Will a Leo man come back after break up?

My Leo man and I were really head over heels in love with each other. He said he had a crush on me since high school. He was very sure that I am the girl for him he even told his parents, friends, colleagues and everyone in our hometown knows about us. He was the sweetest, most loving, generous, kind hearted man ever. We already had a plan on when we will get married. He introduced me as his other half one time he brought me to his church- he's a Christian. So things we're really perfect. Even on monthsaries he will surprise me with gifts, flowers and cake. He's the man that every woman would want I never demanded anything because he will give it even before I asked. Things turned sour and he changed so we started to fight. Then the unexpected news came- I was pregnant. We both weren't ready so we argued and I said hurtful things I insulted him and I broke up with him. He was hurt I know. I was so hurt too I felt he abandoned me. He said he won't but he blamed me. We didn't contact each other for a week and then I was bleeding so I found out I had an ectopic pregnancy. I called him and he came to me he was there throughout my operation. I was thankful for him that he didn't leave me during those times but he was distant and cold. I told him I want us to work out our relationship. I told him I was sorry for breaking up with him it was Just because I was really hurt and depressed. But he said he loves me still but didn't want a relationship as of now. He has a lot of problems soon he will become jobless coz their company will close. So I agreed. We still communicate but I was a mess coz I miss the way we were especially the way he cares and loves me so I sent him a long email. He did not respond and it's almost a month now. I called him I asked how he was and he sounded okay. He said he can't be in a relationship with me because he was hurt and humiliated. He did not expect I told my friends and his family about what happened to us and he hates that. I know it is over. But I just can't get him out of my mind. Our relationship was once perfect even we have a little fight before. He was my true love. I don't know if I could get over him. I can feel he's moved on and here I am, depressed about the loss of my baby and the love of my life. Should I hold on to his words that may be someday when the time is right and everything is okay we will be back at each other's arms? If I call he would still answer but I stopped calling him. Our family especially on his side were very sad they are expecting we will get married. I am really depressed and sad.

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''He introduced me as his other half one time he brought me to his church- he's a Christian'"

My Leo man and I were really head over heels in love with each other. He said he had a crush on me since high school. He was very sure that I am the girl for him he even told his parents, friends, colleagues and everyone in our hometown knows about us. He was the sweetest, most loving, generous, kind hearted man ever. We already had a plan on when we will get married. He introduced me as his other half one time he brought me to his church- he's a Christian. So things we're really perfect. Even on monthsaries he will surprise me with gifts, flowers and cake. He's the man that every woman would want I never demanded anything because he will give it even before I asked. Things turned sour and he changed so we started to fight. Then the unexpected news came- I was pregnant. We both weren't ready so we argued and I said hurtful things I insulted him and I broke up with him. He was hurt I know. I was so hurt too I felt he abandoned me. He said he won't but he blamed me. We didn't contact each other for a week and then I was bleeding so I found out I had an ectopic pregnancy. I called him and he came to me he was there throughout my operation. I was thankful for him that he didn't leave me during those times but he was distant and cold. I told him I want us to work out our relationship. I told him I was sorry for breaking up with him it was Just because I was really hurt and depressed. But he said he loves me still but didn't want a relationship as of now. He has a lot of problems soon he will become jobless coz their company will close. So I agreed. We still communicate but I was a mess coz I miss the way we were especially the way he cares and loves me so I sent him a long email. He did not respond and it's almost a month now. I called him I asked how he was and he sounded okay. He said he can't be in a relationship with me because he was hurt and humiliated. He did not expect I told my friends and his family about what happened to us and he hates that. I know it is over. But I just can't get him out of my mind. Our relationship was once perfect even we have a little fight before. He was my true love. I don't know if I could get over him. I can feel he's moved on and here I am, depressed about the loss of my baby and the love of my life. Should I hold on to his words that may be someday when the time is right and everything is okay we will be back at each other's arms? If I call he would still answer but I stopped calling him. Our family especially on his side were very sad they are expecting we will get married. I am really depressed and sad.

Thank you for replying. Can leo forget someone that they really love hard that easy just because of their pride?

what is the backstory?

have you see each other since high school? how you reconnected?

how long have you been "head over heals" in love? its sounds like for a very short period, thats why I am asking

how do you know he is your true love? have you been in love with him for years?

have you two been married/divorced/living with somebody else before you reconnected?

@pandora101. I fell in love with him because of his character and he's persistent in winning me over. He said he had a crush during high school but I only knew him as my sister's classmate. He told me about this last 2015 but I ignored him coz I wasn't interested. On 2017 I was at the club with a friend and he was there so he went to my table and asked me for a date. I declined for months..but then I gave in at some point. And so we we're in a relationship for over a year but it went downhill. I don't know why. There's no 3rd party. He said we don't know what the future holds we might end up in marriage but not now because his family needs him etc. He said he loves me still but there are circumstances that he could not stay. He said he will always love me and that he doesn't have plans seeing other girls. But I know deep in my gutt that he's telling that to comfort me.coz in the first place, if you really love someone then giving up is not an option. I dunno why someone who loves you very much would give up on you that easy. He's gone but I could still feel him here. I emailed him told him I am not used to not hearing from him coz we were always on the phone before. Even when he's at the meeting, at work, at the office, taking a bath, eating lunch and dinner, he will call me and now I got nothing. Then he answered my email that he doesn't update/contact me now so that I won't think about him. Heck! Even if I will delete all of our pics together which I did, I will never delete our memories from my mind and heart. Even our family and friends are confused what happen coz they know how much he loves me.

Posted by Ladyleo18

I'm sorry about your pregnancy. That must have been really awful to go through.

Leos can forgive almost anything but if you hurt his pride and humiliated him with a break up, then that's a hard one to come back from. Especially if he had to pretend he didn't care in front of everyone to spare his ego. Maybe if time passes and your paths cross in the future, it might work. But it sounds like he's gone.

How can someone who claims they love you and will never leave you would leave you like you never mattered to them? It hurts to know he's moved on and I am stuck coz we have no other bad memories aside from this fight over my pregnancy that's also a failure. Is it really easy for a Leo to move on even when they claim that they love you so much? He even told his parents he's sure I am the one he will going to marry. Can a Leo really change their minds in a split second? Thanks for your help I appreciate it so much

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My Leo man and I were really head over heels in love with each other. He said he had a crush on me since high school. He was very sure that I am the girl for him he even told his parents, friends, colleagues and everyone in our hometown knows about us. He was the sweetest, most loving, generous, kind hearted man ever. We already had a plan on when we will get married. He introduced me as his other half one time he brought me to his church- he's a Christian. So things we're really perfect. Even on monthsaries he will surprise me with gifts, flowers and cake. He's the man that every woman would want I never demanded anything because he will give it even before I asked. Things turned sour and he changed so we started to fight. Then the unexpected news came- I was pregnant. We both weren't ready so we argued and I said hurtful things I insulted him and I broke up with him. He was hurt I know. I was so hurt too I felt he abandoned me. He said he won't but he blamed me. We didn't contact each other for a week and then I was bleeding so I found out I had an ectopic pregnancy. I called him and he came to me he was there throughout my operation. I was thankful for him that he didn't leave me during those times but he was distant and cold. I told him I want us to work out our relationship. I told him I was sorry for breaking up with him it was Just because I was really hurt and depressed. But he said he loves me still but didn't want a relationship as of now. He has a lot of problems soon he will become jobless coz their company will close. So I agreed. We still communicate but I was a mess coz I miss the way we were especially the way he cares and loves me so I sent him a long email. He did not respond and it's almost a month now. I called him I asked how he was and he sounded okay. He said he can't be in a relationship with me because he was hurt and humiliated. He did not expect I told my friends and his family about what happened to us and he hates that. I know it is over. But I just can't get him out of my mind. Our relationship was once perfect even we have a little fight before. He was my true love. I don't know if I could get over him. I can feel he's moved on and here I am, depressed about the loss of my baby and the love of my life. Should I hold on to his words that may be someday when the time is right and everything is okay we will be back at each other's arms? If I call he would still answer but I stopped calling him. Our family especially on his side were very sad they are expecting we will get married. I am really depressed and sad.

Awww I’m really sad to hear you go through this. I’m sorry for your loss. I’m sure it’s just as sad and hard for the Leo involved to lose something you both were excited about. Not to mention the future. Give him some time

Beware of the dude who makes big claims and promises during early days.

He plans to marry you but freaks out when you get pregnant. Dude is full of it.

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I'm sorry about your pregnancy. That must have been really awful to go through.

Leos can forgive almost anything but if you hurt his pride and humiliated him with a break up, then that's a hard one to come back from. Especially if he had to pretend he didn't care in front of everyone to spare his ego. Maybe if time passes and your paths cross in the future, it might work. But it sounds like he's gone.

How can someone who claims they love you and will never leave you would leave you like you never mattered to them? It hurts to know he's moved on and I am stuck coz we have no other bad memories aside from this fight over my pregnancy that's also a failure. Is it really easy for a Leo to move on even when they claim that they love you so much? He even told his parents he's sure I am the one he will going to marry. Can a Leo really change their minds in a split second? Thanks for your help I appreciate it so much

It's not easy at all. We can close the door and walk away from someone and have them questioning their own existence but it stays with us we just don'tshow our hurt. We carry it on our own and sometimes no one will ever know that it's consuming our mind 24/7. If you talked bad about him to anyone, that can't be reversed and he might never be able to face them again. It's a pride thing more than anything else. So he might have walked away out of principle rather than because his feelings are gone. You said he felt humiliated, so whatever happened in that regard might be what the deal breaker was.

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Now I understand why he told me he felt humiliated that he can't face my family and friends again and that he's hurt because of that. So I guess he's not coming back. 😢

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My Leo man and I were really head over heels in love with each other. He said he had a crush on me since high school. He was very sure that I am the girl for him he even told his parents, friends, colleagues and everyone in our hometown knows about us. He was the sweetest, most loving, generous, kind hearted man ever. We already had a plan on when we will get married. He introduced me as his other half one time he brought me to his church- he's a Christian. So things we're really perfect. Even on monthsaries he will surprise me with gifts, flowers and cake. He's the man that every woman would want I never demanded anything because he will give it even before I asked. Things turned sour and he changed so we started to fight. Then the unexpected news came- I was pregnant. We both weren't ready so we argued and I said hurtful things I insulted him and I broke up with him. He was hurt I know. I was so hurt too I felt he abandoned me. He said he won't but he blamed me. We didn't contact each other for a week and then I was bleeding so I found out I had an ectopic pregnancy. I called him and he came to me he was there throughout my operation. I was thankful for him that he didn't leave me during those times but he was distant and cold. I told him I want us to work out our relationship. I told him I was sorry for breaking up with him it was Just because I was really hurt and depressed. But he said he loves me still but didn't want a relationship as of now. He has a lot of problems soon he will become jobless coz their company will close. So I agreed. We still communicate but I was a mess coz I miss the way we were especially the way he cares and loves me so I sent him a long email. He did not respond and it's almost a month now. I called him I asked how he was and he sounded okay. He said he can't be in a relationship with me because he was hurt and humiliated. He did not expect I told my friends and his family about what happened to us and he hates that. I know it is over. But I just can't get him out of my mind. Our relationship was once perfect even we have a little fight before. He was my true love. I don't know if I could get over him. I can feel he's moved on and here I am, depressed about the loss of my baby and the love of my life. Should I hold on to his words that may be someday when the time is right and everything is okay we will be back at each other's arms? If I call he would still answer but I stopped calling him. Our family especially on his side were very sad they are expecting we will get married. I am really depressed and sad.

Awww I’m really sad to hear you go through this. I’m sorry for your loss. I’m sure it’s just as sad and hard for the Leo involved to lose something you both were excited about. Not to mention the future. Give him some time

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I guess he will never come back. I hurt his ego and his pride. He told me he was hurt and felt humiliated that he can't face my family and friends again.😢

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I'm sorry about your pregnancy. That must have been really awful to go through.

Leos can forgive almost anything but if you hurt his pride and humiliated him with a break up, then that's a hard one to come back from. Especially if he had to pretend he didn't care in front of everyone to spare his ego. Maybe if time passes and your paths cross in the future, it might work. But it sounds like he's gone.

How can someone who claims they love you and will never leave you would leave you like you never mattered to them? It hurts to know he's moved on and I am stuck coz we have no other bad memories aside from this fight over my pregnancy that's also a failure. Is it really easy for a Leo to move on even when they claim that they love you so much? He even told his parents he's sure I am the one he will going to marry. Can a Leo really change their minds in a split second? Thanks for your help I appreciate it so much

It's not easy at all. We can close the door and walk away from someone and have them questioning their own existence but it stays with us we just don'tshow our hurt. We carry it on our own and sometimes no one will ever know that it's consuming our mind 24/7. If you talked bad about him to anyone, that can't be reversed and he might never be able to face them again. It's a pride thing more than anything else. So he might have walked away out of principle rather than because his feelings are gone. You said he felt humiliated, so whatever happened in that regard might be what the deal breaker was.

Now I understand why he told me he felt humiliated that he can't face my family and friends again and that he's hurt because of that. So I guess he's not coming back. 😢

In life, anything is possible so who knows.. He might eventually get over it and your paths might cross again in the future. Whatever you do, don't put your life on hold waiting

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Thank you so much for helping me understand. I hope I could forget all the hurt that this break up has caused me. I wasn't expecting this will happen as I have so much faith in this relationship. Life is cruel. It takes away someone or something that is valuable to you.

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Posted by Ladyleo18

I'm sorry about your pregnancy. That must have been really awful to go through.

Leos can forgive almost anything but if you hurt his pride and humiliated him with a break up, then that's a hard one to come back from. Especially if he had to pretend he didn't care in front of everyone to spare his ego. Maybe if time passes and your paths cross in the future, it might work. But it sounds like he's gone.

How can someone who claims they love you and will never leave you would leave you like you never mattered to them? It hurts to know he's moved on and I am stuck coz we have no other bad memories aside from this fight over my pregnancy that's also a failure. Is it really easy for a Leo to move on even when they claim that they love you so much? He even told his parents he's sure I am the one he will going to marry. Can a Leo really change their minds in a split second? Thanks for your help I appreciate it so much

It's not easy at all. We can close the door and walk away from someone and have them questioning their own existence but it stays with us we just don'tshow our hurt. We carry it on our own and sometimes no one will ever know that it's consuming our mind 24/7. If you talked bad about him to anyone, that can't be reversed and he might never be able to face them again. It's a pride thing more than anything else. So he might have walked away out of principle rather than because his feelings are gone. You said he felt humiliated, so whatever happened in that regard might be what the deal breaker was.

Now I understand why he told me he felt humiliated that he can't face my family and friends again and that he's hurt because of that. So I guess he's not coming back. 😢

In life, anything is possible so who knows.. He might eventually get over it and your paths might cross again in the future. Whatever you do, don't put your life on hold waiting

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I could still recall how happy he was while introducing me to his family and church members as his soon to be wife. How he told everyone he was never been so sure of his life, that I am the girl he's waiting all along. He was so certain. He even looked for a house that we could live after marriage. He put me in the pedestal that the people around us wants a relationship like us then all of a sudden it changed. My hopes and dreams about our future was crushed in an instant. The pain is consuming me and he doesn't seem to care anymore.

Um, hello?

He's about to be jobless.

But, you just want the source of your happiness.

Loss of employment can be devastating. It can take years to recover. Some people have to completely change careers... also, depression.

What a rollercoaster ride, you get dumped, lose a baby, and lose your job.

He has to simplify to focus - no drama, no you.

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I'm sorry about your pregnancy. That must have been really awful to go through.

Leos can forgive almost anything but if you hurt his pride and humiliated him with a break up, then that's a hard one to come back from. Especially if he had to pretend he didn't care in front of everyone to spare his ego. Maybe if time passes and your paths cross in the future, it might work. But it sounds like he's gone.

How can someone who claims they love you and will never leave you would leave you like you never mattered to them? It hurts to know he's moved on and I am stuck coz we have no other bad memories aside from this fight over my pregnancy that's also a failure. Is it really easy for a Leo to move on even when they claim that they love you so much? He even told his parents he's sure I am the one he will going to marry. Can a Leo really change their minds in a split second? Thanks for your help I appreciate it so much

It's not easy at all. We can close the door and walk away from someone and have them questioning their own existence but it stays with us we just don'tshow our hurt. We carry it on our own and sometimes no one will ever know that it's consuming our mind 24/7. If you talked bad about him to anyone, that can't be reversed and he might never be able to face them again. It's a pride thing more than anything else. So he might have walked away out of principle rather than because his feelings are gone. You said he felt humiliated, so whatever happened in that regard might be what the deal breaker was.

Now I understand why he told me he felt humiliated that he can't face my family and friends again and that he's hurt because of that. So I guess he's not coming back. 😢

In life, anything is possible so who knows.. He might eventually get over it and your paths might cross again in the future. Whatever you do, don't put your life on hold waiting

I could still recall how happy he was while introducing me to his family and church members as his soon to be wife. How he told everyone he was never been so sure of his life, that I am the girl he's waiting all along. He was so certain. He even looked for a house that we could live after marriage. He put me in the pedestal that the people around us wants a relationship like us then all of a sudden it changed. My hopes and dreams about our future was crushed in an instant. The pain is consuming me and he doesn't seem to care anymore.

But you said you broke up with him.

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I did and because it was out of anger . He knows that. I was pregnant but he blamed me later on. At first he was happy about the pregnancy then later on he blamed me that's why I was mad and told him I can take care of myself and the baby. I was consumed by anger and disbelief that he could hurt me like this.

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Um, hello?

He's about to be jobless.

But, you just want the source of your happiness.

Loss of employment can be devastating. It can take years to recover. Some people have to completely change careers... also, depression.

What a rollercoaster ride, you get dumped, lose a baby, and lose your job.

He has to simplify to focus - no drama, no you.

I guess some men regardless of the zodiac will come running for the hills when they're hit by the reality of commitment. I guess his actions were out of fears. ☹️

Posted by Raakac

You insulted the parent of your child, you humiliated him in front of his friends and told a family things that should be only be between you 2, he trusted you to keep that between you 2 and you broke that trust, on top of that you left him and you were the one that felt abandoned? Leo is a prideful sign, and to do that to him is like choping off the balls or somth. Being angry and doing such things is not an excuse, you want a partner you can trust and talk openly knowing he will not tell anyone and you can discuss shit rather than be passive agressive or scream the lungs out and feel like it's ok to do so. From my point if view he returned to the hard moments for you because he was pitying you, he felt you needed a person to be by your side to endure these moments so he was there, but he wasn't that into you anymore, he was just there out of pity, not out of love, you both sound like you have your own problems, i'm sorry for your loss but it's time for you to move on, you're clinging up to the past where mistakes were made, you learn from them, and move on in your life , focus attention on change rather than the past thats not coming back, if he comes back one day and you'll end up together and figure shit out, thats ok, but clinging to the past such as this isn't healthy for you and doesn't let you move on with your life.. Time is priceless and you'll never have more than you have now, so stop vasting it and start living your life , best of luck and stay positive! You should really learn from this experience, because the relationship didn't sound healthy, was only good why you were both in the clouds, but when reality kicked in you panicked and made big mistakes and he left the relationship. Best of luck next time ! 🙂

Yes you are right. I am trying my hardest to move on I just miss the old us and I know it is wrong to miss something that's already gone. For more details I wasn't planning on telling our friends. I went to my Doctor then she said it was a miscarriage. I called him but he didn't pick up the phone, he ignored me for 1week. So I called my close friend which happens to be his office mate and told her that I need to talk to my ex because he wasn't picking up. She said he didn't go to work that day and she asked me what happened. I didn't know what to do anymore so I end up telling her about my situation. That's how I humiliated him. At the first place I wasn't planning to tell anyone but I couldn't get to him for a week and I need to tell him that the baby's gone so I reached out to our friends. I only break up with him out of anger because he was blaming me about the pregnancy. I was confused. Where's the man who was so excited about having a family with me? How could he abandon me like that? I tried my hardest to reach out to him but he won't talk to me. I begged for him to give the relationship another shot but he said he wants to be single.

Hi, Leo female here :-).

I'm really sorry for your loss and for what you've been through.

You keep saying that he abandoned you, but from what you said earlier it was you who broke up with him (I do understand you did it in anger) and he came back when you had your operation and looked after you.

I wish people were more careful about what they say when they're angry because some words you just can't take back. If I am in a relationship that I care about, I will do anything it takes to go through the problems and work things out. I will fight for this relationship for as long as I can and as hard as I can. But as soon as you break up with me, I'm done and there is no turning back. I physically and mentally can't go back, even if I wanted to. It happened to me, my head was saying yes - it was a great relationship and we could be happy again, but my heart was saying NO - they hurt me once before, that can do it again. I know I won't be able to trust the person again in the same way as before and the relationship won't be what it was. It breaks my heart sometimes, but this is how I feel.

I'm sorry, but I think it's better for you to move on.