Torn between Pisces and Leo--or am I?

I posted this in the Pisces thread first, but just in case there's Leos out there with insight.

Guys...I know I haven't been around for a while now with updates. You all know my Pisces crush, the one I really like but the one who can't make up his mind and gives me weird mixed signals. Well he was away for 3 weeks and we weren't really in touch. (He's back tomorrow.) I was annoyed as hell and decided to see what happens when he came back but also not wait for him. Meanwhile, I met this sweet Leo guy--however, not my type at all.

A little bit about the Leo: He's a year younger than me, is thinking of working abroad (may leave any time) and he definitely likes me, 100% . He told our friends and it got to me. So unlike the Pisces, he's out there. He shows it too. How I feel: We actually really hit it off, we have the same sense of humor, and I DO like him lots--as a person. Here's the problem: i'm just not attracted to him. He's good looking and all, but just not my type. The Pisces guy is sexy. I picture myself necking with the Pisces guy. With the Leo, there's some sort of tension but when I try to picture myself kissing him or anything, I get all weird. It doesn't fit the picture I have of "Sexy". It's not sexy. It's like kissing my brother. Here's why: he could physically be my brother. When I look at him, I can't see him as a "man". I see a boy/teenager, and it's just the way he is. He could match physically with a petite girl. Just not me.

Fcuk! Now there's this really sweet guy I DO get along with who likes me for sure, (but he may leave sometime if he gets the job he wants) and then there's the stupid Pisces I'm obsessed about, but who just doesn't like me back the way I want him to. Plus, I'm sort of loyal to my pisces and I want to see what happens with him (but i'm so scared he didn't even think of me during the trip)--so I can't even consider the Leo. And even if the Leo were my type, it'd still be complicated because he KNOWS the Pisces! They went to university together and we're in the same group of friends. How would that make me look!!!!!!!!!

Tonight the Leo invited himself over, brought a movie and taught me poker. Nothing happened, but he stayed until 1 am. Did I give him mixed signals? Just because I enjoyed hanging out with him (which I did), does that make me a bad guy? Am I playing him? I actually made an effort to show I'm not interested that way. So if he likes me, it's at his own risk. Is it bad that I like him as a friend? So confused. I really don't want to hurt him.

I'm thinking of giving everything up and becoming a friggin' nun (HAHA, for a scorpio, that's a hard one).

What would you do? Jesus! I hate this! I still like the Pisces but I feel that he's the one who's going to end up hurting me. If I go for the Leo not only is it inappropriate because of the group dynamic, and I'd be extremely uncomfortable, (remember everyone in the group knows I liked mr.pisces) but also I just cannot picture myself with a guy his type. Plus I like the attention and him as a person, but I still like pisces so it's not fair at all. Catch 20/20

I know this is a bit ranting, but any opinions etc. is always valuable. You guys have given me much perspective before, so anything is greatly appreciated. How do I get myself into these messes? I'm horrible at placing boundaries. What if I gave mixed signals...

Hello Kafka, this is the deal we human beings always want some thing that we do not/can not have. That is why life is so interesting and sometimes hard to understand. Since you are not crazy about the Leo guy you need to let him know that you are just a friend ,nothing more noting less. With the Piece guy since you like him ,give him a hint or may be ask him out and see what happens.
Good luck.........