Will My Leo ex boyfriend come back?

Hi! I am a virgo girl, I dated a leo man and had a wonderful relationship. I was very attentive to his needs: Cleaning his house, cooking for him, spending a lot of time with him, giving him a lot of love and attention, we loved each other and we showed it a lot to one another, he even talked marriage. Although his commands and bossy tendencies did get on my nerves but I took it all until one day I blew off.What I did was very bad but I had it when he one day he yelled at me and cused me out. I pretty much reacted and left him, I went away and left him at a place hours from home but he was safe and with a car. He never got passed me leaving, even though I apologized countless times, even though he had provoked this and he never acknowledged it. I always blamed myself for the incident. Its been a month since then, and we talked 3 weeks ago and he said it was over. I cannot believe he would end it after I was so good to him and he acted like he loved me, I put up with a lot of his mistakes and suffered silently. Will he see his mistakes, and will he get over his pride and come back? I stop contacting him 3 weeks ago.

Why would you clean his house?

Never chase a leo man or any man... But leo men gets cold immediately if you chase after him. just let him be. do you!!! have fun.. he might come back, might not. if he ended it after one fight his feelings probably wasnt that genuine and deep after all.
the majority of the men I've dated have been leos. and I have been in your situation with leo men, once they know they got you, they dont want you. Im never dating a leo man again. all of them have been the same, talked the same, walked the same, lied the same....

Posted by kalin
He may after he's cooled since it seems more of his fault... As long as nobody was watching when the incident happened.

There were people present.

Posted by thisLIBRAgirl
Why would you clean his house?

Never chase a leo man or any man... But leo men gets cold immediately if you chase after him. just let him be. do you!!! have fun.. he might come back, might not. if he ended it after one fight his feelings probably wasnt that genuine and deep after all.
the majority of the men I've dated have been leos. and I have been in your situation with leo men, once they know they got you, they dont want you. Im never dating a leo man again. all of them have been the same, talked the same, walked the same, lied the same....

I cleaned his house cuz its a virgo thing we cater too much. Did your exes who were leo come back?

Leo & Virgo can be one of the most compatible pairings. It's like best friends. But I always find Virgo women exploding on Leo men. We take so much of their ego then one day BOOM !! We lose it.

You did the right thing to walk out. You are not his child. You never deserve to be cussed out & disrespected. I'm a Virgo that dated a Leo for 5 years & I would have walked out on him too if he cussed me out...I would do it twice if I needed too lol.

So if you're wondering do Leo men come back & chase again after you've hurt or embarrass them ? Yes!!

For three years my ex is trying to contact me although Ive said NOTHING in years! He switches from nice to hateful in his text messages/ voicemails..I've recently put an end to it & blocked his calls/ texts.

Unlike you, I had no remorse. That fueled him to hold on...It sparked a challenge in him. (Im so happy we're not together). Just let your guy go & see what happens. Don't fight to keep him! When you don't NEED him, he will try to prove you wrong. They hate to lose!! Make him feel like he's lost you.

Posted by Rapunzel
Leo & Virgo can be one of the most compatible pairings. It's like best friends. But I always find Virgo women exploding on Leo men. We take so much of their ego then one day BOOM !! We lose it.

You did the right thing to walk out. You are not his child. You never deserve to be cussed out & disrespected. I'm a Virgo that dated a Leo for 5 years & I would have walked out on him too if he cussed me out...I would do it twice if I needed too lol.

I agree with you we take take take, and then it just get to a point and you blow up. Your comment makes me feel better. He gave me the biggest guilt trip ever and fell for it. Now we are not talking he said he was done. I do love and miss him.

Posted by Rapunzel
So if you're wondering do Leo men come back & chase again after you've hurt or embarrass them ? Yes!!

For three years my ex is trying to contact me although Ive said NOTHING in years! He switches from nice to hateful in his text messages/ voicemails..I've recently put an end to it & blocked his calls/ texts.

Unlike you, I had no remorse. That fueled him to hold on...It sparked a challenge in him. (Im so happy we're not together). Just let your guy go & see what happens. Don't fight to keep him! When you don't NEED him, he will try to prove you wrong. They hate to lose!! Make him feel like he's lost you.

Thank you for the advice! That makes a lot of sense ty!

You're welcome. I commented because I totally understood you.

My ex was TOO controlling & you know Virgos don't like that! He tried to brainwash me & make ME feel guilty all the time... It got old. We Virgals do so much for them..loving things we don't normally do. Plus we feed their ego like no one else. Once his anger showed, I knew he was someone I wouldn't marry...I turned down three proposals from him.

So yes, if your guy is worth it, live your life independently. He WILL come back. They hate to lose.

Posted by Rapunzel
You're welcome. I commented because I totally understood you.

My ex was TOO controlling & you know Virgos don't like that! He tried to brainwash me & make ME feel guilty all the time... It got old. We Virgals do so much for them..loving things we don't normally do. Plus we feed their ego like no one else. Once his anger showed, I knew he was someone I wouldn't marry...I turned down three proposals from him.

So yes, if your guy is worth it, live your life independently. He WILL come back. They hate to lose.

Yes we do so much for them and feed their egos big time. Maybe that is why I feel sad to see how easily he broke it off after everything that I did for him. Sorry it didn't work for you with him but it was probably for the best.

It definitely was for the best. I'm happier now.

Im sure you miss him. Try not to be sad. Because he will never forget you! He will always think about your goodness! Cheer up knowing that you're the best he ever had. You will haunt him. 🙂

Why would you want him to come back when you had to do so much for him and he did absolutely nothing in return?

Posted by celticlioness
Why would you want him to come back when you had to do so much for him and he did absolutely nothing in return?

He did many things for me. He is fun, gave me lots of attention, wonderful lover, sweet, and caring. I am just shocked how something I thought that was wonderful fell apparr so easily. I did a lot for him maybe more but he also was a great boyfriend. We did love each other.

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Posted by celticlioness
Why would you want him to come back when you had to do so much for him and he did absolutely nothing in return?

He did many things for me. He is fun, gave me lots of attention, wonderful lover, sweet, and caring. I am just shocked how something I thought that was wonderful fell apparr so easily. I did a lot for him maybe more but he also was a great boyfriend. We did love each other.

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This sounds more real. I'm always amused when people write posts proclaiming how much they did for their partner without including what their partner did for them. Perhaps you were busy thinking how much you did for him during your relationship without stopping to think what he did for you too (and I'm willing to bet he noticed this mental filing away process) - one thing I have noticed with earth signs - they have mental notebooks into which they document everything that they have done for their partner in one column headed with their own name, and completly forget to write down their partners name in the other column - with fire signs we don't possess mental notebooks, stuff is done for love and care and we don't need you to get down and kiss our feet for doing it - and we won't kiss yours in return for something that should be carrief out without conditions attached.

Perhaps he just finally blew up because he couldn't take having to show so much gratitude anymore - just my opinion, I could be wrong of course.

Posted by virgogalinlovewithleoguy
Hi! I am a virgo girl, I dated a leo man and had a wonderful relationship. I was very attentive to his needs: Cleaning his house, cooking for him, spending a lot of time with him, giving him a lot of love and attention, we loved each other and we showed it a lot to one another, he even talked marriage. Although his commands and bossy tendencies did get on my nerves but I took it all until one day I blew off.What I did was very bad but I had it when he one day he yelled at me and cused me out. I pretty much reacted and left him, I went away and left him at a place hours from home but he was safe and with a car. He never got passed me leaving, even though I apologized countless times, even though he had provoked this and he never acknowledged it. I always blamed myself for the incident. Its been a month since then, and we talked 3 weeks ago and he said it was over. I cannot believe he would end it after I was so good to him and he acted like he loved me, I put up with a lot of his mistakes and suffered silently. Will he see his mistakes, and will he get over his pride and come back? I stop contacting him 3 weeks ago.

"Suffering Silently" is never a good idea, I wonder was he doing the same and putting up with a lot of "your mistakes" too - it doesn't sound like you two had good communication.

Cleaning up his house a motherly action, not the actions of a girlfriend who is a queen to a leo man

Public humilation is rarely garnishes forgivness from a Leo, if forgiveness is given the action is nevertheless ever forgotten and will come back to bite the relationship in the end. What was it that you did that was very bad?

You are better off leaving this one behind.

My Leo came back after a month and I was the one who acted badly.

But if after one incident he reacts this way, his feelings can't be deep.

Think about what you really want. Being bossed around is no fun and smother a man either.

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Posted by celticlioness
Why would you want him to come back when you had to do so much for him and he did absolutely nothing in return?

He did many things for me. He is fun, gave me lots of attention, wonderful lover, sweet, and caring. I am just shocked how something I thought that was wonderful fell apparr so easily. I did a lot for him maybe more but he also was a great boyfriend. We did love each other.

This sounds more real. I'm always amused when people write posts proclaiming how much they did for their partner without including what their partner did for them. Perhaps you were busy thinking how much you did for him during your relationship without stopping to think what he did for you too (and I'm willing to bet he noticed this mental filing away process) - one thing I have noticed with earth signs - they have mental notebooks into which they document everything that they have done for their partner in one column headed with their own name, and completly forget to write down their partners name in the other column - with fire signs we don't possess mental notebooks, stuff is done for love and care and we don't need you to get down and kiss our feet for doing it - and we won't kiss yours in return for something that should be carrief out without conditions attached.

Perhaps he just finally blew up because he couldn't take having to show so much gratitude anymore - just my opinion, I could be wrong of course.

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I was always very grateful for what he did for me, he was a great boyfriend except for being bossy which is a leo thing i think. As a virgo I dont want to take the spotlight (not interested) and i didn't want to take the lead, but one thing I did want respect and that is why that day I had it when he yelled at me with bad words. On the contrary, I was the one who did not feel welcomed. I gave a lot which is ok. I see that you are a leo. Have you ever dated a virgo? How did it go?

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Hi! I am a virgo girl, I dated a leo man and had a wonderful relationship. I was very attentive to his needs: Cleaning his house, cooking for him, spending a lot of time with him, giving him a lot of love and attention, we loved each other and we showed it a lot to one another, he even talked marriage. Although his commands and bossy tendencies did get on my nerves but I took it all until one day I blew off.What I did was very bad but I had it when he one day he yelled at me and cused me out. I pretty much reacted and left him, I went away and left him at a place hours from home but he was safe and with a car. He never got passed me leaving, even though I apologized countless times, even though he had provoked this and he never acknowledged it. I always blamed myself for the incident. Its been a month since then, and we talked 3 weeks ago and he said it was over. I cannot believe he would end it after I was so good to him and he acted like he loved me, I put up with a lot of his mistakes and suffered silently. Will he see his mistakes, and will he get over his pride and come back? I stop contacting him 3 weeks ago.

"Suffering Silently" is never a good idea, I wonder was he doing the same and putting up with a lot of "your mistakes" too - it doesn't sound like you two had good communication.

Cleaning up his house a motherly action, not the actions of a girlfriend who is a queen to a leo man

Public humilation is rarely garnishes forgivness from a Leo, if forgiveness is given the action is nevertheless ever forgotten and will come back to bite the relationship in the end. What was it that you did that was very bad?

You are better off leaving this one behind.

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The way things happened was that we were with friends at a weekend getaway, and when I was helping him pack, he went off on me and started to yell and say bad words because I was not doing it right. Not to mention the day before we had a private talk and I told him I was feeling overwhelmed with the relationship, he apologized but then he decided to be mean to me again the next day. So I was at point were I was done with the relationship, so when he cussed me out I left him there alone (with a car and safe) but we had an argument and people listened. So he said it wa

Posted by seraph
Leo and Virgo? Really? Neither sign quite understands each other. Astrologically they aren't well-placed.

Now, Leo-Scorpio I can understand, despite the signs being square. There's this strange, undeniable connection going on there. It's palpable on the boards. But Virgos seem a bit too milquetoast for Leos, at least before we look at the totality of the charts involved. Who knows... the Virgo in question might have Aries and Leeb placements. 😉

Interesting that you say this. My ascendant sign is scorpio and my moon sign in gemini, I am not as bad as my other virgo friends. I am not that picky and I am a fun, friendly, and very loving person.

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Posted by seraph
Leo and Virgo? Really? Neither sign quite understands each other. Astrologically they aren't well-placed.

Now, Leo-Scorpio I can understand, despite the signs being square. There's this strange, undeniable connection going on there. It's palpable on the boards. But Virgos seem a bit too milquetoast for Leos, at least before we look at the totality of the charts involved. Who knows... the Virgo in question might have Aries and Leeb placements. 😉

Interesting that you say this. My ascendant sign is scorpio and my moon sign in gemini, I am not as bad as my other virgo friends. I am not that picky and I am a fun, friendly, and very loving person.

It wasn't an implied criticism of you. You DO after all, have a Scorp Rising in your favour. 😉

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I know you were not =). Just wanted to put the info out there. On the contrary, he has venus in virgo and i do too lol. His ascendant is Saggitarus and moon in Pisces.

Yes astrologically this pairing seems doomed BUT somehow it actually could work perfectly! What maybe helped with my ex was that he was a very late Leo & I'm a very early Virgo (Aug 23). Communication was perfect & we deeply understood each other because we TRIED to. He was the leader & you know many sweet Virgals hate leading. Plus Leo men go out their way to woo us. And Virgals make him chase a little. lol

All I can say is that it CAN work for years. But it eventually ends in shambles if you have a bossy Leo that puts himself or his career or his desires first. All Virgos want is respect. If she's not respected or feels left out, she will dramatically walk away or go cold & silently disappear.

Not all Leo men are extremely bossy. I have two great Leo male friends. That are very mellow & get along fabulous. There are good Leo men out there for a good Virgo women that could go all the way.

Posted by Rapunzel
Yes astrologically this pairing seems doomed BUT somehow it actually could work perfectly! What maybe helped with my ex was that he was a very late Leo & I'm a very early Virgo (Aug 23). Communication was perfect & we deeply understood each other because we TRIED to. He was the leader & you know many sweet Virgals hate leading. Plus Leo men go out their way to woo us. And Virgals make him chase a little. lol

All I can say is that it CAN work for years. But it eventually ends in shambles if you have a bossy Leo that puts himself or his career or his desires first. All Virgos want is respect. If she's not respected or feels left out, she will dramatically walk away or go cold & silently disappear.

Not all Leo men are extremely bossy. I have two great Leo male friends. That are very mellow & get along fabulous. There are good Leo men out there for a good Virgo women that could go all the way.

Yes, they do chase and woo us I like that about him. He did give me a lot of attention and put me first. It is just the disrespect that's my pet peeve.