@topgunphantom
13 Years
Many people notice Leos can go quiet or act done after a breakup, especially if pride is involved. Some come back later when emotions settle, while others move on quickly and don’t look back. It often depends on how the breakup happened and whether their ego was hurt. The pattern isn’t consistent, which is why it feels confusing.
It depends on how was the relationship, the reason you broke up, if there were serious feelings in the middle, etc.
For me personally, if it was something casual, i wouldn't go back because I probably moved waay on since then. But if it was someone I trly cared about, the chances are quite high.
I honestly do think this is a leo trend
Usually know. But if he wants to reconnect then I guess he wants to reconnect!
Posted by bloobaz
It depends on how was the relationship, the reason you broke up, if there were serious feelings in the middle, etc.For me personally, if it was something casual, i wouldn't go back because I probably moved waay on since then. But if it was someone I trly cared about, the chances are quite high.
Agree.
It's just leos tend to always remain close to people they love. If you were by best friend and moved away and j seen you 10 years later, id still feel and treat you the same I did back in the day. Our hearts don't change.
Same goes for lovers. I can't be in the same room with an ex longer then 10 minutes or I'm making stupid choices I already figured out were bad long ago. I'll go back on every reason we split in the first place, and regretting my decision later when reality comes back.
Totally.. actually it's funny you mention it because I was best friend with a libra for four years and we dated twice over the course of that time and now we're back together. I have never been opposed to dating my exes as a leo, but I firmly believe that leo and libra is a seriously intensely connected combination. The biggest problem in that space was an inability for my libra to have any comfort in conflict - that when we are in conflict I still love him and am not suddenly a threat to expel. I would say go for it if you're willing to stay in the ring when there's a problem - that way you guys should be able to work it out. : )
I would say Yes. Me and my Leo boyfriend have been back and forth for 2 years. He always keep a line of communication open. My cousin is a female Leo and she goes back and forth with guys. She said she second guesses her decsions.
It you left on good terms. I can't see why they wouldn't have fond memories and want to come back.
I hope my Leo is back for good. The back and forth really wore me out.
Leos and libras. My longest ex was 6 years. She was a Libra. I guess there's something about libras that drives us crazy. Something about their personality that we can't read.
Posted by KittyKnitter
depends on why we broke up. disrespect means no reconnect and generally with breakups there is a fair bit of disrespect so not as a rule. when i was younger, i went back with an ex and it didn't work, a lot of disrespect.there, i really could not see ever taking an ex back.but when my taurus and i split we kept in touch and wanted to stay friends. we loved each other. just couldn't seem to get it right.some time apart and we shifted our perspectives and our priorities that made meeting our personal goals apart and sharing some common goals possible.we reunited much wiser and more focussed. so in this case, yes this leo took her ex back and proud of it.
Hi KittyKnitter, I would like to know what happened with you and your Taurus? Are you tow still together after getting back together? Also what are the birthdays for you two? I am a Taurus and was engaged to a Leo. We separated over something that could have been corrected, but it's been a 1year and some change and we still text like we are dating but only have seen each other like 3 times. I know leos are prideful and Taurus are stubborn, so I know that may be what's taking us so long to repair this. I notice on his Facebook that he still wears his wedding ring I bought him. I love this man to death and would take a bullet for him. Any advice?
between a leo and libra, yes they always go back to eachother
As everyone has already said, it depends on how the breakup happened. Who initiated it and why? If the breakup was bad and the Leo burned the bridge, then no. Even if you reconnect, he may not trust you romantically again.
If the breakup was pleasant, neutral, or unclear, then there is a chance the Leo still soft spot for you. You'll know this if the Leo has made it easy to access him. If a Leo doesn't want to communicate with you, we'll make it impossible for you to reach us. We don't play nice when we go cold. So there's a chance he harbors some affection for you still.
The best indication is that he reached out to you. Leos are proud, so this can be difficult for us to do after a breakup. If he's looking to reconnect, it could be a good thing. Only you can tell us how your relationship was though.
It does depend on how they broke up but from past experiences I never had an ugly break up with a libra. They never cheated it just didn't work out which is why they have no problem going back to each other. It never gets ugly. Libras understand us in that way, they never bring out the bad side
Yes. Most Leo's will reconnect with anyone that seems like they want to give them attention. Unless you fucked them over beyond belief. The fact most deeply enjoy love and romance doesn't help either lol. Sometimes their hearts will override their brain, and they will make the same mistake with lovers over and over again.
Posted by Chuckcem
As everyone has already said, it depends on how the breakup happened. Who initiated it and why? If the breakup was bad and the Leo burned the bridge, then no. Even if you reconnect, he may not trust you romantically again.If the breakup was pleasant, neutral, or unclear, then there is a chance the Leo still soft spot for you. You'll know this if the Leo has made it easy to access him. If a Leo doesn't want to communicate with you, we'll make it impossible for you to reach us. We don't play nice when we go cold. So there's a chance he harbors some affection for you still.
The best indication is that he reached out to you. Leos are proud, so this can be difficult for us to do after a breakup. If he's looking to reconnect, it could be a good thing. Only you can tell us how your relationship was though.
Hmm.. my fiance's ex who is a Leo tried to add him up on social media and try to initiate a conversation it was casual. She also tried to ask her friends to invite me on a trip (fiance was uninvited) and were not even friends. I didn't go it seems weird haha
Posted by Chuckcem
As everyone has already said, it depends on how the breakup happened. Who initiated it and why? If the breakup was bad and the Leo burned the bridge, then no. Even if you reconnect, he may not trust you romantically again.If the breakup was pleasant, neutral, or unclear, then there is a chance the Leo still soft spot for you. You'll know this if the Leo has made it easy to access him. If a Leo doesn't want to communicate with you, we'll make it impossible for you to reach us. We don't play nice when we go cold. So there's a chance he harbors some affection for you still.
The best indication is that he reached out to you. Leos are proud, so this can be difficult for us to do after a breakup. If he's looking to reconnect, it could be a good thing. Only you can tell us how your relationship was though.
Hmm.. my fiance's ex who is a Leo tried to add him up on social media and try to initiate a conversation it was casual. She also tried to ask her friends to invite me on a trip (fiance was uninvited) and were not even friends. I didn't go it seems weird haha
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Wait, so your Leo ex is trying to reconnect with you, but you have a fiance? If that's the case, what does it matter what the Leo wants? If you plan on remaining faithful to your fiance, just let the Leo know you're engaged and friendship is all that you can offer.
Also your fiance has a Leo ex who is trying to connect with you and invite you on a trip? That's very strange if you don't know this woman.
I would never go back to an ex to date them, however I have reconnected with exes to sleep with them
Posted by Chuckcem
As everyone has already said, it depends on how the breakup happened. Who initiated it and why? If the breakup was bad and the Leo burned the bridge, then no. Even if you reconnect, he may not trust you romantically again.If the breakup was pleasant, neutral, or unclear, then there is a chance the Leo still soft spot for you. You'll know this if the Leo has made it easy to access him. If a Leo doesn't want to communicate with you, we'll make it impossible for you to reach us. We don't play nice when we go cold. So there's a chance he harbors some affection for you still.
The best indication is that he reached out to you. Leos are proud, so this can be difficult for us to do after a breakup. If he's looking to reconnect, it could be a good thing. Only you can tell us how your relationship was though.
Hmm.. my fiance's ex who is a Leo tried to add him up on social media and try to initiate a conversation it was casual. She also tried to ask her friends to invite me on a trip (fiance was uninvited) and were not even friends. I didn't go it seems weird haha
Wait, so your Leo ex is trying to reconnect with you, but you have a fiance? If that's the case, what does it matter what the Leo wants? If you plan on remaining faithful to your fiance, just let the Leo know you're engaged and friendship is all that you can offer.
Also your fiance has a Leo ex who is trying to connect with you and invite you on a trip? That's very strange if you don't know this woman.
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Sorry for the confusion. My Fiance had Leo ex that he broke up 10 years ago (she was physically abusive) But this Leo woman still tries to initiate contact with my Fiance after they broke up. She also tried to invite me through our common friends to join them on a trip even more odd that they invited me without inviting my fiance.
Hope this made sense. I usually don't have problems with Leos. I have a lot of Leo friends and mostly females. But this one is just kind of odd to invite me when we are not even friends to begin with.
Posted by Chuckcem
As everyone has already said, it depends on how the breakup happened. Who initiated it and why? If the breakup was bad and the Leo burned the bridge, then no. Even if you reconnect, he may not trust you romantically again.If the breakup was pleasant, neutral, or unclear, then there is a chance the Leo still soft spot for you. You'll know this if the Leo has made it easy to access him. If a Leo doesn't want to communicate with you, we'll make it impossible for you to reach us. We don't play nice when we go cold. So there's a chance he harbors some affection for you still.
The best indication is that he reached out to you. Leos are proud, so this can be difficult for us to do after a breakup. If he's looking to reconnect, it could be a good thing. Only you can tell us how your relationship was though.
Hmm.. my fiance's ex who is a Leo tried to add him up on social media and try to initiate a conversation it was casual. She also tried to ask her friends to invite me on a trip (fiance was uninvited) and were not even friends. I didn't go it seems weird haha
Wait, so your Leo ex is trying to reconnect with you, but you have a fiance? If that's the case, what does it matter what the Leo wants? If you plan on remaining faithful to your fiance, just let the Leo know you're engaged and friendship is all that you can offer.
Also your fiance has a Leo ex who is trying to connect with you and invite you on a trip? That's very strange if you don't know this woman.
Sorry for the confusion. My Fiance had Leo ex that he broke up 10 years ago (she was physically abusive) But this Leo woman still tries to initiate contact with my Fiance after they broke up. She also tried to invite me through our common friends to join them on a trip even more odd that they invited me without inviting my fiance.
Hope this made sense. I usually don't have problems with Leos. I have a lot of Leo friends and mostly females. But this one is just kind of odd to invite me when we are not even friends to begin with.
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Oh got it, if she was abusive towards him then she may be looking to weasel her way back into his life. What better way to maintain some control over him than by getting in good with his fiance. On top of that, she may have some resentment towards you as well.
I can't see how getting close to his ex would help either of you. I suggest you keep her at arms length OR just remove her from your lives altogether. She's an abusive ex after all, meaning there's no real friendship worth salvaging.
There is always a reason why we decide to break it off. Doesn't mean I don't think back to them from time to time
Posted by Chuckcem
As everyone has already said, it depends on how the breakup happened. Who initiated it and why? If the breakup was bad and the Leo burned the bridge, then no. Even if you reconnect, he may not trust you romantically again.If the breakup was pleasant, neutral, or unclear, then there is a chance the Leo still soft spot for you. You'll know this if the Leo has made it easy to access him. If a Leo doesn't want to communicate with you, we'll make it impossible for you to reach us. We don't play nice when we go cold. So there's a chance he harbors some affection for you still.
The best indication is that he reached out to you. Leos are proud, so this can be difficult for us to do after a breakup. If he's looking to reconnect, it could be a good thing. Only you can tell us how your relationship was though.
Hmm.. my fiance's ex who is a Leo tried to add him up on social media and try to initiate a conversation it was casual. She also tried to ask her friends to invite me on a trip (fiance was uninvited) and were not even friends. I didn't go it seems weird haha
Wait, so your Leo ex is trying to reconnect with you, but you have a fiance? If that's the case, what does it matter what the Leo wants? If you plan on remaining faithful to your fiance, just let the Leo know you're engaged and friendship is all that you can offer.
Also your fiance has a Leo ex who is trying to connect with you and invite you on a trip? That's very strange if you don't know this woman.
Sorry for the confusion. My Fiance had Leo ex that he broke up 10 years ago (she was physically abusive) But this Leo woman still tries to initiate contact with my Fiance after they broke up. She also tried to invite me through our common friends to join them on a trip even more odd that they invited me without inviting my fiance.
Hope this made sense. I usually don't have problems with Leos. I have a lot of Leo friends and mostly females. But this one is just kind of odd to invite me when we are not even friends to begin with.
Oh got it, if she was abusive towards him then she may be looking to weasel her way back into his life. What better way to maintain some control over him than by getting in good with his fiance. On top of that, she may have some resentment towards you as well.
I can't see how getting close to his ex would help either of you. I suggest you keep her at arms length OR just remove her from your lives altogether. She's an abusive ex after all, meaning there's no real friendship worth salvaging.
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Yes, my fiance did remove her from his life. When we started dating and the Leo still keeps trying to connect with him. He told the Leo that he is replying to her not because he wanted to be a part of her life again but to make it clear that what they have was over. He is sorry that they didn't work out but it was done. That he wishes her happiness. But the Leo replied with something like "if you are sorry you could have put in more effort". My fiance never bothered to reply and just ignored her after that.
Now, the Leo tries to joins the club that I'm in and then befriends my and my fiance's friends. Even her friends wants to be friends with me acting all friendly which is very odd.
I just wish this Leo will just stop and move on.
Posted by Chuckcem
As everyone has already said, it depends on how the breakup happened. Who initiated it and why? If the breakup was bad and the Leo burned the bridge, then no. Even if you reconnect, he may not trust you romantically again.If the breakup was pleasant, neutral, or unclear, then there is a chance the Leo still soft spot for you. You'll know this if the Leo has made it easy to access him. If a Leo doesn't want to communicate with you, we'll make it impossible for you to reach us. We don't play nice when we go cold. So there's a chance he harbors some affection for you still.
The best indication is that he reached out to you. Leos are proud, so this can be difficult for us to do after a breakup. If he's looking to reconnect, it could be a good thing. Only you can tell us how your relationship was though.
Hmm.. my fiance's ex who is a Leo tried to add him up on social media and try to initiate a conversation it was casual. She also tried to ask her friends to invite me on a trip (fiance was uninvited) and were not even friends. I didn't go it seems weird haha
Wait, so your Leo ex is trying to reconnect with you, but you have a fiance? If that's the case, what does it matter what the Leo wants? If you plan on remaining faithful to your fiance, just let the Leo know you're engaged and friendship is all that you can offer.
Also your fiance has a Leo ex who is trying to connect with you and invite you on a trip? That's very strange if you don't know this woman.
Sorry for the confusion. My Fiance had Leo ex that he broke up 10 years ago (she was physically abusive) But this Leo woman still tries to initiate contact with my Fiance after they broke up. She also tried to invite me through our common friends to join them on a trip even more odd that they invited me without inviting my fiance.
Hope this made sense. I usually don't have problems with Leos. I have a lot of Leo friends and mostly females. But this one is just kind of odd to invite me when we are not even friends to begin with.
Oh got it, if she was abusive towards him then she may be looking to weasel her way back into his life. What better way to maintain some control over him than by getting in good with his fiance. On top of that, she may have some resentment towards you as well.
I can't see how getting close to his ex would help either of you. I suggest you keep her at arms length OR just remove her from your lives altogether. She's an abusive ex after all, meaning there's no real friendship worth salvaging.
Yes, my fiance did remove her from his life. When we started dating and the Leo still keeps trying to connect with him. He told the Leo that he is replying to her not because he wanted to be a part of her life again but to make it clear that what they have was over. He is sorry that they didn't work out but it was done. That he wishes her happiness. But the Leo replied with something like "if you are sorry you could have put in more effort". My fiance never bothered to reply and just ignored her after that.
Now, the Leo tries to joins the club that I'm in and then befriends my and my fiance's friends. Even her friends wants to be friends with me acting all friendly which is very odd.
I just wish this Leo will just stop and move on.
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It's simple, ignore her and tell your friends to do the same. Block her number and on social media if you must. If you're announcing where you'll be online, stop doing that too. Unless you live in a very small town, there's no way she could possibly know what you two are doing unless you publicize it.
Also tell your fiance to be firm and give her ZERO attention. She and her friends are clearly nuts, so you really can't reason with people like that. There's absolutely no reason that they should be reaching out to you.
I am a Leo my ex is a Libra and yes we have been off and on for 10 damn years dafuck.
I say it takes a lot for a Leo to be done with someone but when they are even if its the 30th time its done lol
It depends. If you cheated on me there's no way back. Over means over. But if it was just a argument and misunderstanding and if we both try hard enough to make it works again then who knows.
OMG!!! Some of you already have given helpful advice over the years. We are both 53yrs old and he (Leo) dictates what happens in our relationship. I need help again. His mate or so he says is his ex mate (Libra male) has been helping me while I am so sad by adding happiness to my life, even said move in with him.
Finally after 5 years of drama, arguments, excitement, lies, let downs and great sex, My Leo mate and I finally called it quits equally a month ago. I didn't want to but to give him up but he cost me lots of money.
Except he came up two weeks ago to get his clothes, okay no problems but when are you leaving?? Apparently He was staying the night as he had to much to drink and I have a small living space and small bedroom, he had to sleep in my bed. I'm fully clothed and somehow ended up with no clothes and he kept cuddling telling me 'Now be a good girl'.
So yesterday I get home from work apparently he came up to get some more of his things. He stayed the night but he cuddled me the whole night and said be a good girl and we will talk later.
Tomorrow we are taking a trailer full of his stuff to his mates place where he is staying.
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I'm a Libra with a Leo ex. We broke up last year but last week, he sent me an email wanting to reconnect.