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How long do Aries been crush.. in general?
How Long Do Aries Typically Have a Crush
Aries tend to develop crushes quickly and intensely but may lose interest just as fast if circumstances change. Their crush duration varies based on personal interest and situation, often lasting from a few weeks to a few months. Understanding Aries' passionate nature helps explain their fleeting or intense feelings.
No relationship, just crush but nothing happened.
Yes to the second
Ohhhhh lol, I don’t know how the “been” got in my heading??
Should be: How long do Aries crush in general?
Do you not?
I know without dating someone that I think they are husband material.
Libra please back away from Aries. I can see the pain coming for you already! LOL
I have a hardest time giving an useful info to this seemingly simple question…🤔
we normally don't crush for too long....not because we're flighty or anything like that but because aries doesn't like stagnant energy or situations....if nothing is happening, if nothing is moving forward with the crush in question. an aries guy might just move on....😢
and yes like alex said, deep psychological issues will not be immediately apparent upon meeting so we might not know right away if someone is a stable partner....:/ we have to spend more time with that person to find out....
A crush and a man thinking you are wife material is two different things.
I have a hardest time giving an useful info to this seemingly simple question…🤔
Look at you looking all sexy in your avi!! 😍😍 🔥🔥
I have a hardest time giving an useful info to this seemingly simple question…🤔
Look at you looking all sexy in your avi!! 😍😍 🔥🔥
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Thanks. Found my pic when I was about 25!
I was actually hot’ but the hair!!! OMG!!! 😂😂
I have a hardest time giving an useful info to this seemingly simple question…🤔
Look at you looking all sexy in your avi!! 😍😍 🔥🔥
Thanks. Found my pic when I was about 25!
I was actually hot’ but the hair!!! OMG!!! 😂😂
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That's 80's Classic style ! 😉
I have a hardest time giving an useful info to this seemingly simple question…🤔
Look at you looking all sexy in your avi!! 😍😍 🔥🔥
Thanks. Found my pic when I was about 25!
I was actually hot’ but the hair!!! OMG!!! 😂😂
That's 80's Classic style ! 😉
Except over there we had only had those big hair for very special occasions. Hair Spray weren’t widely available. 😂😂😂
Is the question how long Aries crushing without asking you to be together?
Or what? 🤷♀️
Libra please back away from Aries. I can see the pain coming for you already! LOL
Lol.
Her backing away will only make him want to pursue. It would be better if she plays dead or shake him off by getting pregnant.
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LOL, you're funny! No, in my experience just announce you're a Libra and he will automatically start receding.
That's usually all I have to do to get Aries running away like I'm covered in feces and flies.
When an Aries has a crush on you, they will lose the infatuation quickly if you pay attention to them. The trick is to dangle the carrot to make them obsessed.
I think it depends on the Aries. I keep hearing Aries like to chase etc; if someone is indifferent towards me or I sense no interest from them I won't pursue it any further.
An Aries once told me "I like it when someone disagrees with me, challenges me and then they change their mind for me"
Maybe it's the game and the winning rather than the chase?
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They sure like their challenges but have you ever watched them losing? Too funny. 🤣 I had a big disagreement with an aries once and he was so sure he was right and so was I but the way he talked... So confident like he could convince the whole jury. Honestly it was so full of shit and I told him so. I still disagreed with him and then he challenged me to bet on it for 100 bucks. I accepted and told him I would gladly take his money. Guess who lost? 💸🤣 I'll admit I did gloat. 🤭
You have to admire their confidence though. 👏
When an Aries has a crush on you, they will lose the infatuation quickly if you pay attention to them. The trick is to dangle the carrot to make them obsessed.
I think it depends on the Aries. I keep hearing Aries like to chase etc; if someone is indifferent towards me or I sense no interest from them I won't pursue it any further.
An Aries once told me "I like it when someone disagrees with me, challenges me and then they change their mind for me"
Maybe it's the game and the winning rather than the chase?
They sure like their challenges but have you ever watched them losing? Too funny. 🤣 I had a big disagreement with an aries once and he was so sure he was right and so was I but the way he talked... So confident like he could convince the whole jury. Honestly it was so full of shit and I told him so. I still disagreed with him and then he challenged me to bet on it for 100 bucks. I accepted and told him I would gladly take his money. Guess who lost? 💸🤣 I'll admit I did gloat. 🤭
You have to admire their confidence though. 👏
The art of the double bluff.
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The art of double fail. 😜
When an Aries has a crush on you, they will lose the infatuation quickly if you pay attention to them. The trick is to dangle the carrot to make them obsessed.
I think it depends on the Aries. I keep hearing Aries like to chase etc; if someone is indifferent towards me or I sense no interest from them I won't pursue it any further.
An Aries once told me "I like it when someone disagrees with me, challenges me and then they change their mind for me"
Maybe it's the game and the winning rather than the chase?
They sure like their challenges but have you ever watched them losing? Too funny. 🤣 I had a big disagreement with an aries once and he was so sure he was right and so was I but the way he talked... So confident like he could convince the whole jury. Honestly it was so full of shit and I told him so. I still disagreed with him and then he challenged me to bet on it for 100 bucks. I accepted and told him I would gladly take his money. Guess who lost? 💸🤣 I'll admit I did gloat. 🤭
You have to admire their confidence though. 👏
The art of the double bluff.
The art of double fail. 😜
He will be pissed off, but secretly admire your bottle.
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He sure was pissed. It was hilarious. 🤭
Libra please back away from Aries. I can see the pain coming for you already! LOL
Lol.
Her backing away will only make him want to pursue. It would be better if she plays dead or shake him off by getting pregnant.
LOL, you're funny! No, in my experience just announce you're a Libra and he will automatically start receding.
That's usually all I have to do to get Aries running away like I'm covered in feces and flies.
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😂😂😂 @ the last sentence
Why do they run away from libras?
When an Aries has a crush on you, they will lose the infatuation quickly if you pay attention to them. The trick is to dangle the carrot to make them obsessed.
I think it depends on the Aries. I keep hearing Aries like to chase etc; if someone is indifferent towards me or I sense no interest from them I won't pursue it any further.
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same 😢
'cause if you're "chasing" someone, that kinda means they're running away from you, right...?
why go after someone who is running away from you and clearly doesn't want you? i never understood that....😢
drama-free life is the best life.... no mind games for me....
also don't care about losing....'cause i understand that no matter where you go, there's always gonna be people who are better at something than you, or know more than you....why compete when you can learn and take notes....?
we normally don't crush for too long....not because we're flighty or anything like that but because aries doesn't like stagnant energy or situations....if nothing is happening, if nothing is moving forward with the crush in question. an aries guy might just move on....😢
The 1st question was bought on because a guy I hung out with about 12 years ago just seems to still be trying to pop into my world every now and again. At the time, he had introduced me to people as “this is G she will be my wife “—
Which got me thinking about the 2nd question and the most recent Aries I met… hmmm 🤔 I wonder if he might call me up one day if he finds himself unattached…, all this thinking bought on by a couple late night drinks and wishful thinking 😉
Libra please back away from Aries. I can see the pain coming for you already! LOL
Lol.
Her backing away will only make him want to pursue. It would be better if she plays dead or shake him off by getting pregnant.
LOL, you're funny! No, in my experience just announce you're a Libra and he will automatically start receding.
That's usually all I have to do to get Aries running away like I'm covered in feces and flies.
😂😂😂 @ the last sentence
Why do they run away from libras?
Libras I've met in real life, tend to reuse my lines, but don't acknowledge the source.
Libras are cool when they get older. The women I think are really organised. The men more than the women tend to upsell their actual abilities; there are exceptions, but the term for it is lying.
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Prone to exaggeration lol
Was Walter a Libra? 😃
Libra please back away from Aries. I can see the pain coming for you already! LOL
Lol.
Her backing away will only make him want to pursue. It would be better if she plays dead or shake him off by getting pregnant.
LOL, you're funny! No, in my experience just announce you're a Libra and he will automatically start receding.
That's usually all I have to do to get Aries running away like I'm covered in feces and flies.
😂😂😂 @ the last sentence
Why do they run away from libras?
Libras I've met in real life, tend to reuse my lines, but don't acknowledge the source.
Libras are cool when they get older. The women I think are really organised. The men more than the women tend to upsell their actual abilities; there are exceptions, but the term for it is lying.
Prone to exaggeration lol
Was Walter a Libra? 😃
Not managed to find the birthdate for Walter Mithoff.
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Pisces?
Libra please back away from Aries. I can see the pain coming for you already! LOL
Lol.
Her backing away will only make him want to pursue. It would be better if she plays dead or shake him off by getting pregnant.
LOL, you're funny! No, in my experience just announce you're a Libra and he will automatically start receding.
That's usually all I have to do to get Aries running away like I'm covered in feces and flies.
😂😂😂 @ the last sentence
Why do they run away from libras?
Libras I've met in real life, tend to reuse my lines, but don't acknowledge the source.
Libras are cool when they get older. The women I think are really organised. The men more than the women tend to upsell their actual abilities; there are exceptions, but the term for it is lying.
Have you ever dated a Libra ?
If yes how was it like? What irritated you the most about her?
I was deeply in love with one but somehow I was never enough to be more than an f buddy, sex was so amazing tho, he still sometimes comes back to try his luck even after he got married, he used to accuse me of instigating fights and rocking the boat when in reality those actions were only a reaction to his behavior towards me.
Only knowingly had sex with one once. It was fun, but not enough for me to repeat it. She was a good person, really quirky. Nothing really irritated me about her I think we had we had some sexual chemistry and enough friendship chemistry, but not enough for a relationship.
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Why not enough to repeat sex?
What would make her into a relationship deal?
Libra please back away from Aries. I can see the pain coming for you already! LOL
Lol.
Her backing away will only make him want to pursue. It would be better if she plays dead or shake him off by getting pregnant.
LOL, you're funny! No, in my experience just announce you're a Libra and he will automatically start receding.
That's usually all I have to do to get Aries running away like I'm covered in feces and flies.
😂😂😂 @ the last sentence
Why do they run away from libras?
Libras I've met in real life, tend to reuse my lines, but don't acknowledge the source.
Libras are cool when they get older. The women I think are really organised. The men more than the women tend to upsell their actual abilities; there are exceptions, but the term for it is lying.
Have you ever dated a Libra ?
If yes how was it like? What irritated you the most about her?
I was deeply in love with one but somehow I was never enough to be more than an f buddy, sex was so amazing tho, he still sometimes comes back to try his luck even after he got married, he used to accuse me of instigating fights and rocking the boat when in reality those actions were only a reaction to his behavior towards me.
Only knowingly had sex with one once. It was fun, but not enough for me to repeat it. She was a good person, really quirky. Nothing really irritated me about her I think we had we had some sexual chemistry and enough friendship chemistry, but not enough for a relationship.
Why not enough to repeat sex?
What would make her into a relationship deal?
Was gonna ask the same!
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Great minds think alike 😉
And we both love Aries men!!
Libra please back away from Aries. I can see the pain coming for you already! LOL
Lol.
Her backing away will only make him want to pursue. It would be better if she plays dead or shake him off by getting pregnant.
LOL, you're funny! No, in my experience just announce you're a Libra and he will automatically start receding.
That's usually all I have to do to get Aries running away like I'm covered in feces and flies.
😂😂😂 @ the last sentence
Why do they run away from libras?
Libras I've met in real life, tend to reuse my lines, but don't acknowledge the source.
Libras are cool when they get older. The women I think are really organised. The men more than the women tend to upsell their actual abilities; there are exceptions, but the term for it is lying.
Prone to exaggeration lol
Was Walter a Libra? 😃
Not managed to find the birthdate for Walter Mithoff.
Pisces?
Think that's when the book was published. Would be cool if he was Pisces.
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Sag lol
Walter Mitty
Britannica
Born: December 8, 1894 Columbus Ohio ; Died: November 2, 1961 (aged 66) New York
Libra please back away from Aries. I can see the pain coming for you already! LOL
Lol.
Her backing away will only make him want to pursue. It would be better if she plays dead or shake him off by getting pregnant.
LOL, you're funny! No, in my experience just announce you're a Libra and he will automatically start receding.
That's usually all I have to do to get Aries running away like I'm covered in feces and flies.
😂😂😂 @ the last sentence
Why do they run away from libras?
Libras I've met in real life, tend to reuse my lines, but don't acknowledge the source.
Libras are cool when they get older. The women I think are really organised. The men more than the women tend to upsell their actual abilities; there are exceptions, but the term for it is lying.
Have you ever dated a Libra ?
If yes how was it like? What irritated you the most about her?
I was deeply in love with one but somehow I was never enough to be more than an f buddy, sex was so amazing tho, he still sometimes comes back to try his luck even after he got married, he used to accuse me of instigating fights and rocking the boat when in reality those actions were only a reaction to his behavior towards me.
Only knowingly had sex with one once. It was fun, but not enough for me to repeat it. She was a good person, really quirky. Nothing really irritated me about her I think we had we had some sexual chemistry and enough friendship chemistry, but not enough for a relationship.
Why not enough to repeat sex?
What would make her into a relationship deal?
If it doesn't blow my mind I'm wasting my time. Pointless having sex for the sake of it; I'm not 18 anymore.
Already answered the latter. Great what I call friendship chemistry and bed rocking sex.
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+1 on mind blowing sex
and also it’s important to be able to talk and actually like that person for who they are.
Libra please back away from Aries. I can see the pain coming for you already! LOL
Lol.
Her backing away will only make him want to pursue. It would be better if she plays dead or shake him off by getting pregnant.
LOL, you're funny! No, in my experience just announce you're a Libra and he will automatically start receding.
That's usually all I have to do to get Aries running away like I'm covered in feces and flies.
😂😂😂 @ the last sentence
Why do they run away from libras?
Libras I've met in real life, tend to reuse my lines, but don't acknowledge the source.
Libras are cool when they get older. The women I think are really organised. The men more than the women tend to upsell their actual abilities; there are exceptions, but the term for it is lying.
Prone to exaggeration lol
Was Walter a Libra? 😃
Not managed to find the birthdate for Walter Mithoff.
Pisces?
Think that's when the book was published. Would be cool if he was Pisces.
Sag lol
Walter Mitty
Britannica
Born: December 8, 1894 Columbus Ohio ; Died: November 2, 1961 (aged 66) New York
Funniest thing posted today. If we a Capricorn he would have sued.
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Lol 😂
Moon and Mars in Aries! 🙃
When an Aries has a crush on you, they will lose the infatuation quickly if you pay attention to them. The trick is to dangle the carrot to make them obsessed.
I think it depends on the Aries. I keep hearing Aries like to chase etc; if someone is indifferent towards me or I sense no interest from them I won't pursue it any further.
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I wish I underwood meaning of the games.
Not that I want to play but I want to understand.
It seems surreal to me that somebody doing this. For what purposes? I think I would be pissed.
Luckily never had this shit happened to me.
Not with Aries not ever.
I always thought Aries way is - I like you and if you feel the same - let’s try and see how life will be now when we’ve met! That’s it!
And soon after we’ve met - ‘I am not going anywhere’ - THATS IT!
I am feeling like ‘normal’ way isn’t the way anymore.
When an Aries has a crush on you, they will lose the infatuation quickly if you pay attention to them. The trick is to dangle the carrot to make them obsessed.
I think it depends on the Aries. I keep hearing Aries like to chase etc; if someone is indifferent towards me or I sense no interest from them I won't pursue it any further.
I wish I underwood meaning of the games.
Not that I want to play but I want to understand.
It seems surreal to me that somebody doing this. For what purposes? I think I would be pissed.
Luckily never had this shit happened to me.
Not with Aries not ever.
I always thought Aries way is - I like you and if you feel the same - let’s try and see how life will be now when we’ve met! That’s it!
And soon after we’ve met - ‘I am not going anywhere’ - THATS IT!
I am feeling like ‘normal’ way isn’t the way anymore.
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So true....dating is so fecked up now!
we normally don't crush for too long....not because we're flighty or anything like that but because aries doesn't like stagnant energy or situations....if nothing is happening, if nothing is moving forward with the crush in question. an aries guy might just move on....😢
The 1st question was bought on because a guy I hung out with about 12 years ago just seems to still be trying to pop into my world every now and again. At the time, he had introduced me to people as “this is G she will be my wife “—
Which got me thinking about the 2nd question and the most recent Aries I met… hmmm 🤔 I wonder if he might call me up one day if he finds himself unattached…, all this thinking bought on by a couple late night drinks and wishful thinking 😉
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if you are still on his mind after 12 years, you must have been very memorable and special to him...🙂
When an Aries has a crush on you, they will lose the infatuation quickly if you pay attention to them. The trick is to dangle the carrot to make them obsessed.
I think it depends on the Aries. I keep hearing Aries like to chase etc; if someone is indifferent towards me or I sense no interest from them I won't pursue it any further.
I wish I underwood meaning of the games.
Not that I want to play but I want to understand.
It seems surreal to me that somebody doing this. For what purposes? I think I would be pissed.
Luckily never had this shit happened to me.
Not with Aries not ever.
I always thought Aries way is - I like you and if you feel the same - let’s try and see how life will be now when we’ve met! That’s it!
And soon after we’ve met - ‘I am not going anywhere’ - THATS IT!
I am feeling like ‘normal’ way isn’t the way anymore.
So true....dating is so fecked up now!
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Right? You like me or not - there is no rocket science! Chasing seems so low. And stupid. Like what - you going to ‘pretend’ and mess up with my head? It’s sounds so disrespectful.
When an Aries has a crush on you, they will lose the infatuation quickly if you pay attention to them. The trick is to dangle the carrot to make them obsessed.
I think it depends on the Aries. I keep hearing Aries like to chase etc; if someone is indifferent towards me or I sense no interest from them I won't pursue it any further.
I wish I underwood meaning of the games.
Not that I want to play but I want to understand.
It seems surreal to me that somebody doing this. For what purposes? I think I would be pissed.
Luckily never had this shit happened to me.
Not with Aries not ever.
I always thought Aries way is - I like you and if you feel the same - let’s try and see how life will be now when we’ve met! That’s it!
And soon after we’ve met - ‘I am not going anywhere’ - THATS IT!
I am feeling like ‘normal’ way isn’t the way anymore.
So true....dating is so fecked up now!
Right? You like me or not - there is no rocket science! Chasing seems so low. And stupid. Like what - you going to ‘pretend’ and mess up with my head? It’s sounds so disrespectful.
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Yes the head game thing is so silly
I'm not on any dating apps, but from what I've read a lot of the chasing and flaking is down to having so many options. Likewise the aggressive nasty comments are down to not having any options like "I wasn't interested anyway".
I think a lot of people chase, get bored of being messed about then the person who is there no. 1 choice comes back and there no. 2 or 3 choice gets rejected.
Oh! That’s the ‘game plan’ and ‘big idea’?
I am feeling so glad I don’t have to DO THAT!
How are they determine ##? By picture images?
I would want to see when that ‘Hunter’ spent so long juggling nominees and finally picked #1 and she showed up 100lb bigger with tank oxygen!
Happened to a friend in RL! I posted that. It was hysterical…for me. Not for him. 🤦♀️😂😂😂
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If you thought this was wife material..
But, It didn’t work out,(for whatever reason) how long are you crushing?
If, it peaked your interest but it didn’t work out (Because of circumstances) How long are you crushing?