Anti-Social

Are Libras typically anti-social? I for some reason always thought them to be more out going & friendly type people however my libra friend is the complete opposite. He spends the majority of his time locked in his bedroom & when he does come out he will either not say much at all or if he does speak to me, he mumbles the whole time so that I can barely understand what he's saying. I would almost think that he doesn't even want to be my friend at all because I'm always the one to initiate contact with him, but he tells me he wants to be my friend & he enjoys my company. Just curious on how to maintain a friendship with someone who seems unavailable for even that.......T I A

why are you wasting your time?

what are you doing at his house when he locks himself in his room?

LOL he lives with his siter who is my best friend so I don't go over there just to see him, I go over there to see her, but because he & I are suppose to be friends too, I wouldn't mind having a conversation with him every now & then as well. Believe me, if he lived alone & acted that way, I wouldn't bother to visit.......Just wondered if that was typical behaviour for Libras? I know it's not just me he acts this way with....He never has friends over & he hardly ever leaves the house, I think he's a bit depressed & I'd like to be someone he could talk to, I'm just not sure if thats completely the reason for his actions or if this is just the way he is, so is this normal for a Libra?

He probably has a Scorpio ascendant or an "afflicted" Venus and Mars.

"He probably has a Scorpio ascendant or an "afflicted" Venus and Mars."

Is this true? Scorpio rising are typically quiet people? I'd like to know more regarding that. I think I consider myself pretty quiet.

"Are Libras typically anti-social? I for some reason always thought them to be more out going & friendly type people however my libra friend is the complete opposite. He spends the majority of his time locked in his bedroom & when he does come out he will either not say much at all or if he does speak to me, he mumbles the whole time so that I can barely understand what he's saying. I would almost think that he doesn't even want to be my friend at all because I'm always the one to initiate contact with him, but he tells me he wants to be my friend & he enjoys my company. Just curious on how to maintain a friendship with someone who seems unavailable for even that.......T I A"

CanTaur, what you've described sounds like me exactly. I enjoy being myself most of the time not because I don't get along with people, its not because I'm depressed its just how I am. I don't talk much either because well, actions speak louder than words do so its not really what you say its how you say it.

Im very private and swing between extremes of being really sociable and really anti-social..i like to choose, not to have people force their company on me!!

***what are you doing at his house when he locks himself in his room?***

LMAO@HP!!!

I don't know any Librans who are antisocial with their friends or people they like,they are normally extremely social, flirty and has a nack of being the person to lift your spirits when you are down.

I don't know any Librans who are antisocial with their friends or people they like,they are normally extremely social, flirty and has a nack of being the person to lift your spirits when you are down.

Queenscorpio:
Are you following me again?
Its nice to have a dashing stalker for once
* kisses u on the cheek *

Thats me in a chestnut, well at least one,
although i am very private and introverted
my family and friends hate it when i only see or talk to them
once in a blue moon

LOL!!! ***blushes at kiss from VirgoLibra***

Yeah, I have my share of experience with you Librans. Great guys!!!

* he & I are suppose to be friends too, I wouldn't mind having a conversation with him every now & then as well.

lol!

ummm ... you aren't friends. You are his sister's friend.

* Im very private and swing between extremes of being really sociable and really anti-social..i like to choose, not to have people force their company on me!!

Libras tend to be very private. No matter how social private is a whole other thing. Privacy is a big issue with me.

When I was younger I was very shy and not social at all. We tend to be fun and social but aren't the biggest personality. We tend to be quieter. When I was young I was worse, I was a bit of a loner. I preferd the company of much older adults to those my age because I really couldn't relate.

Libra is a late blooming

Thanks for all the responses. While reading through them I gave myself the opportunity to really think about what everyone said, My take is that he's much like CrudeMood, in that this is just the way he is, I come to that conclusion because he's like this with everyone, I'm also friends with his Best Friend & though they have been best friends for 20+ yrs they rarely talk......strange to me but everyones different. As far as barging in on him or forcing my company on him, I don't do that now although I must admit there was a time when I did do that when there was some confusion as to what our relationship was, I wanted more & because of things that he said I became confused, telling me that I'm the perfect person for him & that you never know what the future will hold but then saying BUT I'm just not ready. I fully admit that for a time, I overlooked the but part & focused on what I wanted to hear. I have sence came to LISTEN to what he says, He's not ready!!!!! So I've purposly kept my distance, I figure if it's meant to happen it will but in the meantime I don't want to make things akward between the two of us, so I just keep my distance, I let him come to me when he wants to talk. The thing is that I do care about him, even if it's just in a friendly way & he's going through alot of really hard times right now, I'm naturally someone who wants to help & listen & be a friend but I just don't know how to approach him! I really think he could use someone to be in his corner right now, BUT I don't want to do anything that would make him feel as if I AM forcing myself or barging in on his life. Ohhhhh if only things weren't so complicated LOL, thanks for letting me vent!

L-S.......... actually he & I are friends, we are the same age, went through all of school together, & have mutual friends, I met him 1st & thats how I met his sister, who is younger, I actually ran into him about a year ago wich is how I got back into touch with the sister, so actually I was friends with him first & met the sister not the other way around, wich I know isn't typical but just to clarify this isn't a case of me having a crush on my best friends older brother or something wich I know is common LOL

If things weren't complicated, it would have nothing to do with a Libra.