Strange Leo guy...

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LadyDraconis
@LadyDraconis
9 YearsCancer

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I have this Leo I've known since school who showed interest in me but I didn't reciprocate his feelings; we lost contact for a few years. When we found each other again, I decided to give him a chance. He never made it official and played hot and cold for months... I decided I had enough when he started to flat out ignore me and moved on. Now he won't leave me alone and keeps messaging me every few weeks or so... What's the deal with this behavior? I already told him how I felt and it's like he doesn't understand.
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awkwardleo
@awkwardleo
10 Years

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ugh it's hard to say. I can't tell if he's playing games or not or he's just not too interested.

As a Leo myself, when I like someone, i literally dive in and want to dissolve into them (as crazy as that sounds) but they would become my centre of focus and I'd do anything to make them feel extra special. And I make it very obvious too, by listening to everything they say, paying attention to every single aspect, their movement, their voice, their emotions etc.

The only time I play games is if I feel that I still can't trust that person fully, (ex: if I feel that they are still not over their ex, they are interested in other people, the are emotionally unavailable, they seem like a player etc) or just to test the waters so I don't get hurt.

Oh, maybe his ego was hurt when you didn't return his feelings before?

TBH, some people are just a..wholes (sorry for that, the site don't allow swear words haha), they just like to play with other people's feelings to make themselves feel better.