AM I THE ONLY LONELY LIBRA TRYING HARD TO —??

FIND A TRUE LOVE— I KEEP TRYING TO TALK TO ALL TYPES OF WOMEN MY AGE BUT FAILURE FAILURE FAILURE IM SO STRESSED OUT I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO

I hear you VSOP.

I haven't really started to search but I am longing. 🙂

You are not alone I couldnt get a woman if the fate of the world depended on it. lol and I have never been in a relationship, ever!! (well a real one at least) but cheer up you can be as bad as me so dont try to dwell in it.

5 years!! 5 years, I've been in and out of silly relationships because I refuse to settle and I know what I'm looking for.

Such a long time, I was beginning to feel desperate. Virgo Man might be the perfect tonic - so far everything is just peachy, and earnest, and serious. Much talk of future plans and it kinda feels like love.

You will find it. Stay patient, it's hard for Libras but we can do it.


----Also, I realized that refusal to settle is a double edged knife. Some flaws in a relationship can be forgiven, not everyone needs to turn you out the door. Love is seeing beyond the little flaws down the truth of the person. I guess I held that "perfect ideal" partner in my head for too long, and am trying to let it go.

I think you are the only one man I would jump of a 30 story building If I were you.

VSOP, it's good to know that there are guys out there that want a serious relationship...in my world, all you see are guys wanting a quick fix and thats not where I'm at either. One day when you aren't looking someone genuine will sneak up on you, I'm sure 🙂 Hang in there!

Posted by TasteOfChaos
Stop looking, let it find you!

It is true what they say, love will come along when you least expect it...

However, I can sympathise with you!

one day, i remembered thinking 'wow it is true. you find love when you stop looking'

next thing i knew that pisces bastard disappeared off the face of my earth and was fucking my former best friend. classy guy.

so yeah, i'm never gonna let my guard down like that again.

it's funny that the sign of love and partnership (supposedly) usually has such difficulty.

i've realized that in my case, i definitely prefer the chase. i prefer being single. the idea of settling down and being trapped forever and ever scares the shit out of me. luckily, guys are all worthless whores and i'll never have to worry about settling down anyhow.

You don't actually "Find" a true love. You stumble upon them. They already exist and the only way you can search is to find yourself. Then you can identify them. People are not random meat market on display shelves. If you treat them like random picks, then that will forever be what you will get.

It's NOT about FINDING the right partner, it's about BEING the right partner

Posted by *
It's NOT about FINDING the right partner, it's about BEING the right partner

Thats half true. Someone can be a perfect partner, but if their partner is a sloozy or takes advantage of that, then its a pity.

Posted by *
It's NOT about FINDING the right partner, it's about BEING the right partner

No its about making someone the right partner

Let the girls find you bro and stop trying so hard to find that perfect one.. that there don't exist lol lower your standard..

no woman no cry!! bob marley said that (i think its the other way around)

Awww... Love will find you when you least expect it!

Posted by Diddylibra
Let the girls find you bro and stop trying so hard to find that perfect one.. that there don't exist lol lower your standard..

I agree with the first part of that, I would not lower my standards though. Libras frequently "look" for love. It is common for us to look too hard and many even feel incomplete if they are single. If a Libra is single, they are probably looking.

Take it easy. Enjoy your "me time". Make your self into the best you can be. Then when someone worth it comes along, charm them away.