Will we recover from cheating?

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Rainbow123
@Rainbow123
12 Years

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Hello everyone,
I would like to have your thoughts on the situation I'm going through right now.
I'm a 33 years old Aries and I my boyfriend is Leo (31).
The classical combinition: me emotional, he a bit selfish..Basically describe Aries and Leo and you have US.
We've been together 3 and a half years. 1 year ago, my boyfriend was offered a job outside the country (I'm writting from europe). It was something he wanted for a long time so I was very supportive; always there for him motivating him; sharing the happiness when he got it, etc. Initially it was suppose to be for 1 year only, so we decided that there was no point in me leaving my job here and go with him, because it was just one year.
Everything was ok: we saw each other very often; he would come here; I would go there. I mean, not easy, but doable. When I say not easy, it is mainly because even though there is Facebook, Whatsaap, Skype...u name it, it is never the same and a lot of important things get lost.
Anyway, a few months ago the job he went to do for 1 year became permanent. Great offer! He called me straight away to share the news and also asking my opinion before accepting it. I always said I didnt want to move, but when I heard his joy, I was happy for him and said Yes, that he shoud go for it and I would join him later.
With this new position he started working very hard; he has been tired, stressed, sick, travelling a lot and for the last 2 months we haven't been getting a long much. Always fighting because we dont skype enough; or he is tired to talk, etc Like a cold war. Horrible, really.
But in the meatime, he has been spending a lot of time looking for a new house for us. We've been doing it together: he emails me the adverts, I give my opinion and when we got the one we wanted we've been deciding on furniture and all.
But because there was so much tension between us lately, when I went to see him this week, I was worried that something bad could come out of my visit.
When I got there he seemed happy to see me, we were great again, all sort of 'normal', which was for me a relief.
However, when we were waiting for the delivery men to arrive at our new home, I had the urge to see his phone. I do respect peoples privacy, but for some reason I checked his messages.
So, here I am, decorating my dream house, getting ready to move to another country, all hopefull that it would be no more distance so this would be good again....and then I see he was texting other girls, some