Well hello...

Hello my lovely pride:

Thanks to Jynja, I returned here tonight to see what's doing. She inspired me to post this thread. I'd like to share an update on what's been doing with me the last 4 months.

July: Ended a brief, but meaningful relationship with a newly sober taurus. I cared for him but he wanted too much commitment too soon. It hurt to let it go. It was a good pain, as hind sight shows me, because it propelled me into serious emotional work via my 12 step program and I have experienced a significant spiritual awakening that has given me a lot of healing and many lessons.

I took 3 months off dating. Last month I met a Gemini. Long story short, he is a good guy, but I'm not sure if it's gonna happen. I made a few mistakes and he's pulled back. My hesitancy and indecisiveness scared him, I think, but there is no bad feelings. I'm given him space and time, hoping for the best and literally allowing the universe to do what it will. This is great progress for me. 🙂

I am living with a great deal of gratitude these days and trusting God a lot. I firmly believe my life is on the upswing and I am much happier.

I would love to hear from you all...please give me your own update.

🙂
xo

🙂

I've missed the good peeps here. And ya, this guy is moody as phuck. The in and out makes me nuts. Texts me, teases me, but won't come all the way. I'm doing good at laughing him off but soon I will be bored. As all kitties can be.

Ah, well....

Looks like the cappie Cowpuncher rearing up the game!

Meow!

oh great here she comes

CP always enjoys the upview. Which always comes with an up "draft", if ya know what I mean 😉

perhaps if you were more consistent in your platonic friendships your love life might follow suit.

the claws are coming out, hisssssss

Are you talking to ME, Roxi—

really?

Welcome back BGP!

Hello LunarMaiden 🙂

Thank you, doll. Good to be here...I think! LOL

I'm angry at men today. Have a Cap, Scorpio, Aries sniffing at my gate, but the gem is the one who has stepped on my scorp moon. It's on fire tonight. It's all I can do from releasing it. Haven't felt this annoyed. Could it be the new moon we're in. Sag, I think?

I feel like letting my lioness out, claws and all, and toying with each one of them. RAWR!!

Oh and the scorp has 5 scorp placements, including venus and mars. *gulp*

well i'm fairly sure that if you work your way through the entire zodiac you will eventually find a compatible mate. btw, how many of these men have you actually met for real?

GOOD FOR YOU BGP!
Ignore the haters. They're bitter and wrinkled.

Notice how the Leos don't knock each other down in here.
Livingdeadgirl is just desperate for attention.

me desperate for attention— HILARIOUS! surely i would post more if that were the case but as it is, my life in the real world is just way too busy for DXP. i just find americans to be so damn flakey and shallow and i'm sick of the same old story with a protagonist of a different sign every time. rinse and repeat. same old, same old. blah, blah, blah........

plus...even if i were wrinkled, what's the problem with that? getting older is way better than the alternative*.




*which is dying if you can't work it out yourself 😄

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me desperate for attention— HILARIOUS! surely i would post more if that were the case but as it is, my life in the real world is just way too busy for DXP. i just find americans to be so damn flakey and shallow and i'm sick of the same old story with a protagonist of a different sign every time. rinse and repeat. same old, same old. blah, blah, blah........

you seem suuuuuuuper busy.....

yeah well i'm in the uk visiting my kids and this is my last day here. i've just taken them home and i'm in the bar of my hotel using the wifi. when i get back to spain i will resume my busy life which includes a real life man who worships the ground i walk on. sigh...such a dull life i have LMAO!!!

just dropped in to cut down on someone that is making positive strides in their life?
priorities are spot on!
i guess the fact that you have to prove yourself to a bunch of strangers online is pretty telling huh?

and FYI i had a huge amount of time for BGP who i considered a close friend until she became judgemental at a time i needed friends more than ever. in that respect yeah, i'm a little bitter and as it's highly unlikely she would even read an email from me, this is my platform to vent. it's what people do when they've been hurt by someone.

Not mature and kind people.
I don't think it's serving anyone and you're making yourself look insecure and like a jerk.


If someone hurts you, and you try to do the same, how does that make you any better?

positive strides implies moving forwards? BGP isn't moving forwards. she's just stagnating and repeating the same pattern with a different guy each time. it actually matters to me cos i think she's much better than that but doesn't KNOW she's much better than that. some people only want to hear opinions that back up what they want to believe and most of those people end up on DXP. why molly coddle when the truth, even though hurtful to hear, is often the most positive response?

whether i talk crap or not in your view, i at least am sincere.

anyhow. whatevs. i have a plane to catch tomoz. no hard feelings i hope BGP. if i didn't give a fuck about you i wouldn't bother writing anything at all. i do think you need a slap into reality though. you're a beautiful woman who could get any man you wanted if you just had the CONFIDENCE to love yourself a little more.

Posted by R1g0rM0rT1s
and FYI i had a huge amount of time for BGP who i considered a close friend until she became judgemental at a time i needed friends more than ever. in that respect yeah, i'm a little bitter and as it's highly unlikely she would even read an email from me, this is my platform to vent. it's what people do when they've been hurt by someone.

good to hear that, im not sure why you picked inept bgp, im sure you had plenty of other friends to choose from for your needs. good thing i wasn't one of them

Hey I'm not sure if this message is going to the user r1gor I want to really talk to u about the panic attck thing I'm a 29 year old guy I'm a Scorpio and I also had my first real panic attack yesterday so please write back I really need to talk about this I just don't know what to do

Biggirl you radiate sexyness and everyone must be attracted to you like...bees to honey.

So much salt in such a small thread