Anyone libra rising?

Hi there, my bf is aries sun libra riding.

Hes very charming and calm.

We've had a huge rows over afew months now. We were both vile but I was worse (he lied to me)

How can I win over him as a libra rising as I don't know much regarding this rising sign. ..

Stand your ground. He needs to think about his lie and weigh up the damage that caused to your relationship. He’ll only do this fairly if you don’t back down.

Posted by sweethearts

Stand your ground. He needs to think about his lie and weigh up the damage that caused to your relationship. He’ll only do this fairly if you don’t back down.

Great advice thank you. I'm definitely standing my ground. I've been surprised who defensive and angry he's got for a libra

Posted by ImperfectStorm

I just read your other thread. You need to stop begging him and focus on repairing yourself instead of repairing the relationship. We cannot control other people.. you will learn this the hard way if your solution is to try to win him back, or beg him to stay.

I do agree. I'm not begging anymore, I told him sort himself out or I'm gone. I know he doesn't believe me as I haven't left yet but geez I'm still on maternity leave.

Posted by ImperfectStorm

I just read your other thread. You need to stop begging him and focus on repairing yourself instead of repairing the relationship. We cannot control other people.. you will learn this the hard way if your solution is to try to win him back, or beg him to stay.

I do agree. I'm not begging anymore, I told him sort himself out or I'm gone. I know he doesn't believe me as I haven't left yet but geez I'm still on maternity leave.

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Posted by Sunmoonrising

Posted by ImperfectStorm

I just read your other thread. You need to stop begging him and focus on repairing yourself instead of repairing the relationship. We cannot control other people.. you will learn this the hard way if your solution is to try to win him back, or beg him to stay.

I do agree. I'm not begging anymore, I told him sort himself out or I'm gone. I know he doesn't believe me as I haven't left yet but geez I'm still on maternity leave.

I am sorry that you are going through this 💔 I found out that my sons dad cheated just days before our sons second birthday.

I tried like hell to keep our family together.. i was the one trying to fix what he broke. I asked to go to therapy, church, I bought self help books. I wanted so badly to repair our relationship and it only added salt to the open wound when I finally learned that despite all my best efforts, I cannot force someone to love or respect me back.

These situations really teach us how very little control we have over life, and also teach us that we shouldn’t have to “win” anyone over. It does not make it any less painful, so I am sorry you are going through this. But I will say that as someone who begged and tried to work things out (with zero effort from the other side) you are only hurting yourself worse and prolonging the pain by doing that. So I’m glad you’re not doing it any longer. ❤️ Sending love to you and your baby. I hope that he comes to his fucking senses on his own regard and I hope that HE repairs what he broke. That is not your responsibility.

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Thank you hunny. It is very painful and some days I wake up thinking its just a bad dream. He was always sneaky anyway but I was so shocked at such an early stage. He's turned very narcissistic now tbh with his lies, I'm just holding back until its the right time. I'm so sorry it happened to you x

Posted by Sunmoonrising

Hi there, my bf is aries sun libra riding.

Hes very charming and calm.

We've had a huge rows over afew months now. We were both vile but I was worse (he lied to me)

How can I win over him as a libra rising as I don't know much regarding this rising sign. ..

I'm a Libra rising. I'm that type of Libra rising that don't like to argue at all cus it'll eventually lead me to fight you physically. I'd much prefer to take the easy way out and throw my hands in the air and let you win for the sake of peace. I'm also a very charming and calm Libra rising too. And don't even think about apologising after cooling off cuz I'm the type that don't accept apologies as I'm not good at giving them so save that for someone else who's good at apologies.

I don't know about other Libra risings but that's how I am as one. On another note, it'll be wise to get to know everything about Libra risings, and I do mean EVERYthing before getting intimate with Libra risings. We might be cute and cuddly but never judge a book by its cover.

Posted by Sunmoonrising

Hi there, my bf is aries sun libra riding.

Hes very charming and calm.

We've had a huge rows over afew months now. We were both vile but I was worse (he lied to me)

How can I win over him as a libra rising as I don't know much regarding this rising sign. ..

Aries sun libra rising

There's your answer right there. As those two combination you CAN'T win over him. You just answered your own question when making this thread. You can close it down now.

I am an Aries Sun, Libra Rising. It's an extremely bipolar combination, two people in one. I never forget an insult. Best you leave him alone. If he cares for you he will reach out after he sorts his thoughts out.

Posted by GenericUsername

I am an Aries Sun, Libra Rising. It's an extremely bipolar combination, two people in one. I never forget an insult. Best you leave him alone. If he cares for you he will reach out after he sorts his thoughts out.

Thank you. We live together and have a baby. I'm unsure how to move forward tbh, he's up and down and brings it up alot. I've done wrong but he's very aware of how badly he's hurt me and lied.

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Posted by GenericUsername

I am an Aries Sun, Libra Rising. It's an extremely bipolar combination, two people in one. I never forget an insult. Best you leave him alone. If he cares for you he will reach out after he sorts his thoughts out.

Thank you. We live together and have a baby. I'm unsure how to move forward tbh, he's up and down and brings it up alot. I've done wrong but he's very aware of how badly he's hurt me and lied.

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well if you are that serious and he hurt you he's an asshole and needs to suck it up