what are the Immature Leo male characteristics?

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I dated one for a 2 years and some odd change on and off...

Immature Kings... they will blow hot and cold. I do think the willingness to say that one is sorry depends very much on chart build.. and as always as CL said, it does really depend on if a Leo has a reason to apologize. 'Immature Leo' or not - a Lion or Lioness will never stoop down to insincere apologies.. and if you expect one just turn the other way and don't bother. A Lion will not mew and pretend to be a timid house-cat.

However if you are dealing with an immature Leo, I suggest saving yourself the trouble *if possible* and walking the other direction AS FAST AS YOU CAN. I would bate to imagine another putting themselves through the bullshit that comes with being around an immature Leo.

As a little note.. this guy was a Leo Sun and Leo Moon... and my Lioness with Lunar Scorpio didn't find any depth with that.. well on a mental and emotional level at least 😉
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I dated one for a 2 years and some odd change on and off...

Immature Kings... they will blow hot and cold.
However if you are dealing with an immature Leo, I suggest saving yourself the trouble *if possible* and walking the other direction AS FAST AS YOU CAN.



Thanks for some input. He does blow hot and cold. As for apology, I don't know but this was a dangerous situation. We were on vacation and he took me to Vegas. We have been taking about dating again once his residence location changes in a couple months. (we've been living in diff. states the past yr & broke up b/c we didn't want to do a long distance. I'm preparing for med school and he's 1st yr resident) Long story short... Someone slipped me a DATE RAPE DRUG 😢. I took 2 sips of my 2nd drink then everything goes blank. It was a topless pool party and apparently i took my top off but I didn't even know I did. He got mad and left to get food then couldn't find me ( I stayed behind with some people we made friend's with there and I believe they were the ones that did it b/c there was a time when my ex wasn't there b/c he left to get his friend in). I went mia. I don't know anything that happened to me for the next 8hrs except little clips of memory. Finally when we got reunited, (don't know when) I could barely walk and slurring.. I made no sense and I was just terrified. I come out of it and he was furious b/c he thought I may have gotten drunk. I was terrified and couldn't understand what was going on. He kept getting more upset and then I freaked out. Eventually, I called another friend who's also a doctor and he realized what was wrong. I don't remember calling but I discovered that afterwards. My friend got me my own hotel rm and security helped me retrieve my things. (my friend was afraid that maybe my ex did it) I know he didn't b/c he wasn't around when the drug slipped in my drink probably happened. When all this was going on, I didn't know what was happening or understand anything. I was completely disoriented, scared and my thought processes were not making any sense. I got tested and it came back positive and there was evidence of me struggling against someone but nothing bad happened thankfully. 😢 I tried to tell him about the test results but he won't listen. I have no idea what happened prior to him finding me and don't remember anything I said or did.
He knows that I never
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Astrological signs aside.. he's not worth it. That is not okay, end of story. ESPECIALLY for a 1st year medical student.. sheesh.

If you need to talk about this in different privacy levels (I'm not going to have an open and 100% conversation about this matter on public posts for both of our sakes lol) you are always free to send me a private message. And also by talk I mean I'll listen if that's what you may find most helpful.

As cold as this may sound.. you also weren't HIS property, so him being upset is little but a preteen sense of entitlement (saying this in his belief that you just partied and was drunk and reckless).

He doesn't sound 'in touch' enough with cold reality to realize his view of the world is selfish and childish.
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the best rule of thumb is to consider ALL MEN to be immature. i've got four brothers and a son and i can safely say that they grow in size and they get hairier but in their minds, the little boy never leaves 'em.

i call it the 'jackass principle'. that show is made by grown men. the thing that keeps them immature is male curiosity...the kind which drives them to launch themselves in a shopping trolley from the top of a street in san fransisco just to see what happens, lol.

men evolve in a different way to women and it's very rare to encounter a man WE would find to be emotionally mature...according to our standards at least.

vive la diff?rence!!!
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btw...are you gonna press charges—??

i had something slipped in my drink at the office christmas party last year. i have absolutely no recall beyond getting in a taxi with a sag male colleague. next thing i knew i was in a strange apartment and had an urgent need to throw up. i got out of the apartment and realised it was where i had parked my car the day before so i drove home, throwing up all the way. that day, i was due to go away with my kids for the christmas break and so i didn't pursue the issue....i actually just didn't know what happened at all...not even that my drink had been spiked at that stage.

it was only a few weeks later when the sag kept implying something had happened and then retracting it....and my colleagues asking about it too cos he'd been bragging to them....they couldn't believe it and told me i hadn't had enough to drink to go home with the sag of my own free will and when i told them what i (didn't) remember, they suggested he'd slipped me a micky finn.

i had him arrested and when i made my statement to the police, i had loads of messages from him which i'd kept that inferred he'd done something. it was too late to test though but the guardia civil took it very seriously, charging him with everything but rape.

if you have results to show you were slipped the daterape drug, you MUST pursue the matter further. a woman i worked with nearly killed herself in a car crash driving under the influence of the drug...anything can happen on that stuff and IT'S MORALLY REPREHENSIBLE!!!!!!!

i kinda don't get the leo not believing you or not talking to you cos of it though. do you have a reputation for getting drunk and a little bit lairy perhaps?

who would go to a topless party btw??

i dunno...it's all a bit odd if you ask me.
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Lol r1g... two things..

1. It's Vegas. Anything goes. Many people go and just do things that they would never ever ever do. Hell, a topless party in Vegas seems tame to me.. not that I've honestly even been to one, let alone participated.

2. The guy doesn't seem to even make sense... so him being coocoo could be also a likely option.

Personally (and yes I am bias against many Leo males for the fear of speaking to an immature one) the immature Leo I was with always second guessed me. Being a third decan.. that really hurt - honesty is the only comfortable way for me to communicate. He was also a Leo Moon sooooo..

People seem to be like that usually when THEY have been acting morally reprehensible. I wonder if he has done anything to make him so quick to react.
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LOL Hunt and Rig...the both of you are cracking me up. Lord knows I've had my share of a very immature Leo since the first of the year. I've ignored all his texts and phone calls for the last 3 weeks, and lo and behold, he still calls and texts. But with each text it's a little more "uh...where the heck are you"? Seems to me that the Leo should get SOME clue that I'm not returning his communications...due to his incredible lack of respect to me and being just completely all about him. I don't really care that he's going through a divorce and all the trouble he has. I'm not giving him a pass to treat me disrespectfully. So until he can get his act together and inquire on my good health and how my life is, and be genuinely interested in the answer, he won't get any communication from me. Immature? Maybe, but I'm thinking he's just a Leo, immature or not. Rig is right, all men are little boys and it will be rare for ANY of us high quality women to find one that can hang with us and treat us like the prizes we are.