Am I nuts as a Libra if am too devoted to my Guy

IF he told you that he can't love you, why are you insisting ? ? ? It means he can't love you because he don't feel it, no feelings. Virgo are very straight when say something. I had one experience with one once and I would never try again after his cold reply and end. I just said something to him and he said " OK, if you think that , we finish !" and it was forever ! You said his reactions to your pictures was 0 also, then why do you need to make yourself feel so down waiting from him to tell you how beautiful you are or things like this ? When someone reacting like this, simple, move on , other way you just show to him that you are ready to do anything for him , just to be with you , but he will think this as "just to be with her for a night of few dates because she is waiting this from me I see " . Do you really need this ? I am sure if he would be crazy about you, you will start ignore him and treat him as you Libra do from your nature 🙂 , why now you want to show to him that you are weak ? ignore him now and focus your attention on someone else. I don't know why Libra would do anything for the person who does not love him/her and would do really nothing and ignore and treat bad the person who love him/her ...... Maybe this is from your nature , you want to catch someone attention and emotions , then when you see the person likes you so much, you start to play with him or her , as the cat with the mouse 🙂

Yes. You are being ridiculous. This "relationship" sucks and you would do well to close that chapter, lessons learned (hopefully) and move on with your life.

Posted by Pixiecircle
U know, i get alot by ppl that libra do ds n that but m reakly not like that. I believe in stability n devotion. Its true i lose interest in things i want change all the time but that doesnt mean i m into changing partners that way. The only reason i wud walk out on a guy wud be if he has given me emotional damage beyond repair or he is changed. The reason m saying this guy is playing hard now n broken off is cos i have been with him since months now and even last time he did same, only to crave me more later. Its his personality n m highly attracted to his good qualities that bad ones dont consume me much. He wont admit but he stalked me n wanted another chance. This time too he said i know i may get regret. The only reason m willing to make ds work n fix thibgs is cos of my nature. Where hes negative, m warm. He knows ds too. That he likes to wreck things. But anyhow, im gonna observe ds time n not push. Maybe its a test n trial time. I cant do all the work n efforts all the time. He has to come to senses too n let go of resentment. Virgos hurt others but they expect that we dont say even an ouch in return. This is unfair. And as a libra, m big on justice. I neither want him to b unfair with me nor want to b unfair with this relationship all cos hes an idiot. Thats the reason perhaps i keep sacrificing my ego. But m too quiet now. Just going with the flow. Heard about mercury retrograde.

seriously, how hard would it be to type properly?

Excuse me? If you are offended by the typos, then calm down. M using my tablet n typing here isnt smooth for me.

Posted by Pixiecircle
Excuse me? If you are offended by the typos, then calm down. M using my tablet n typing here isnt smooth for me.

i won't excuse you which is why i mentioned it. it's not typos that are the issue but a concerted effort to write like a poorly trained chimp.

I can only laugh at you right now. You are acting like a virgo. Don't read if it bothers you. Simple. And please, I am not here to have this kind of conversation or fights with a stranger. I recently joined to have support from people. Thank you very much.

Posted by Pixiecircle
I can only laugh at you right now. You are acting like a virgo. Don't read if it bothers you. Simple. And please, I am not here to have this kind of conversation or fights with a stranger. I recently joined to have support from people. Thank you very much.

ah, so writing correctly is not beyond you then. nice to see.

It would be wise of you to add "incompatibility" to your list of reasons you would leave a man.

Lol.

@libralula. Wise words ... i cant thank you guys enuff for the support you giving me in realising self worth

Posted by Pixiecircle
I can only laugh at you right now. You are acting like a virgo. Don't read if it bothers you. Simple. And please, I am not here to have this kind of conversation or fights with a stranger. I recently joined to have support from people. Thank you very much.

Everybody tell you here how ridiculous you are and you can't see this still ? .... When someone don't likes you and don't feel love for you, you Libra get crazy to catch that person and his emotions and you want everyone LIKES YOU AND LOVES YOU , but when someone really has this emotions and feelings for you, you treat that person as a jerk.... You think everyone should like you and when you can't obtaining this, you would move the world and mountains , just to MAKE that person to likes you ?.... You have to understand, love is not by force or because you want, love is happen . If in his heart was not happened for you, how can you make this man to loves you ? You think you are sure he fell for you, but this is just your OWN idea in your mind . If he is really into that, Virgo is very easy to show that and not only this, but they spoiling you with lots of attentions , gifts, invitation to dinners and so on. Virgo is a very good companionship and lover and very straight forward . Sorry if this man is not into you, but this should not bother you ! Why when someone who likes you , this thing is bother you so much and then you ignore and treat bad that person ? Just because you know that person already is into you and you have not to do any more efforts, right ? But you should learn to appreciate the one who is into you and move on with your life if there is someone who is not into you, Libra do extreme things when someone don't like them , trying to show how nice they are, how handsome/beauty, etc, etc....

My Libra (subject from my life) posted some pictures online , showing his muscles and body for some women who disliked him and he was being so ridiculous with this action..... I just told him that time : if you have no brain to show, you show your muscles and oh, you think that person will likes you just for this ?

So, try to calm down and focus your attention on other things. Why don't you ignore him and show no care at all ? Any man dislike this side 🙂

Posted by Libralula
And OP,
Honey you are trying to force a square into a circle opening.
I know sometimes it can be hard to accept that a relationship you tried so hard to work, Just. Won't.
but, you have to think with your mind instead of your heart. You sound terribly miserable and sad...



Whatever you choose, your happiness should be top priority...
If he makes you cry and feel down more than smile he's not the one, but someone else could be...

Nobody understand this at the time when this things are happening , but she will understand over time . Now the emotions and anger are mixt together and you must calm down first, make peace in your mind and think what this man did nice for you regarding your big efforts to be everything ok to say ? You will see that the list with the OK things are almost empty behind the list of your efforts.
And you have to understand also, in love, is rare both to be so equal in feelings and actions. One of them must be hurt always , less or more, but this is love. There are few cases when both are so equal in everything they do and think in a relationship. this thing make us get mature and later, we will meet a partner and we will not expecting so much from him, and this will be our perfect match, just because we will not expecting the same as we did before. Now you are expecting from him a lot : to be warm , to be lovely, to show emotions, etc.... But not everyone is into us and not everyone can show this also, even they are into us. Understand ? Just let the person as she/he is and if there is not as your expectation and you get sad as now, just move on and find the one who can show this part to you too. Ignore for the moment and the time will make less your sufferance. 🙂

Delia, am sorry if you are hav8ng any issues with a libra guy but dont shout at me for those reasons, please. I do thank you though, for the kind words n advise you gave. Im considering that. Loving him is onething, but loving myself at this point is also important. Alright, he may do as he pleases. If he thinks I cant make him happy, alright. I give up.

Posted by Pixiecircle
Delia, am sorry if you are hav8ng any issues with a libra guy but dont shout at me for those reasons, please. I do thank you though, for the kind words n advise you gave. Im considering that. Loving him is onething, but loving myself at this point is also important. Alright, he may do as he pleases. If he thinks I cant make him happy, alright. I give up.

You are too angry now to understand what I said.... Maybe I am the single one from this page who did not said anything against you , I just told you some things about Libra MAN ( so no about women ) and some advice to make you not get so down and feel so miserable anymore ! I did not laughing of you, I did not said anything else worse. I try to understand every person in this forum and I am not the type to be arrogant or to laughing or judge wrong someone. Don't forget something : you just can't have a flower from a garden, but that does not mean you will can't touch and have another flower from that garden 🙂 There are flowers who smell more nice and one of them will attract you more , then you will see , it's smell is compared with nothing else. Try to find that flower ! 🙂

:-) thank you