@Whorpio
9 Years5,000+ PostsScorpio
Is it typical...
Understanding Leo Men’s Behavior Toward Women
Leo men often seek attention and admiration, which can lead to behaviors like mirroring actions and staying in a woman's line of sight. However, such behaviors are not typical of all Leo men and may indicate specific personality traits or insecurities. Respectful boundaries are essential in any relationship or interaction.
-Eat dinner off her plate
We're cats so yes. As for the other stuff it sounds like a teenage crush
-Eat dinner off her plate
We're cats so yes. As for the other stuff it sounds like a teenage crush
The person turns 30 this year....
-Eat dinner off her plate
We're cats so yes. As for the other stuff it sounds like a teenage crush
The person turns 30 this year....
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Aren't Leos the eternal teenagers... or was it Rams?
Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
-Eat dinner off her plate
We're cats so yes. As for the other stuff it sounds like a teenage crush
The person turns 30 this year....
But if he’s deaf has he not had much experience with women? He may feel comfortable to be like this with you because he knows nothing will happen since you’re with his bro.
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His grandma said he’s had girlfriends since he was 1 years old... And stories have been told about his more recent girlfriends. So I don’t think he is inexperienced.
Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns So just a perv? Have you mentioned it to your boyfriend?
Yessss. At first he made the excuse that since his bro is deaf he does all the mirroring and following to get to know you, and that he probably checks me out because I’m sexy. You know what else he had the audacity to say? He was like “He probably knew you were a prostitute the moment y’all met because he can pick up on small things like the way you walk. So that probably intrigues him” 🙄🙄
But after the falling asleep on my rear end thing my bf was like “okay yeah that was weird...I felt bad for you. Sorry”
I think Leo's are flirty/charming maybe sleazy. Doesn't mean they want to date you though.
Still inappropriate.
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I’m glad someone else agrees it’s inappropriate.
My skin crawls but I feel bad because my bf says that’s not who his brother really is, just this pyramid scheme he’s involved with has ruined his brain cells some.
And now we’re on vacay in paradise and we have to share a room with him.... I keep checking to make sure the suitcase is zip closed so he don’t go sniffing my panties.
It sounds like he likes her, but no that's not "normal". Leo men want partners we don't have to share, so going after someone else's girlfriend is just a waste of time. This guy seems inexperienced and doesn't know how to properly interact with women, which is probably why he acts that way around brother's girlfriend. He needs to slow down though before he gets hurt.
Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns If it was me and my bro did that I’d smack him in the mouth.
Well I put a water bottle between us to stop it. My boyfriend didn’t actually see the butt thing, he just figured that’s what went down when he saw me move my water bottle there.
You’d still smack him even if you loved your brother unconditionally & family is #1 in your heart?
It sounds like he likes her, but no that's not "normal". Leo men want partners we don't have to share, so going after someone else's girlfriend is just a waste of time. This guy seems inexperienced and doesn't know how to properly interact with women, which is probably why he acts that way around brother's girlfriend. He needs to slow down though before he gets hurt.
I was moreso thinking this Leo wants to assert dominance over his bro by stealing his gf or sumn.
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Posted by Whorpio Well I put a water bottle between us to stop it. My boyfriend didn’t actually see the butt thing, he just figured that’s what went down when he saw me move my water bottle there.
You’d still smack him even if you loved your brother unconditionally & family is #1 in your heart?
If I liked him I’d warn him first. That’s just me though.
Do you spend much time around the brother?
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I think it’s just hard to warn since it’s my word against his. And my bf hasn’t seen any of this for himself, so evidence is small.
Lately I’ve had to, especially since we’re on a family vacay right now. Tomorrow we have a 7 hour road trip and the brother wants to ride with us 🙄🙄 And I’m helping remodel his parents’ business building so I see him there. He literally shows up to every thing I sign on for with my bf’s family.
Never trust a Gemini
Omg why
-Rub up on her butt while pretend sleeping
WUT 😮
but I guess, maybe they shouldn't be sleeping so close if that's gonna be a problem 😅
-Rub up on her butt while pretend sleeping
WUT 😮
but I guess, maybe they shouldn't be sleeping so close if that's gonna be a problem 😅
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Incident happened on a boat headed towards shore. Everyone was sitting on beanbag chairs on floor and he put his right next to mine.
It kind of sounds like he's trying to not be excluded with the family stuff from what you've said about him wanting to be around. Like he doesn't want to be replaced if you've become a big part of his family. He would probably already feel outsde if he's deaf and not able to be part of most conversations. The butt thing sounds weird though, you should have said something if it made you uncomfortable. Maybe just say sonething to him if he does something to make you feel uncomfortable because he might not realise.
Makes sense, except for the fact that he HATES the family. Only uses them for easy $ $ $ and a place to sleep and free vacations.
You've never dated someone whose bro or friends wanted to bang you? Its pretty normal.
I’ve never been in a serious relationship. All casual.
And there’s a difference between wanting to bang and actually acting like you want to. That difference is respect and boundaries.
Posted by Lioness888How do you know he hates them? Maybe he just gets fristrated easy because of the deaf thing... i don't know his history but there's obviously challenges that maybe we don't understand. I have a deaf cousin and my other cousins son has autism and they always needs extra attention because they feels left out or treated differently. Sometimes stuff like that makes it much harder for people to feel included. I'm not saying he's a good guy because i don't know him, but you might need to just be a bit more patient with him because he is probably important to his brother and he is someone you're going to have to have contact with. It will make it easier if you try to understand him and be more forgiving. Obviously don't let him do things that make you uncomfortable but maybe try not to exclude him
That’s just what my bf told me; that his brother is ignorant and has his head up his own ass and uses his “disability” to act like a retard. My bf claims to love him but he seriously says some vile shit that makes it seem like hate.
I honestly feel like your bf should be putting his brother in check since you've told him these things and how uncomfortable it makes you.
Is this was someone else’s problem I’d say the same thing, but since it’s my bf and he hates confrontation I don’t see him saying anything 😑😑
He is jealous of his brother more than he like her actually
Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns So just a perv? Have you mentioned it to your boyfriend?
Yessss. At first he made the excuse that since his bro is deaf he does all the mirroring and following to get to know you, and that he probably checks me out because I’m sexy. You know what else he had the audacity to say? He was like “He probably knew you were a prostitute the moment y’all met because he can pick up on small things like the way you walk. So that probably intrigues him” 🙄🙄
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"He probably knew you were a..."
Waat?
Not to be crass, but if he is aware, he wants in, too. He's already rationalized it, and he's probably stunned you haven't yet offered. I hope I'm wrong but that's how it appears to me. Is the bf a Gemini? How invested are you?
That aside, good to see you. ♡
Honestly, I would say it’s because he’s deaf.
I’m friends with many deaf people and it’s a different culture. Some of them are overlyyyyy flirty like that.
It really *is* a different culture.
There's a school for the deaf & blind south of where I live, so there's a fairly large presence here-- unfortunately, they have a tendency to be snooty and incredibly entitled.
Posted by Montgomery "He probably knew you were a..."
Waat?
Not to be crass, but if he is aware, he wants in, too. He's already rationalized it, and he's probably stunned you haven't yet offered. I hope I'm wrong but that's how it appears to me. Is the bf a Gemini? How invested are you?
That aside, good to see you. ♡
Good to see you too babe 😘😘🤗🤗
Yeah it’s the Gemini. Not to sound desperate or anything, but I’m 1000% invested.
Sounds like the leo is just being there as a friend? Doesn’t sound like he’s flirting so I’m confused?
Just sounds like someone is thinking too much on his actions i doubt he even realizes what he’s doing.
Honestly, I would say it’s because he’s deaf.
I’m friends with many deaf people and it’s a different culture. Some of them are overlyyyyy flirty like that.
It really *is* a different culture.
There's a school for the deaf & blind south of where I live, so there's a fairly large presence here-- unfortunately, they have a tendency to be snooty and incredibly entitled.
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Yeah he is very entitled, but I just figured it’s because the parents are in the upper class.
He wanted to ride back to Texas with us today and we brought my bf’s POS pickup truck to our beach vacay to avoid having to take the brother home... He still insisted on coming with us and he complained that the drivers seat was too far back and was tryna put our suitcase in the bed of the truck so he had more room. My bf was just like “Ok, put your suitcase back there too then.” So then the brother put our stuff back in the cab and slammed the door. I was thinkin “Shit if this was my bf’s sports car this asshat would be dead”.
Honestly, I would say it’s because he’s deaf.
I’m friends with many deaf people and it’s a different culture. Some of them are overlyyyyy flirty like that.
It really *is* a different culture.
There's a school for the deaf & blind south of where I live, so there's a fairly large presence here-- unfortunately, they have a tendency to be snooty and incredibly entitled.
Yeah he is very entitled, but I just figured it’s because the parents are in the upper class.
He wanted to ride back to Texas with us today and we brought my bf’s POS pickup truck to our beach vacay to avoid having to take the brother home... He still insisted on coming with us and he complained that the drivers seat was too far back and was tryna put our suitcase in the bed of the truck so he had more room. My bf was just like “Ok, put your suitcase back there too then.” So then the brother put our stuff back in the cab and slammed the door. I was thinkin “Shit if this was my bf’s sports car this asshat would be dead”.
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Give it time then.. eventually the little shit will cross the line-- hopefully sooner rather than later. Sounds like a real sleaze.
And Gemini.. hmm where's his moon?
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Give it time then.. eventually the little shit will cross the line-- hopefully sooner rather than later. Sounds like a real sleaze.
And Gemini.. hmm where's his moon?
Cancer moon– passive af. Dislikes confrontation so much that he’d rather let people walk all over him :-/
For leo men to:
-Follow around their brothers girlfriend / partake in activities she’s partaking in even though there are a shit ton more options
-Mirror her actions
-Rub up on her butt while pretend sleeping
-Eat dinner off her plate
-Check her out
-Always try to be in her line of vision
-And stare at her?
Asking for a friend. Not much to say to the perv because he’s deaf...
Whorpio, your boyfriend's seems nonconfrontational. I reserved judgement but this one takes the crown.
Posted by VenusAquarius Whorpio, your boyfriend's seems nonconfrontational. I reserved judgement but this one takes the crown.
Yeah, I think that’s just how he was raised. I’ve noticed his dad and step-dad are also both very laid back and passive.
Leo's want what you have, it's like they can't help it.
When my sister introduced me to her new (Leo) boyfriend I didn't like the way he looked at me (up and down....).
It was so disrespectful to her that I felt like calling him out.
So ever since then I've kept my distance and now they broke up so I won't have to deal with him again.
Not to say it's typical for all Leo's but I have seen it a few times, that they want what you have.
I wish I could call him out, but my boyfriend says he gets emotional over everything & goes crying to their mom. Plus since he’s deaf he could just turn his hearing aid off when I chew him out.
I’ve come to notice that this whole thing upsets my bf, so I’m gonna try my best to just look past it. Just praying we don’t have to spend much more time with the brother and hopefully he gets a girlfriend soon.
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For leo men to:
-Follow around their brothers girlfriend / partake in activities she’s partaking in even though there are a shit ton more options
-Mirror her actions
-Rub up on her butt while pretend sleeping
-Eat dinner off her plate
-Check her out
-Always try to be in her line of vision
-And stare at her?
Asking for a friend. Not much to say to the perv because he’s deaf...