm not pleased with them or they feel like I have a negative opinion about them. They take things sooooo personal and I don't think it helped that I wasn't very verbally aggro with them growing up...but they were such GOOD kids. So, I'm torn about that. Basically I don't think I properly prepared them for life's harsh realities. One is a Cancer/Leo cusp with a Pi moon and the other is a Leo/Virgo cusp with Leo Moon, Merc, Venus, and Mars. He's so daggone emotionally fragile that it's scary. He screams instead of complaining though. Weirdo.

Posted by bloobaz
those who matter don't mind and those who mind don't matter

I like that

Posted by munchykin
I think Leos (and Libras) are anomalies of the other Fire and Air signs. Both are much more cuddly and sensitive, which is awesome. Makes them both well-rounded.

I think I am more cuddly for my child. I love cuddling someone I am with too, but not a fan of pda.